Neil getting free pass every time?

Agree completely Juhi should not be staying in Khanna house...he brought her home coz he was trying to protect her then protecting Mishti but now that RP n VR know she is alive he should just move them both to another place n ensure full security

Originally posted by: -DragonFire-

Since the time this bacchi track has started , I don't know why nobody is questioning Neil's past and present actions. Everybody easily overlooked Neil's kaand in the past and also overlooking what he is doing now. How easily he is letting his ex gf stay under the same roof without an iota of guilt. I know Neil loves his wife unconditionally, is afraid of losing her and has no feelings for his ex. But still I cannot ignore the bigger picture that somebody who had a relationship with Neil in the past is allowed to be a part of their family. This thought itself is so pukeworthy.

In this track I am missing two people the most, one is Nanno and the other is Maddy bua. I remember how Maddy used to instruct Kareena to stay away from girls like Rhea. Had she been present today she would have definitely raised objection about a woman like Juhi's prolonged stay in the house stating that it is setting wrong example for her daughter. Also I would have loved to watch Nanno thrashing Neil for the having a love child. She should have asked Neil directly that if Avni had a love child, had he allowed that child also to stay along with them? Throughout her life Nanno has seen her daughter suffering and seeing her grand daughter meeting the same fate is unbearable for anyone.

The only person who is showing some realistic reaction is Sweta. It was good that instead of keeping silent yesterday she pointed finger at Juhi. But again it was sad that she was silenced by others including Prakash who generally keeps mum. I wanted Sweta to tell them that what is wrong if she is trying to get rid of Juhi? Why she is expected to a carry the burden of an outsider?

Bebe was trying to project Neil as victim but for me he is the culprit.

Cvs have been quite partial when it comes to characters' reaction towards Neil. I know Neil has been a great person but that does not mean his wrong acts should be ignored. If Avni was showered with all the uncharitable words for being naajayaz then why Neil is spared for doing activities which are naazayaz? Why this discrimination because he is a guy?

I don't understand what Avni means by supporting Neil. If it means taking care of Mishti's upbringing and at the same time not separating Mishti from Juhi then it automatically means Juhi staying in Khanna house forever. Doesn't it sound disgusting? And why she will be so affected on when media will call Mishti naajayaz? Wasn't she aware that Mishti will be called by this name by outsiders? Or just because saint Neil is Mishti's father so Mishti will receive some special treatment by others?

By showing in every episode that Neil is not Mishti's father to the viewers, cvs just cannot compromise with the reaction of the characters who are not aware of this truth.

I was actually happy when yesterday media was questioning Neil about his actions. Neil was wrong in misusing the law for staging the fake death of Juhi to frame someone so why he won't be questioned? Infact I felt media was also soft when they focussed more only on the framing part.They should have asked Neil how come he is staying with two women, one wife and another ex-girlfriend under the same roof?Does an honorable man lives like this in society? Is this a progressive thinking?

Today media is going to call Mishti "naajayaz", then I also want them to call Neil and Juhi also characterless. Why Mishti only will have to hear that word for no fault of hers while the supposed people due to whom she is being addressed by names are projected as victims?

Neil needs to face the music at least once before this track gets over.

I agree with parts of what you said. Definitely the family reaction to the whole news of chuhi and Neil having a child was very THANDA. After all the bawaal that they created with avni being najayaz , now everyone is very quiet. Shweta apologized to neela in one scene though, where she said she was embarrassed by neels actions and it reflects poorly on her upbringing.that was a good scene. N Neel overheard it n felt gu ilty. I guess nobody knows how to react. Neel is everyone s laadla so no one said anything plus I guess they are all in shock that chuhi has come back from the dead. I guess the reasoning in ppls head is that if chuhi hadn't died then they would have been married. It's not like Neil was a promiscuous guy. Avnis mixed emotions are justifiable - she is broken at the thought of Neil having a child with another woman, is uncomfortable with chuhi but at the same time she can relate to the kid, because she has been in that position. She doesn't want any kid to go through what she did. Aditi has done a great job potraying her mixed emotions. Only jarring thing is the over friendliness to chuhi. No one will take their husbands ex to have paanipuri n candy floss and run behind them consoling them n all. If chuhi wants to have a relationship with mishti it's her problem. Nobody would expect avni to go out of the way to help them bond. She's supposed to distance herself from the c hild but CVs are showing too many mishti avni scenes. N they have not shown a single discussion about where to send chuhi. She's not permanently staying at Khanna house na. Even avni n Neil had discussed sending her to Canada so I don't understand why everyone was so upset when shweta actually pushed for it to happen.

