behavior towards shiva is unacceptable - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shivanii12

wait!!

When did dhara call him that?!

Did I miss that scene?!

one of the episodes ........they were in kitchen

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

u remember dhara also called him that........it broke my heart when shiva said since when i became that for u......

i love the way he is.....just that everyone is enjoying and injured shiva is working....maybe that triggered my emotions .......😒

Yeah, I remember Dhara also said that. I left that out because she didn't use words like jaahil or gawar explicitly unlike the others, and she also didn't mean it in a bad, taunting way at that time.

That was Dhara 1.0. I have no idea what this DHara 2.0 thinks 🤢

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

pls dont misunderstand me ..........i didnt mean it as some low level work.....i know he loves his work......he has mentioned it once and he doesnt care for what others think or say ......but here he is injured too.....i dont like it when everyone is having fun and only he is working.......

I did not misunderstand you🙂 and u have all the right to keep ua POV. And I get what you want to say. But at the end of the day it is Shiva’s wish to do it and I think he does it because he likes it and the family doesn’t think that there is anything wrong with what he wants to do. So they let him be.

When a person wants to become a doctor or an engineer or anything else and starts studying for it, there are sacrifices they need to make for it. An outsider watching might think that whoa bechara he is doing so much for becoming a doctor why doesn’t his family help him and shares his load? But the family and the person understand that the load his to bear. He is doing this because its his choice and his family lets him be because they do not see anything wrong with his hardwork.

The labor work Shiva chose is his passion. It’s his wish. He wants to do it and he does it. The family doesn’t see anything wrong with it so they let him be. But outsiders do not understand either of their POV. About being injured, lets all agree that PS is not treating their wounds as seriously as we all r.

Also Dev had tried to help him unload from the truck remember? What did he do? Stopped him. For him this is his work and no one else needs to take that load from him because he is more than willing and happy and strong to do this.

😊 The example I gave may seem non sense to you. But thats how I m trying to make sense of it

However, I do agree with you that Shiva being injured is still doing all the physical work. They could have shown a scene where his brothers try to help him, but he refuses because he likes doing the work he's doing. Right now, it's coming out like no one cares for him and he has to do physical work even though he's injured

I know this is a altogether different topic. But I want Raavi to cook for him. Make some special dish and make him eat in their room away from all the prying eyes.

He wanted a big thankyou, I want her to do that. This will also be a progress from Raavi's side. Shiva ke side se progress we have already started seeing.

Shiva loves food a lot, he will become happy. I hope this happens bcoz batwara wala drama one-month tak kheenchne ke baad bhi we didn't got Raavi cooking for Shiva atleast this time they can do that.

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

I know this is a altogether different topic. But I want Raavi to cook for him. Make some special dish and make him eat in their room away from all the prying eyes.

He wanted a big thankyou, I want her to do that. This will also be a progress from Raavi's side. Shiva ke side se progress we have already started seeing.

Shiva loves food a lot, he will become happy. I hope this happens bcoz batwara wala drama one-month tak kheenchne ke baad bhi we didn't got Raavi cooking for Shiva atleast this time they can do that.

some day for sure........but right now they need rest.......i want both of dem to do something for eachother at the same time....as a surprise...

I think there must be a reason and it will be used as a track in the future and about the injury I think they have conviently forgotten about it, if raavi can cook food the same night after getting injured like that then shiva tu chataan Pandya hai

Shiva practically does all the work . The manual work of loading and unloading, sitting at the store, cutting wood for cooking everyday. There was a pre wedding scene in which he was even shown taking care of the accounts.what the hell is Dev doing with his MBA degree ?he was even the topper. 🤣🤣 Krish does not even know what subjects are there in his college, pure din awaragardi karta rehta hai.i can understand gombi taking it a little easy after working hard for so many years, but what about the other brothers 🤧?

The poor guy was limping today 😣.

But I think there is a reason why he is shown to do so much work.it is to convey his hardworking and selfless nature. Perhaps raavi will introspect all these instances in future and be proud of her husband❤️. She will realise his worth and also realise how big an asset he is for the store and family business.😁

Hey, while I understand your fury but, I think he is shown as a man of great might!

Maybe, everyone has seen him laborious since childhood, and now it has become a part of normal behaviour. Happens with siblings a lot. For example, my sister won't even move a glass whenever I am around as I have been her primary caregiver all my life.

Sometimes, family members too take you for granted.

It's normal for Shiva to slog while others make big plans and brainstorm, maybe a routine all their lives. I think the track will not lead to his insecurity but will deepen his belief that he isn't the right man for Raavi.

He loves his work, he is comfortable in his skin, but this track might open a can of worms for him not being just good enough for Raavi!

Originally posted by: Transference

Hey, while I understand your fury but, I think he is shown as a man of great might!

Maybe, everyone has seen him laborious since childhood, and now it has become a part of normal behaviour. Happens with siblings a lot. For example, my sister won't even move a glass whenever I am around as I have been her primary caregiver all my life.

Sometimes, family members too take you for granted.

It's normal for Shiva to slog while others make big plans and brainstorm, maybe a routine all their lives. I think the track will not lead to his insecurity but will deepen his belief that he isn't the right man for Raavi.

He loves his work, he is comfortable in his skin, but this track might open a can of worms for him not being just good enough for Raavi!

This makes sense.maybe it's nothing new for them.shiva has been like that his whole life. Maybe that's why raavi is also not getting affected by this since she has also seen him like this growing up. She only felt bad when others pointed this out and demeaned him.

Seeing this makes me feel more for shiva🥺.

He is such a selfless and strong guy.dev is also injured, and he was incapable of carrying a sack when fit🤣. Krish to is his bacha, and he will never let gombi do any work.we have seen the effect his bruised back had on the tender mind of chota shiva🥺🥺. So that leaves shiva to shoulder all the work for his family 😣😣. I am falling for him a bit more after today's episode, his vulnerability, his insecurities 😞😞. I just hope raavi gives him all the loveeee he deserves ❣️❤️❤️