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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

ok shivani i disagree with u completely . for me d is innocent , imv has played a very nasty game with her which she is unaware of, i dont think she has malicious intent and i dont think it will be shown later, hope in the coming days u will get 2 see why i say so, baaki hats off 2 u and ur intelligence , u r really passionate abt what u feel , and its a very good thing but i think u r wrong , u have misunderstood d very badly,

whers jaya , i am waiting 4 her defense😆😆because i am not doing a good job in defending d😆

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Amit

@anupditto

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

Another argument could be put forward that it's good that both are in for the same bid. Increases the chances of bid coming to same household (after all, BB's profit will be Devki's only once he is gone). But to think it's doing good to the household will be myopic. Because in long run it would do more harm than good to the household. If a giant VV loose to a minnow D, stakeholders faith would no longer be with VV and might even shift to D which in long run would do more harm to VV than the good it would do to D. So net profit to household would fall not rise in long run. Even if VV wins, the news that VV's wife is running a rival business and actually competing with VV to win a bid, would be a bad publicity (with stakeholders reading too much into it) which would cost VVE dearly.

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Amit

@anupditto

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

@intruderfast: VV k side se koi tension nahi aayega, IMV k side se aa sakta hai.

VV would rather be happy and not just that but also proud to be loosing to D. He now

wants D's success even at the cost of his own success. He has simply no ego left in him.

Or may be he is a bad businessman unlike his father. He is too overconfident and doesn't realise that D can be a threat, thinks she can be no match to him. Like in war one should never consider the enemy weak, similarly in business a competitor should never be considered less.

IMV knows that and doing the right thing by trying to nip the competition in the bud. But VV is watering the bud, that's simply bad business.

IMV might seem arrogant but he is not foolishly arrogant. He is confident that he can defeat anyone but doesn't think himself to be invincible and hence is alert and proactive to make sure that he doesn't looses to anyone.

VV on the otherhand thinks he is immune to defeat and victory is a given. And in his arrogance watering his own competitor. That complacency is bad business.

So either he is a bad businessman or has turned so good and devkibhakt that her success is more important to him than his and his father's success and would rather rejoice his loss to Devki.

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

So even a different and hatke ckt like D is not spared , awesome ,

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

@anupditto

Why does D needs anyone to tell her that she is jeopardizing IMV's business?
Should be obvious to anyone with business sense.

But that's exactly it...she isn't jeopardizing IMV's business...IMV told her so in order to scare her into withdrawing frm the competition she was givivng him. Also if not her company then there would hv been some other one. Also here they r showing just the 2 of them, whereas in real life in India itself u have so many big business houses. They r forever pitted against one another and invariably only 1 of dem is successful in winning the bid...that does not mean that the shares of the others go down drastically, the way IMV implied would happen to the V grp.

Correct, nothing wrong in competitng against IMV & VV especially if she declared this beforehand and was accepted by IMV. Wrong is to still claim to be the good bahu, wanting to be regarded as a very good bahu.

I too don't understand y the CVs hv to present her as an ideal bahu...maybe 1 of d criterias for the lead female protagonists in daily soaps.😉

That's exactly is the problem. People call him 'a good businessman but a bad DIL' while they call Devki 'such a good businesswoman and still such a nice bahu also, wow, what a perfect woman'.

It's alright to give more priority to your success than your husband's and DIL's success especially if it was declared and acceted upon well in advance. But that very moment you also loose the right to be regarded as an ideal bahu. Saying that I am a very good bahu (not to say she is a rank bad bahu, she is sure not malicious but by no means as selfless they tout her to be, she is not as good a bahu either as she claims herself to be) is what's not acceptable.

Ditto my above point.😊

VV offered to D that he would step out or else she should step out. She agreed on none.

