Falling in LOVE..a taboo? - Page 2

Love marriage - a taboo...yes, very true...in some families,at least..they find it, repugnant...🤔

Man being a social animal, is answerable to, society,...most parents think.,so,.🤔... thankfully, mine don't...,, they were extremely liberal, to allow me n my siblings, to choose our soul-mates..❤️.🤗

As jaysp rightly said, they are scared for us,n yes, I have witnessed many failed marriages, both love n arranged 🥺...parents are not always right, after all they are human too, ...to err is human...its just that, they are overprotective,and have our best interests, at heart ... hence, their fears and its, repercussions...they feel that ,the amalgamation of two different cultures, can be a little, difficult 😕...can't blame them...but I feel only caste, creed , religion should not be the criteria for marriage...they have to look, beyond...the most important thing, whether the person your child has chosen, is good, caring..etc...hence I feel they need to try, and understand and get to know that concerned, person, better,before coming to a, decision.n should you find everything okay, go ahead, n support them, by showering your blessings, if not, try to shed light on the short comings.,and make them see reason...😊.

A girl has to make, all kinds of adjustments , once she marries, into a family...to what extent, depends upon them🤔...I have seen, same caste marriages,where the girl is facing lots of problems , because of the stark differences, in lifestyle...😕...so the question of adjustments due to different castes, religion, does not arise in this case,... at least..

Regarding the children, I feel they need to try ,and talk it out with their parents, in an amicable manner, take the help ,of a respected elder/acquaintance/relative etc..if things do not work, in your favour, but ,do not ever think ,of taking any, desparate measures, just to prove, your point...it is just, ludicrous...😒

However, I feel, most minds, in the metropolitan/bigger cities have undergone a drastic change in their outlook, 😊...barring, a minute/negligible few..😔.

As for Meeta,, she feels betrayed for having been ,kept in the dark.😔..and yes,I agree she seems to have concluded, that Anant is not good enough, without even trying to get to know him 😲,not to forget, that, she is not ready to hear out , both her daughters😒..she feels, Navya is wrong, for she has committed a blunder...😔

A thought provoking post,...from u,Shilpa...🤗

I agree to all of you that falling in love is still considered out of bounds in our society.But I have seen drastic changes in the mentality and way people perceive love marriages.

20-25 years ago, thinks were very different, we hardly used to come across couples who had love marriages.

But now, every other couple I meet is in a relationship or has had a love marriage.😊

Regarding the parents point of view, I think its completely fair on their part of being extra cautious.

After all no parent wants problems in his/her child.A proper and soulful communication is what is needed for the present generation.

At the end its up to us, how we project ourselves in front of our parents.If our actions are one of responsibility and maturity, parents do get our message across.They do try and apprehend our views and our will.

Falling is love is not a sin...it has never been and it will never be.😃It is one of the most beautiful feeling in the world.And everyone has the right to experience that once.😳😃

I am a strong believer in love and love marriages...and just want to say, if you the find your right partner..go all out to get him/her!!!😃

Thank you, thank you Aanchal🤗

Falling in love is not a taboo but meetas behavior is somewhat weird makes us think why parents of today are behaving this strict with their children!!!!she literally is forcing navya to not stand firm with her decision of loving someone.moreover she didnt give anant a chance to prove himself which actually renu di gave him.honestly speaking i didnt expect this kinda reaction from navyas family rather i thought anants family will create chaos..so if navyas family is not granting the situation then lot more hungama will be seen when anants family will get to know the facts.creatives here are trying to impose a wrong idea by showing navyas family open minded yet so conservative at this point of time.anyway the idea of love a taboo is not the concept of modern india so i strongly disagree love being a taboo

Once you get married and stay together , then only these things will come into picture, and that may be the reason of failure of love marriages .

I am from a state where love marriage is still kept a taboo. If an elder one does a love marriage ,

it is difficult to get an alliance for the younger one as well .

Regarding me , I cannot live with and adjust to the faith and traditions of another religion .

So no chance of love marriage for me 😳

The same is applicable for arranged marriage also. Whether love or arranged the success of a marriage depends on the love and understanding of the couple.