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Posted: 14 years ago
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i totally don't understand your post at all. can you summarize more clearly? i don't understand what you're analyzing and comparing.


completely agree with ritz' opinion/post. navya should've listened to ridz. if she stayed in the class it would have meant confronting the issue and making it clear to everyone that this was a stupid mistake. by running out, she's going to cause more talk and rumors. but i guess she's a very shy and sensitive girl. she just ran for the door.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I've just one question..reffering to Ritz post-
Was it "dat" easy for a girl like Navya to stay back @ dat point of time when d whole class laughing @ u? Do u think its actually dat easy be clam n thinking dat "probably its just a mistake" so lets see what he has to say.Yes its surely not her fault,cant blame Anant either..but she did tell him to check though somehow he couldnt see it,but how'd she know dat he couldnt see it coz of his friend...

Thing is dat being a sensitive n "not" at all bold girl,A girl who cant even speak properly wid a guy making an eye contact n here u see a bunch of pics of urs wid a guy that to infront of ur classmates, how ur brains 'd work properly?? :S

I liked today's epi.. d way it was shown..esp dat "presentation" fisaco . If it was for real..A girl (like Navya) 'd have done d same..

We belongs to 21st century 4sure but that doesnt mean each n every girl is bold enough to take such thing like a "pinch of salt"..

& abt Soniya issue- I have d same opinion what Anusha said..I actually agree wid her post :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

my question is if navya became joke of class then anant also plus first time anant opened with another girl other then his sister ,he also became the joke of class,plus he also belongs to strict family then he dint look embarised like navya ,???????????????


do only girls have dignity ,boys dont have??????????????????


See, woman - Anant's a male. In our country, no matter how strict a boy's family is, he knows he is going to get through things his female counterpart would have to face hell for. Anant is not like that, he's regretful and he apologized as well, but somehow there's this fixed difference in the indigenous characteristics of both the sexes, which is why it made Navya react on a higher level.

Hope am clear. 🤔
Edited by -Kanky- - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kgh212121

i totally don't understand your post at all. can you summarize more clearly? i don't understand what you're analyzing and comparing.


completely agree with ritz' opinion/post. navya should've listened to ridz. if she stayed in the class it would have meant confronting the issue and making it clear to everyone that this was a stupid mistake. by running out, she's going to cause more talk and rumors. but i guess she's a very shy and sensitive girl. she just ran for the door.


My posts are not comprehensive, mostly. Strangely, am not sorry for that but I'd like to enlighten you.

My post is about how Navya reacts in two different ways to insults she is exposed to. She compromises with her dignity in Sonia's case and stands all her shit that she spoke in the hospital whereas her recent insult in the classroom, she couldn't stand - brimming tears, impulsive actions and blurriness overruled her. She's brought up in such a way that the first insult I talked about is considered indigenously feminine and 'noble' but the latter is unacceptable, she can't let some guy click his pictures with her. Both incidents aimed downright at her dignity, but only one soared heights. Actually, a LOT of girls are just like her, prefect reminisce.

Have I made myself clear to you now? =]
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: piya2025

I've just one question..reffering to Ritz post-
Was it "dat" easy for a girl like Navya to stay back @ dat point of time when d whole class laughing @ u? Do u think its actually dat easy be clam n thinking dat "probably its just a mistake" so lets see what he has to say.Yes its surely not her fault,cant blame Anant either..but she did tell him to check though somehow he couldnt see it,but how'd she know dat he couldnt see it coz of his friend...

Thing is dat being a sensitive n "not" at all bold girl,A girl who cant even speak properly wid a guy making an eye contact n here u see a bunch of pics of urs wid a guy that to infront of ur classmates, how ur brains 'd work properly?? :S

I liked today's epi.. d way it was shown..esp dat "presentation" fisaco . If it was for real..A girl (like Navya) 'd have done d same..

We belongs to 21st century 4sure but that doesnt mean each n every girl is bold enough to take such thing like a "pinch of salt"..

& abt Soniya issue- I have d same opinion what Anusha said..I actually agree wid her post :)


Oish, were you asking me these questions?

Anyway, let me be courteous and answer. No, Navya should not have stayed back, I never wanted her to. She's not that substance, altogether who's bold enough to face something so embarrassing. I admit, I am not like her and I find her and a lot of girls really funny but they are typically what is expected out of us ladies - sensitivity, decency and braininess - if you got that, it's all cool. If not, rot in hell until you dun elope or something. Basically, I agree - it ain't easy for her to take the presentation fiasco leniently.


