Purvi shouldn't end up with Virendra.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I first want to tell that I'm not a fan of this show. I only watch this show because my mom watches it.

So whatever I'm going to say may not please people here, because I'm neither fond of this show or the lead couple.

I still want to give my two cents because I don't think anyone else would. I think Virendra and Purvi are one regressive couple and they shouldn't end up together.

First of all, the age gap between them is disturbing. Secondly, Purvi got married to Virendra through deception. Such marriages shouldn't be encouraged. She was basically hired as a nanny for Virendra's kids.

Most importantly, she was brought as a "Molkki" for Virendra. He bought her, and falling in love with a person who saw you as a thing which can be sold and bought is disrespectful as heck!!!

It's like stockholm syndrome. Like falling in love with your kidnapper because he didn't kill you. The same way Purvi fell in love with Virendra because he treated her respectfully (according to her) despite she being a Mol ki dulhan.

Talking about respect, Virendra has insulted, doubted and abused Purvi continuously for smallest of things throughout the show. So I don't understand how Purvi or other characters in the show think that Virendra treats his molkki in a good way.

Maybe molkkis are treated worse than how Purvi is treated by Virendra, but that still doesn't make it okay to insult and abuse her all the time.

Coming to the recent track, Virendra not coming clean in front of Sakshi when he got to know that she's alive, while romancing with Purvi hiding from his first wife was disgusting. When caught by Sakshi, he started giving excuses and guilt tripping her by telling Purvi's sad story, that was just pure manipulation.

In my opinion, Sakshi has suffered much more than Purvi, and now she doesn't deserve to be treated like this. If Virendra loves Purvi then he should just accept it in front of Sakshi instead of playing gharwali baharwali with them.

In an ideal situation, I think it would be best for Virendra and Sakshi to take divorce, for him to end up with Purvi, while Sakshi should get the custody of their kids, which is the best compensation she can get for what she has lost.

I don't want Purvi to end up with Virendra for the reasons mentioned above, but she's an adult woman, so it's her life, her decision. If she wants to end up with a person like Virendra who is double the age of her, then so be it.

But as we know this is not possible considering the setting of this story is in a rural area....where concepts like divorce are frowned upon. So a more better and more practical outcome would be if Purvi goes from Virendra's life. She obviously deserves someone better than Virendra, who is of his age.

Purvi leaving Virendra would also give out the right message that traditions like having a "Molkki" shouldn't be encouraged, as it's outcome is never good. Women are not things to be sold and bought.

Romanticizing it just goes against the core concept of this show.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Okay so

You do make a couple of good points, I agree that women shouldn’t be seen as objects that can be bought and sold etc etc.
However,

It’s purvis dad who betrayed her not Vir if you go back and watch the first couple of episodes Viru gives purvi full permission to leave and hires her as a tutor for his kids. Let’s not forget that this marriage wasnt because of Vir wanted to get married he was forced by MS.

I agree that he did insult a lot time and time again but they overcame those things and a lot of misunderstandings were caused by Golu mummy and Anjali. He wouldn’t never hurt Pur on purpose. Vir is a good guy and was in love with his first wife for the longest time he even waited for her without letting anyone get close to him for 5 years...

Pur has also challenged Vir on every subject and stood up for herself. She has never been the stepping stool that she has now become with saki. Pur we know is strong and independent and stands up for herself! She’s a fighter and that’s why they should end up together because they are both strong and have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.

Ahh saki she’s annoying .. why should she get the kids ? For what reason she doesn’t even seem to care about them that much? She just wanted to hop on virs ... every chance she gets. Let’s be honest she cannot raise kids on her own or stand on her own. She fainted when Vir left her by accident at the fair or wtv , how exactly will she able to raise these kids ? The kids are not ever attached to her nor do they like her very much.
I agree it’s not sakis fault Golu kidnapped her BUT people have the right to move on in life and not just dwell on the past. I mean ya it sucks but she hasn’t made it easy for herself either.

Edited by Shu2121 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I first want to tell that I'm not a fan of this show. I only watch this show because my mom watches it.

So whatever I'm going to say may not please people here, because I'm neither fond of this show or the lead couple.

I still want to give my two cents because I don't think anyone else would. I think Virendra and Purvi are one regressive couple and they shouldn't end up together.

First of all, the age gap between them is disturbing. Secondly, Purvi got married to Virendra through deception. Such marriages shouldn't be encouraged. She was basically hired as a nanny for Virendra's kids.

Most importantly, she was brought as a "Molkki" for Virendra. He bought her, and falling in love with a person who saw you as a thing which can be sold and bought is disrespectful as heck!!!

It's like stockholm syndrome. Like falling in love with your kidnapper because he didn't kill you. The same way Purvi fell in love with Virendra because he treated her respectfully (according to her) despite she being a Mol ki dulhan.

Talking about respect, Virendra has insulted, doubted and abused Purvi continuously for smallest of things throughout the show. So I don't understand how Purvi or other characters in the show think that Virendra treats his molkki in a good way.

Maybe molkkis are treated worse than how Purvi is treated by Virendra, but that still doesn't make it okay to insult and abuse her all the time.

Coming to the recent track, Virendra not coming clean in front of Sakshi when he got to know that she's alive, while romancing with Purvi hiding from his first wife was disgusting. When caught by Sakshi, he started giving excuses and guilt tripping her by telling Purvi's sad story, that was just pure manipulation.

