I think the main problem with too large a gap is simply a lack of commonality.
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I think the main problem with too large a gap is simply a lack of commonality.
I think the main problem with too large a gap is simply a lack of commonality.
purvir had 30 yrs or 25yrs gap?
Originally posted by: SmithaRam
Just as discussion topic, I want to ask this, since most of you have mentioned about age gap love stories.
Any particular reason for liking it? Based on real-life examples of far/close relatives, it is not at all rosy as it looks on TV.
I don't know yr
Ye mera childhood problem hai 🤣🤣
I have no particular reason why I like this trope bas pasand hai
Koi bhi show and anime me agar side characters ki storyline ese hi toh mujhe dekhne me maja ata tha
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Vaise
I know practically ye idea acha nai hai and aj ke time me bilkul nai
Even 5 years ka gap bhi extreme lagta hai
But again it doesn't mean ki we can't enjoy this in fiction
Vo alag baat hai fiction bhi dhanka nai milta 😪😪
der se kyu aaye aap..🤔
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ye bahut tricky saa question hai di...🤔Originally posted by: SmithaRam
Just as discussion topic, I want to ask this, since most of you have mentioned about age gap love stories.
Any particular reason for liking it? Based on real-life examples of far/close relatives, it is not at all rosy as it looks on TV.
Aisa kabhi socha hii nahi hai maine...🤔
But Agar liking ki baat kare to mujhe age gape love story shayad isliye pasand hai kynki usme ek partner guardians ke role mai hota hai... You know more mature..more sensible..you can be silly with him but he will handle you better..aap unka bachpana ho sakte ho aur vo aapki mature side....mujhe mature love accha lagta hai...🙄
I dont know I am making sense here or not...i think mujhe khud nahi pata.🙄😝🙈
Haa maine real life mai age gape marriage dekhi hai... Meri ek friend hai uski shaadi usse 10 saal bade insaan se hui.. But vo bahut khush hai...you know ek ideal couple gine jatate hai vo...and i really adore there relationship..❤
Aur agar vaise baat kare to hot lagte hai aise couple saath mai..😝🙈
Sorry maine kuch bhi likha hai..🙄
Par mai sabka, answer jarur janna, chahungi ispe...
mai to mast aap batao..🤗🤗
Accga abhi yahi ho india mai.. Aur kab tak ho..🙄
yes, ofcourse! surely you can & must enjoy fictions if like the theme. Nothing wrong in it.
I don't know yr
Ye mera childhood problem hai 🤣🤣
I have no particular reason why I like this trope bas pasand hai
Koi bhi show and anime me agar side characters ki storyline ese hi toh mujhe dekhne me maja ata tha
You won't believe this but Cheeni Kum movie mujhe kabhi ajeeb nai lagi aur mai bhut choti thi us time 🤣🤪
Vaise
I know practically ye idea acha nai hai and aj ke time me bilkul nai
Even 5 years ka gap bhi extreme lagta hai
But again it doesn't mean ki we can't enjoy this in fiction
Vo alag baat hai fiction bhi dhanka nai milta 😪😪
I don't know yr
Ye mera childhood problem hai 🤣🤣
I have no particular reason why I like this trope bas pasand hai
Koi bhi show and anime me agar side characters ki storyline ese hi toh mujhe dekhne me maja ata tha
You won't believe this but Cheeni Kum movie mujhe kabhi ajeeb nai lagi aur mai bhut choti thi us time 🤣🤪
Vaise
I know practically ye idea acha nai hai and aj ke time me bilkul nai
Even 5 years ka gap bhi extreme lagta hai
But again it doesn't mean ki we can't enjoy this in fiction
Vo alag baat hai fiction bhi dhanka nai milta 😪😪
Had just come to say Hi to you. But I'll give my two cents on this topic as well..
I like the age gap romance so much because of three reasons.
Firstly toh i think as a population we all have daddy issues. The Desi family is mainly patriarchal and you tend to grow up idolizing as well as fearing your father. Coupled with the tendency of our parents to withhold approval from us, we grow up seeking validation from any adult. So it's kinda given that you also want validation from your spouse or partner as well.
Secondly, the maturity level comes into play. Girls are emotionally more mature than boys. We also tend to be more empathetic. You will tend to see that men your age do not act with much emotional maturity. But an older man is expected to be more mature.
Finally, it's got to do with intelligence. The more intelligent you are the more likely it is that you will find people more intelligent than you attractive. And older men appear intelligent and accomplished.
Maybe that is why the age gap relationship works.