Originally posted by: Indira1211
in order to understand Avni you had to have seen the show from the beginning ...you had to have seen the struggles little Avni faced ...I think it was about 150 episodes that showed this ...then you would know why Avni is the way she is. In the 15 years post leap the focus was more in the Avneil story becuase avnis insecurities and reasons for it was already shown preleap. I've watched from the beginning so I can justify all avnis actions ...yes her actions are usually illogical and really not what normal regular people do ..that's because she's not normal or regular ...she's a cynical hard woman on the outside and a vulnerable child inside because of her past...and Neil knows that and that's why he always supports her when she needs him...because he wants to take care of her ...thats what drew him to her ...her vulnerability. So now when Avni has that total breakdown then Neil will soften ..because he wants to look after and protect her ...he wants her to need him...but she feels she must fight alone that that pisses him off ...he hates the fact that she does not involve him because that all he wants ...to be with her in every decision ...but she feels that in order to survive she must be able to do it alone...so she needs to finally realise that she needs him and can't live without him...