Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 93

Pandya brothers hail Dhara for her upbringing. What upbringing are they talking about?

1. Pampering the boys to such an extent that they are completely blinded by her love and refuse to see any other woman except their bhabhi? If thats the case why did they get into the hassle of getting married? They could have lived with their bhabhi for their entire life!

2. Not teaching your kids even basic cooking!! Come on this is the 21st century. Dhara could have atleast taught the guys basic cooking like making tea, omelet, sandwich. This will not make the guys lose their manhood!

3. Emotionally blackmailing your kids so that they dance to your tunes? If you say this I will leave the house, if you do this I will not talk to you. What kind of a parent are you? You treat your kids like they are puppets and you are holding the strings.

Dhara needs to question her parenting and for once Gaumbi needs to stop pacifying her, show her the mirror and tell her where she went wrong!

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Exactly! With intial episodes where Dhara made them clean house after they mad mess, when I saw them trying to cook for Dhara when she was upset, albeit messy, I thought they'd know something.

She definitely didn't raise her kids well. Being a good parent is not about loving and mollycoddling kids. It's about raising them well with teaching them to be independent. Raising them to be adults. She gravely failed in that department. If Gaumbi's the only good husband then you know Suman raised her son well. And Dhara failed to make them realize value and importance of all relationships in their life.

Considering the whole set up of the store, I figured they would sometimes take over the house duties. My mom grew up in a family where there was a family store, and she said that whenever her parents were busy at the store, she and her siblings needed to take care of the chores. As such, she knew how to make basic dishes very early on in her life...

Would've loved to see either Dev or Shiva be masters of making at least one dish because that's the only dish they know how to cook. Even coffee/tea... I know so many of my male cousins who know how to cook/enjoy cooking. I think it's a personal insult to all those guys to repeatedly show in ITV that only "sanskaari" girls know how to cook and that's how they win they're husband's heart.

I'd rather see DevTa romance where Dev whips up some undhiyu or biryani for Rishita and Rishita commenting on how good his cooking skills are than whatever we are subjected to

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Pandya brothers hail Dhara for her upbringing. What upbringing are they talking about?

1. Pampering the boys to such an extent that they are completely blinded by her love and refuse to see any other woman except their bhabhi? If thats the case why did they get into the hassle of getting married? They could have lived with their bhabhi for their entire life!

2. Not teaching your kids even basic cooking!! Come on this is the 21st century. Dhara could have atleast taught the guys basic cooking like making tea, omelet, sandwich. This will not make the guys lose their manhood!

3. Emotionally blackmailing your kids so that they dance to your tunes? If you say this I will leave the house, if you do this I will not talk to you. What kind of a parent are you? You treat your kids like they are puppets and you are holding the strings.

Dhara needs to question her parenting and for once Gaumbi needs to stop pacifying her, show her the mirror and tell her where she went wrong!

Very well said!! 👏👏 This is not Pandya Store show anymore it has become Dhara ki Duniya 🤮

I am so glad to have this forum to share my thoughts and rants! I should stop as need to sleep😴

😂

Originally posted by: manny136

Gaumbi saying shiva Krish and rishita deserve punishment but not raavi aww he totally forgot about Dev lol

nobody ever remembers dev except for rishita 🤣

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Pandya brothers hail Dhara for her upbringing. What upbringing are they talking about?

1. Pampering the boys to such an extent that they are completely blinded by her love and refuse to see any other woman except their bhabhi? If thats the case why did they get into the hassle of getting married? They could have lived with their bhabhi for their entire life!

2. Not teaching your kids even basic cooking!! Come on this is the 21st century. Dhara could have atleast taught the guys basic cooking like making tea, omelet, sandwich. This will not make the guys lose their manhood!

3. Emotionally blackmailing your kids so that they dance to your tunes? If you say this I will leave the house, if you do this I will not talk to you. What kind of a parent are you? You treat your kids like they are puppets and you are holding the strings.

Dhara needs to question her parenting and for once Gaumbi needs to stop pacifying her, show her the mirror and tell her where she went wrong!

Wow Nupur..perfectly summarised all our rants...i just hope someone from the writing team sees this

Dhara is taking too much screen space without being on screen...all the couples dialogues revolve around her and now am unable enjoy a shvi scene because of this dhara jaap😡

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

nobody ever remembers dev except for rishita 🤣

Don't know if you noticed. But when Dhara found Rishita first, she screamed legit everyone's name except Dev's. I was so confused since Dev was Rishita's husband, but Dhara conveniently forgot about him..

And am not at all liking this random huggies between dhara and her bachee🤢

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Exactly! With intial episodes where Dhara made them clean house after they mad mess, when I saw them trying to cook for Dhara when she was upset, albeit messy, I thought they'd know something.

She definitely didn't raise her kids well. Being a good parent is not about loving and mollycoddling kids. It's about raising them well with teaching them to be independent. Raising them to be adults. She gravely failed in that department. If Gaumbi's the only good husband then you know Suman raised her son well. And Dhara failed to make them realize value and importance of all relationships in their life.

Exactly all the three guys have not grown up. They are still kids and with Dhara's constant interference they will probably never grow into adults! 🤔

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Its like Dhara is God, she has created Pandya family and now each and every person in the Pandya family will dance to her tunes. I find her character selfish and annoying, nowhere close to being motherly🤢

especially after her current actions

in spite of all her controlling nature and faults, the one thing she had going for her was that she was a good mother

with her thrashing to krish and shiva that broke too 😕

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

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Mein bhi iss umeed se show dekh rahe hua.. .. Par ye writers dhara ke mahanta aur rone dhone se baar nikale ..🤔