Well that scene did leave me a bit confused as it was ambiguous and d final part inconclusive😕

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

hey thank u shhh 👏may i know ur name , u r abasolutely right yahaan pe usse ruthless and merciless keh rahe hain and really i would not mind agar woh thodi si ho jaaye, they r showing some extra goodness , ah well i understand ek lead lo poora accha banana chahte hain i totallu agree with u on word to word , thank u for refutting charges against d, mera time bach gayaa and i would never have been so good😊

U R most welcome.😊 And my name is Munira

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

Yaar she is a gal with many shades, some thing never shown before and will nt be shown , so its confusing to some , i find her perfectly normal to others , she is at times selfish , thinking about her bb business , wats wrong in that ??

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Amit

@anupditto

Beginner

Posted: 14 years ago

#38

One big business house loosing to another big business house doesn't impact the loser much. But loss to a minnow does make news and bad publicity, make stakeholders loose faith and can cost the loser dearly.

'she isn't jeopardizing IMV's business...IMV told her so in order to scare her into withdrawing frm the competition she was givivng him. Also if not her company then there would hv been some other one.'

Well, if she is giving him competition what exactly is she doing? Success of one's competitor comes always at the cost of one's failure. If there businesses are in different domains and never cross roads or have a 'non competition' contract (which neither IMV for sake of his malicious purpose nor D for her self esteem would ever agree upon), it's ok. But if she is running a business which is at least a potential rival if not a current rival of VBE, she is jeopardising IMV's and VV's business.

It's best to nip your competition in bud and is a cardinal sin to water it.

However, I reiterate that it's perfectly alright to work for her own success and business even at the expense of her husband's and DIL's success and business but not right to consider herself as a good bahu while doing so (atleast not as good as they are making her out to be) on the pretext that it was a deal accepted upon well in advance before marriage.

She is definetly not malicious like IMV but is equally self centered (certainly not as selfless as she acts like). And so if IMV is considered a bad FIL, atleast she shouldn't be considered an ideal bahu but just a 'not bad' bahu who doesn't have a malicious intent. I have never considered her a bad or malicious bahu but I have always considered her far from the ideal bahu she pretends to be.

Edited by anupditto - 14 years ago

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Amit

@anupditto

Beginner

Posted: 14 years ago

#39

Just a thot...

May be the CV of MB feels that if you are showing a professionally successfull woman, a businesswoman it's obligatory to show how good she is also in a role of a wife and a DIL. If not through substantial deeds and action then through hype or making her act sweet and goody-goody. Show her as a woman with two faces, one fierce as tigress at work and another docile as deer at home, transitioning between the two swiftly and suddenly with ease and aplomb. As if she is a robot and ghar ki dehleez and office chair are the mode changing buttons.

A modest dose of scenes to show all these are still tolerable. But overdose makes it seem like they are being apologetic about showing a woman being successfull in business and work and hence it's so obligatory to show how great a bahu she is and that she is the best wife in the world.

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shivani9

@shivani9

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: anupditto
@intruderfast: VV k side se koi tension nahi aayega, IMV k side se aa sakta hai.
VV would rather be happy and not just that but also proud to be loosing to D. He now

wants D's success even at the cost of his own success. He has simply no ego left in him.

Or may be he is a bad businessman unlike his father. He is too overconfident and doesn't realise that D can be a threat, thinks she can be no match to him. Like in war one should never consider the enemy weak, similarly in business a competitor should never be considered less.

IMV knows that and doing the right thing by trying to nip the competition in the bud. But VV is watering the bud, that's simply bad business.

IMV might seem arrogant but he is not foolishly arrogant. He is confident that he can defeat anyone but doesn't think himself to be invincible and hence is alert and proactive to make sure that he doesn't looses to anyone.

VV on the otherhand thinks he is immune to defeat and victory is a given. And in his arrogance watering his own competitor. That complacency is bad business.

So either he is a bad businessman or has turned so good and devkibhakt that her success is more important to him than his and his father's success and would rather rejoice his loss to Devki.