Avini.... WHY?

I can never connect to Avni and her thought process, her decisions always make me cringe. She is very lucky to have Neil, hope she is shown to value that. 💔

I hv seen many reasoning it out as Neil is angry and says he hates her and not listening to her, so dt is preventing Avni from telling him d truth.

Suppose AvNeil reunite due to the child, what is the guarantee that Avni will not leave Neil again?

Originally posted by: -DragonFire-

Suppose AvNeil reunite due to the child, what is the guarantee that Avni will not leave Neil again?

Originally posted by: -DragonFire-

Suppose AvNeil reunite due to the child, what is the guarantee that Avni will not leave Neil again?

Originally posted by: sab29

Hey people,

im just putting my thoughts down here...

this show was a beautiful one, but now it has just lost it... but i still watch it hoping that one day it will turn out to be the show that i fell in love with...

one thing i have noticed is, why has avini been like this through out the show? like neil says, she always takes decision all by her self, why cant she talk to neil or the family members and make a decision... its not about her always. like how neil took neela maas help. its nice to watch.

just didnt like how avini is taking control of neils life once again, and to break of the mangal suthra like that, maybe she found a reason to live through the kids, but neil has not. and why is she even baking now when vidyuth is no more...

she said Neil hates her, shouldnt he??? and after all that how she is towards neil is not so nice.

yesterday she asked suneri why she is treating Mowgli special.. for very obvious reasons. how come she treated shaisha in a very special way among all the kids. with a special room, a radio etc... why not mowgli being her own son..

will neil forgive for this???? for keeping his son away for 10 years and not even telling him now? with all this is it right for avini to behave like this????

in order to understand Avni you had to have seen the show from the beginning ...you had to have seen the struggles little Avni faced ...I think it was about 150 episodes that showed this ...then you would know why Avni is the way she is. In the 15 years post leap the focus was more in the Avneil story becuase avnis insecurities and reasons for it was already shown preleap. I've watched from the beginning so I can justify all avnis actions ...yes her actions are usually illogical and really not what normal regular people do ..that's because she's not normal or regular ...she's a cynical hard woman on the outside and a vulnerable child inside because of her past...and Neil knows that and that's why he always supports her when she needs him...because he wants to take care of her ...thats what drew him to her ...her vulnerability. So now when Avni has that total breakdown then Neil will soften ..because he wants to look after and protect her ...he wants her to need him...but she feels she must fight alone that that pisses him off ...he hates the fact that she does not involve him because that all he wants ...to be with her in every decision ...but she feels that in order to survive she must be able to do it alone...so she needs to finally realise that she needs him and can't live without him...

My doubt is why can't she say to the family?

Originally posted by: drbeth

I hv seen many reasoning it out as Neil is angry and says he hates her and not listening to her, so dt is preventing Avni from telling him d truth.

I just hv one thing to say...well try harder den.Avni should try harder... till she makes him listen.She might hv been d one who sacrificed everything but that doesn't mean she is not at fault.And Neil is her love right? So why can't she make more efforts?