Edited by -Kanky- - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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finally, i found time 2 reply ...so here it goes...

let me consider the two situations u have mentioned here- sonia insulting navya and navya being embarrassed in front of the whole class...

we all know sonia is a nasty piece of work and so does navya...probably thats why she dint give a damn 2 the insults sonia was throwing at her..also Sonia's words did not have any profound implications on navya's life...but that was not the case yesterday...being insulted in front of a person is one thing, but in front of a whole class is altogether different, that too in the presence of a professor...as someone pointed out, things would have become worse for navya had this been brought 2 her parents' notice..also, starting from now, her classmates will start teasing her wid anant...to me, navya is a girl who hates to be in the spotlight for the wrong reasons...yesterday might have well been the first time for her...i guess her impulsiveness got the better of her, which is why she wanted 2 run away from the class and dint have the heart 2 forgive anant...anant, as you pointed out , is the least likely person on earth to do this...navya, on the other hand, does not know about nimisha...so naturally, she has no option but 2 believe that anant has intentionally done something wid the cd...so, we shall wait for 2day's phone convo scene and see if navya is still holding on to that incident...if she is tactful enough, she would talk to anant and get the thing cleared...

all in all...the presentation thing was an amalgam of confusions...and as for anant and navya, i think it would be fair on my part to say that they are 'victims of circumstances'...
Edited by madhu_sridhar - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@K- No i was asking d question in general,reffering to Ritz post mainly though..so not a problem who is replying..
Ahh,,anyway if u actually find girls like Navya funny,den i dont think i have anything to say..🤔but as u've agreed to d whole point..so dats it i guess.:)

Thanks..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhu_sridhar

finally, i found time 2 reply ...so here it goes...


let me consider the two situations u have mentioned here- sonia insulting navya and navya being embarrassed in front of the whole class...

we all know sonia is a nasty piece of work and so does navya...probably thats why she dint give a damn 2 the insults sonia was throwing at her..also Sonia's words did not have any profound implications on navya's life...but that was not the case yesterday...being insulted in front of a person is one thing, but in front of a whole class is altogether different, that too in the presence of a professor...as someone pointed out, things would have become worse for navya had this been brought 2 her parents' notice..also, starting from now, her classmates will start teasing her wid anant...to me, navya is a girl who hates to be in the spotlight for the wrong reasons...yesterday might have well been the first time for her...i guess her impulsiveness got the better of her, which is why she wanted 2 run away from the class and dint have the heart 2 forgive anant...anant, as you pointed out , is the least likely person on earth to do this...navya, on the other hand, does not know about nimisha...so naturally, she has no option but 2 believe that anant has intentionally done something wid the cd...so, we shall wait for 2day's phone convo scene and see if navya is still holding on to that incident...if she is tactful enough, she would talk to anant and get the thing cleared...

all in all...the presentation thing was an amalgam of confusions...and as for anant and navya, i think it would be fair on my part to say that they are 'victims of circumstances'...


This is supposed to be decently an intelligent way of putting it, Madhu. I likey. Anyhow, psychologically, insult done in a closed room could actually have a deeper impact than a social scene of embarrassment, you know which is why this thought aroused, like I thought of it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: piya2025

I've just one question..reffering to Ritz post-
Was it "dat" easy for a girl like Navya to stay back @ dat point of time when d whole class laughing @ u? Do u think its actually dat easy be clam n thinking dat "probably its just a mistake" so lets see what he has to say.Yes its surely not her fault,cant blame Anant either..but she did tell him to check though somehow he couldnt see it,but how'd she know dat he couldnt see it coz of his friend...

Thing is dat being a sensitive n "not" at all bold girl,A girl who cant even speak properly wid a guy making an eye contact n here u see a bunch of pics of urs wid a guy that to infront of ur classmates, how ur brains 'd work properly?? :S

I liked today's epi.. d way it was shown..esp dat "presentation" fisaco . If it was for real..A girl (like Navya) 'd have done d same..

We belongs to 21st century 4sure but that doesnt mean each n every girl is bold enough to take such thing like a "pinch of salt"..

& abt Soniya issue- I have d same opinion what Anusha said..I actually agree wid her post :)



Piya...me here to answer your question😳!As I agreed with Anushka, I can see that the way Navya's character has been built, it was rational of her to run away!But once she was out, and Ritz came in to console her and said...come back to the class coz its not your fault...thats the time I thought that Navya shd have listened to Ritz. I understand that a girl so shy was unable to face the situation and thats why she just ran out. But once she was out and there were friends who stood by her, she shd have gathered the courage to go back. Not that i am disappointed that she did not go back!Thats the way her character has been sketched...it all felt normal since she is a shy, introvert kinda girl.😳
But I wud have liked it if she wud go back to the class!Coz finally, she will be doing that right..she aint leaving coming to collge just becoz of that incident!!It wud have shown the strength of her friendship,her courage and her "not being wrong or guilty" if she wud return!
But I agree with Anushka...its Navya's character that has been sketched this way..and I understand why she cud not go back!!!😳
Love,
Ritz!😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oish, were you asking me these questions?

Anyway, let me be courteous and answer. No, Navya should not have stayed back, I never wanted her to. She's not that substance, altogether who's bold enough to face something so embarrassing. I admit, I am not like her and I find her and a lot of girls really funny but they are typically what is expected out of us ladies - sensitivity, decency and braininess - if you got that, it's all cool. If not, rot in hell until you dun elope or something. Basically, I agree - it ain't easy for her to take the presentation fiasco leniently.




Kanks, she just asked a question..y are you so upset(@bold)??we can have difference of opinions but can assure being respectful to each other!Hope I am not asking much!😊
TC and cool down..life can be fun if you take everything that comes your way positively and lovingly!😳
Love,
Ritz😳
Edited by rituloveskmh - 14 years ago

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