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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Reshmi - yes,very true, it hold true for any marriage to be successful...Taali ek haath se nahin bajti...😃

Adjustments, trust, love, forgiving...the list can go on...😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aanchal15

@Reshmi - yes,very true, it hold true for any marriage to be successful...Taali ek haath se nahin bajti...😃

Adjustments, trust, love, forgiving...the list can go on...😃

The bold are the most important ones😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Reshmi/Ashu/Nidhi - dekha udi baba ke pravachanon ka asar, hum kitna gyaan, baatt rahe hain,😉😆...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aanchal15

@Reshmi/Ashu/Nidhi - dekha udi baba ke pravachanon ka asar, hum kitna gyaan, baatt rahe hain,😉😆...


hahahahaha🤣Waise..I suggest don't take that baba too seriously otherwise we all might leave our ghar-baar and leave for himalayas.🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Is this navya forum or shadi ka forum? ????

Agree with all of u, shadi means compromise, but the benefits, far too outweigh the compromise, so dont mind it.

Shilpa, shall comment on u r post soon.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nidhi82


hahahahaha🤣Waise..I suggest don't take that baba too seriously otherwise we all might leave our ghar-baar and leave for himalayas.🤣

I'm lucky that I dont understand his pravachans...Need 2-3 retelecasts to understand the dialogues...I prefer to avoid those wonderful words when i see the retelecast/videos.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Reshmi/Nidhi/Ashu...🤣🤣🤣 @asha - yes, the benefits outweigh, enormously, no doubts at all...am already experencing that...😃
@Reshmi - u need retelecasts to understand... ..yeah, even Anant 's pravanchan and those words were beyond me...
Edited by Aanchal15 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What thought provoking opinions...great discussion everyone...

BTW Shilpa, congrats on ur 1st post! And on what a topic... going where angels fear to tread...

Quickly skimmed the fab posts but looks like no one has yet brought up the elephant in the room ...or am I the only one?...Any guesses on what it may be?...that which strikes fear into every parent's heart regarding their betis...(as well as betas too IMO )...shall spell it out (with the inevitable wrong spelling )when I return later if no one else hasnt dared to...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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congo on ur first post..🥳

parents always show some resistance at first coz the children are always not correct in choosing their life partners..😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great and even more thought provoking replies, everyone. Thank You so much.

Will get back to you all once I am in a calm state of mind. Suffering from Monday blues and flustered at work.

But as I was glancing though the posts, 2 things caught my attention :
  1. Religion - Why is religion so engrained in our society? Aren't we human beings at the end of the day and isn't that greater/ above all else. We have read/come across stories were kids were killed because they fell in Love with someone outside their caste. Why? What is the thought process behind their thinking. Are we so prejudiced and pre-determined in our thinking that we can't accept change? Are parents succumbed to society pressures again or is it the family honour that becomes questionable. At the end of the day, are all these greater than your kids happiness/life?
  2. Age - We have seen situations where girls are forced into marriage immediately after they graduate. Why? Why can't they work, meet new people? Are parents again afraid that their kids might do something that is again "not acceptable"?? What should the girls/youngsters do at this stage?
Thoughts??

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