In my opinion, Sakshi has suffered much more than Purvi, and now she doesn't deserve to be treated like this. If Virendra loves Purvi then he should just accept it in front of Sakshi instead of playing gharwali baharwali with them.

In an ideal situation, I think it would be best for Virendra and Sakshi to take divorce, for him to end up with Purvi, while Sakshi should get the custody of their kids, which is the best compensation she can get for what she has lost.

I don't want Purvi to end up with Virendra for the reasons mentioned above, but she's an adult woman, so it's her life, her decision. If she wants to end up with a person like Virendra who is double the age of her, then so be it.

But as we know this is not possible considering the setting of this story is in a rural area....where concepts like divorce are frowned upon. So a more better and more practical outcome would be if Purvi goes from Virendra's life. She obviously deserves someone better than Virendra, who is of his age.

Purvi leaving Virendra would also give out the right message that traditions like having a "Molkki" shouldn't be encouraged, as it's outcome is never good. Women are not things to be sold and bought.

Romanticizing it just goes against the core concept of this show.

[/QUOTE Mam..time or energy dono waste ki h aapne ye sab likh kar..aapne show dekha hi nahi or kuch bhi likh diya..show m aisa nahi dikhaya gya..bina Puri baat jaane Virendra ko blame kar rhe ho aap

Edited by PSP07 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why should Sakshi leave? It's her husband and kids. And vir is terrible husband. Jiski wife jisse wo itna pyar krta tha wapis a jae wo uski bajay bas apni molkki se romance k plans bnae wo kaise acha husband hua . Ek percent b Sakshi ki fikr karte nai dekha use. Sakshi isn't annoying. She also cares for her kids but her life doesnt revolve around her kids only. And Jaisa behavior Vir ne Purvi ke sath kia initially wo b kam torture nai tha. That girl had to prove her innocence every time. Na Sakshi galat h na Purvi. Vir doesn't deserve both.

Edited by raaya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Legally shakshi should get custody of the kids and purvi May be a molki but she has not suffered much she got attention as kids caretaker virendra has been quite nice to her except for few instances before falling in love

He walk I find not too struggling and full of harship

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: raaya

Why should Sakshi leave? It's her husband and kids. And vir is terrible husband. Jiski wife jisse wo itna pyar krta tha wapis a jae wo uski bajay bas apni molkki se romance k plans bnae wo kaise acha husband hua . Ek percent b Sakshi ki fikr karte nai dekha use. Sakshi isn't annoying. She also cares for her kids but her life doesnt revolve around her kids only. And Jaisa behavior Vir ne Purvi ke sath kia initially wo b kam torture nai tha. That girl had to prove her innocence every time. Na Sakshi galat h na Purvi. Vir doesn't deserve both.


Vir ko thodi pta tha ki Sakshi wapas aa jaayegi..woh move on kar chuka h..or ab Purvi se pyaar krta h

Sakshi ko aisa husband ke saath bilkul nahi rehna chahiye jo unse na kisi or se pyaar krta ho.. divorce lo or jao..or ha rahi baat Sakshi ki care krne ki..unki health ke kaaran hi dono chup the..nahi toh kab ka bta dete..

Waise initially kon sa torture kiya Vir ne Purvi ke Saath?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: raaya

Why should Sakshi leave? It's her husband and kids. And vir is terrible husband. Jiski wife jisse wo itna pyar krta tha wapis a jae wo uski bajay bas apni molkki se romance k plans bnae wo kaise acha husband hua . Ek percent b Sakshi ki fikr karte nai dekha use. Sakshi isn't annoying. She also cares for her kids but her life doesnt revolve around her kids only. And Jaisa behavior Vir ne Purvi ke sath kia initially wo b kam torture nai tha. That girl had to prove her innocence every time. Na Sakshi galat h na Purvi. Vir doesn't deserve both.

Well I agree to disagree ...

Saki should leave because he doesn’t love her anymore ...? She was gone for 5 years .. presumed to be dead by everyone.

Again I don’t think Vir is a terrible husband at all he must have been so wonderful to saki back in the day and that’s why she doesn’t want to leave him he’s good to purvi also ! Although he needs to grow a backbone and tell saki everything. Vir has also supported purvi many times he’s a great hubby 😍😍 cutiepie mukhi ji.

Edited by Shu2121 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Itna pyaar Viru ke liye yahan roz dekhne ko milta hai kya hi bataoon main

People creating separate topics here for Viru and explaining how trash he is and doesn't deserve anyone's love is so fascinating to see

I love how he is getting all this attention in a female dominating show! Where the FL is supposed to take the lead and be a decision maker 😗😗

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amaraddict

Itna pyaar Viru ke liye yahan roz dekhne ko milta hai kya hi bataoon main

People creating separate topics here for Viru and explaining how trash he is and doesn't deserve anyone's love is so fascinating to see

I love how he is getting all this attention in a female dominating show! Where the FL is supposed to take the lead and be a decision maker 😗😗

Viru is worst

Usse bura koi admi hai hi nai is duniya me 🙃🙃🙃

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nezuko

Viru is worst

Usse bura koi admi hai hi nai is duniya me 🙃🙃🙃


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