Originally posted by: Merav

Hifi Dragon totally agree with you. Apart from nobody pointing fingers at Neil there is also no single monologue of Neil shown where alone he is feeling guilty about his past deeds and the situation he has put avni and family in. Okay until goa rescue mission they are thinking to secure the child but what now?????? For me the most unpalatable thing was avni' behaviour with juhi...with mishty I can understand she is a child innocent and deserves all love but with juhi in avnis own house why she is treating juhi like a queen giving too much importance too much love. For example bedroom is private space for couple when avni finds juhi in her room it doesn't bother her a bit how is that possible???? And you are right didn' avni knew before the bachi will be called najaayaz or she is only bothered when the whole society comes to know of it. After goa track not even once avneil discussed once about mishtys future and juhis stay etc. The other day when Neil was scolding juhi to get out if she wants...avni was telling Neil mishty needs both of ur love clearly means she is ok with juhi staying in the same house which is really pukeworthy. Avni is said to be trying to do what is right and i dont have an iota of clue what is right in her sense. Staying with ex and their child with the current wife is no less than polygamy. Absolutely disgusting and not all a nayi soch.

Also avni acting as mother and child not knowing juhi is the mother is bound to confuse the child with respect to her emotions...this is a huge confusion for the child...when a scenario arises where the mother and the so called mother both are trying for the same cause to get close to the child there are bound to be ugly scenarios and backward situations. Especially this is even fragile when an ex and present wife are involved.

Originally posted by: -DragonFire-

It is so unreal to watch that a principled guy like Neil doesn't think that he is guilty of his past deeds.

Avni is always shown assuring Neil that she will support Mishti but AvNeil never discussed exactly what they are planning to do with Mishti.

Like you said Avni telling Neil and Juhi that Mishti needs both's love and at the same time telling that she will not leave Neil, aren't we supposed to interpret that Neil was planning a happy family with Avni, Juhi and Mishti?

Just to accommodate some twist cvs should not have ignored the message that is being relayed through this scenario

So true. Sometimes the whole thing seems so mindless. How can he not remember fathering a child...and keeping wife and ex+kid under the same roof...ufff. And everyone is cool with it as if it happens in everyone's life. During the anthakshari.. Why the hell pakash pull juhi also for the family dance... On what basis she will stay with them😕

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I agree with parts of what you said. Definitely the family reaction to the whole news of chuhi and Neil having a child was very THANDA. After all the bawaal that they created with avni being najayaz , now everyone is very quiet. Shweta apologized to neela in one scene though, where she said she was embarrassed by neels actions and it reflects poorly on her upbringing.that was a good scene. N Neel overheard it n felt gu ilty. I guess nobody knows how to react. Neel is everyone s laadla so no one said anything plus I guess they are all in shock that chuhi has come back from the dead. I guess the reasoning in ppls head is that if chuhi hadn't died then they would have been married. It's not like Neil was a promiscuous guy. Avnis mixed emotions are justifiable - she is broken at the thought of Neil having a child with another woman, is uncomfortable with chuhi but at the same time she can relate to the kid, because she has been in that position. She doesn't want any kid to go through what she did. Aditi has done a great job potraying her mixed emotions. Only jarring thing is the over friendliness to chuhi. No one will take their husbands ex to have paanipuri n candy floss and run behind them consoling them n all. If chuhi wants to have a relationship with mishti it's her problem. Nobody would expect avni to go out of the way to help them bond. She's supposed to distance herself from the c hild but CVs are showing too many mishti avni scenes. N they have not shown a single discussion about where to send chuhi. She's not permanently staying at Khanna house na. Even avni n Neil had discussed sending her to Canada so I don't understand why everyone was so upset when shweta actually pushed for it to happen.

Originally posted by: Hybrid_Freak

I gues his guilt will come when he will know he has been played by juhi...and all . Maybe then...