Why is it unacceptable for a girl not to know how to cook? *DT Note P6 - Page 3

I disagree with the thread and most of the comments made here.

The whole thing did look scripted to me. If she is from a middle class family, common, how can anyone not know that you need tea leaves to make tea? Even if the girl has not entered the kitchen, she would have gone to the shop to buy the groceries once in a while.

Originally posted by: vasu_2013

The whole thing did look scripted to me. If she is from a middle class family, common, how can anyone not know that you need tea leaves to make tea? Even if the girl has not entered the kitchen, she would have gone to the shop to buy the groceries once in a while.

If this is all made up for comedy sake, I feel a little sorry for the girl as I thought she looked hurt in the last episode. But cheer up Shivani, cooking is just another skill. You know as much about cooking as I know about knitting.. There is always a tomorrow !!

I have to agree.. Thank you Janaki for making this post because everytime I watch NB6 and I see them making fun of Shivangi that's exactly what I think. Why is it unacceptable?

I'm in my 20's and regarding cooking..its not something I can do. I never seem to understand why in this generation its still a big deal that the girl doesn't know to cook. The fact that people are judging her for that and commenting on Ripu's Facebook saying that she's stupid just angers me. Using words such as stupid, dumb,etc ( not directed to anyone).. I mean this is a person here.. someone who has real feelings and might be reading these comments. I think its not fair to her that she is being judged just because she can't cook. I feel like in this day and age it shouldn't matter.. it shouldn't matter that the guy can cook and the girl can't.

(I hope what I wrote makes sense)

Originally posted by: Gumrah...

I disagree with the thread and most of the comments made here.

If a guy her age, claimed not to be able to make tea either, i would say the same that it is quite a shameful thing. Not knowing the basic of survival is not something to be proud of and not being able to cook very basic for either of the gender is something i find unacceptable.

If the show is not scripted, all i can say that Shivangi is really stupid/challenged.

Originally posted by: Gumrah...

I disagree with the thread and most of the comments made here.

If a guy her age, claimed not to be able to make tea either, i would say the same that it is quite a shameful thing. Not knowing the basic of survival is not something to be proud of and not being able to cook very basic for either of the gender is something i find unacceptable.

If the show is not scripted, all i can say that Shivangi is really stupid/challenged.

I don't think tea or rajma are the basics of survival. I didn't know how to make tea until a few years ago. It's just something my mom and sister always did, plus I use tea powder and not tea leaves. I don't even know if that's the same thing. I really don't think I'm challenged and neither is Shivangi.

I would also like to randomly point out that Shivangi said by washing the beans with "soap" she meant did you just have to wash them normally or in some special way.

I didn't think I would be talking about this in NB forum 😆

^ Janu and Aish.. I totally agree with both of you. What someone can and cannot do should not be judged by others. I also can make tea and maggi.. and those are literally the only the few things I can make. I learned how to make tea a few years ago and even then sometimes I mess up. Just because I can't cook doesn't mean I deserve to be called stupid, neither does Shivangi or anyone else. As Janu said everyone relationship or separate has their strengths and weaknesses.. it shouldn't matter..no one should be judged and it angers me that to this day we live in a society where people cannot be themselves without being judged

Originally posted by: AbhayVakil_1992

^ Janu and Aish.. I totally agree with both of you. What someone can and cannot do should not be judged by others. I also can make tea and maggi.. and those are literally the only the few things I can make. I learned how to make tea a few years ago and even then sometimes I mess up. It angers me that people get judged because according to society they should act a certain way.

I know right! And this is Nach Baliye, where it should be all about dancing. But it's not. I see so many posts in which the contestants are judged for other reasons.

btw I can make Maggi too! :D