GUNJAN!!!!!!! - Updt 5 - Page 4

Originally posted by: mads

u cudnt hav expressed it better .. esp @ bold : its jus PERFECT the way u put it ..

sam caused the accident unintentionally n hurt gunji in the process..but gunji's doing tht intentionally ( although sumwher deep down its sort of unintentional too, if u look clearly at the subtelity ) n is now hurting sam in the process .. so in short both of them hav gone thru some worse mistakes which they cannot repent, no matter what .. thers no redemption to those mistakes .. but only their love can heal it for each other ..

thers nobody at fault here..or both equally at fault .. it depends on the way u see it .. n its jus BEAUTIFUL! 😍

the best part is tht now gunjan's emotions r all out n bare in the open..she has vented out all that she had kept bottled up these three yrs in staying away from sam..n its jus because he IS an imp part of her that she finds it so easy to vent out on him .. wit a right, she does tht..even tho its wrong .. n sam is hurt this time..terribly, hurt .. about time, I'd say .. and I m soo glad that he has backed off ..

theres a balance now in their relationship .. cuz both need to understand each other's mistake ..n they wud do, at sum point or the other ..

i can understand.. but i feel that gunjan is right.. she is a sensitive girl...

gunjan shud get back to sam soon god please

Originally posted by: ght_sajan

I agree understanding gunjan is not everybody's cup of tea'she is going through an inner turmoil right now'. '''.she is fighting a battle with herself'...she lost the most important person in her life'''..her love for nupur is not letting her accept samrat's love''she feels it would be an insult to nupur's memories & mayank's sufferings if she accepts samrat's love''..'all of us know that samrat's love is gunjan's biggest happiness'.she is not only punishing samrat by not accepting his love but also herself''..we've seen her lead a life where she lost not only two of the most important people in her life but also herself'...samrat was somewhere responsible'''. .the impact of the accident couldn't have been as much if it wasn't for samrat's reckless driving'''.although destiny played a major role in whatever happened but the impact of the accident could have been avoided'''..I am certainly not in favor of mayank & gunjan accusing samrat for the mishap but accepting samrat's love will be difficult for gunjan especially after what happened''...but then again one can't question gunjan's love for samrat '..she has always placed samrat's happiness in front of her love( we have witnessed it during the sheena & suhani track)''she has put her love at stake for samrat's happiness time & again'''..so I disagree that sam's love for gunjan is superior to that of gunjan's''.the present situation is responsible for this kind of a behavior'...its not totally unjustified

I am glad samrat understand's gunjan'''..not once did I find samrat cribbing about gunjan's behavior''all he wants is gunjan's happiness 'samrat is ready to sacrifice his love for gunjan but the irony is that deep down both of them know that their happiness lies in each other'.now that's what makes sajan special

Originally posted by: akritimjht

i can understand.. but i feel that gunjan is right.. she is a sensitive girl...

Originally posted by: yasri

Actually I did expect some will misunderstand what Sonya and me said in different topics in this way............ I was just waiting a post like this to clarify my pov more.........

Sonya said superior and I said more mature.............. I'll explain my part only......... I believe Gunji's love is strong and deep as much as Sam's but it lacks the realization of it's depth/strength..........

it's like when you are gifted by a talent, it won't reach it's peak without your realization........with your realization you can take care of it and improve it till it become the best of you.............and so is love, needs realization to reach it's best...........Sam's love reached it's peak coz it's very deep/strong and he realized that........ that's why his actions in the current track seems satisfying........ though it seem as she keeps hurting him, he never complain or get upset.............any other lover will react negatively due to his ego....... but he realized that his love and her love is larger than ego or anything else.....

Whereas Gunji still didn't realize the depth of her love.......... she thinks she can move on completely without him......... and this makes her hurt herself unintentionally.......... and hurt him too......... we tend to say wow for a love when we see the positive actions of the lovers.......... here Gunji's action is not positive though she has a very deep love.......... coz she is not realizing that........

Sam realized that his love is deeper than anything..........whereas Gunji thinks her love is deep but not more than anything.......in other wards, she still doesn't believe that her love can overcome anything

I hope I could deliver my pov clearly

I don't think gunjan's love lacks dept........all it lacks is expression...........sam is the more expressive one.....gunjan believes in letting go(she is not known to hold onto her love) while samrat is a complete opposite( now off course samrat also believes in letting go if it works for the better)..........gunjan has the tendency to bottle up things( confrontation is something that she detests) ..........while samrat believes in confronting things rather than running away from it( there have been exceptions though like in suhani's case) gunjan means the world to samrat..........like he said she is the one point focus in his life...his life starts & ends with gunjan & that's certainly not the case with gunjan…..... both samrat & nupur mean the world to gunjan...i agree gunjan was living in denial until recently ( i am glad she atleast realized she still loves him)...the devdas track provoked gunjan to confront her feelings until then she was afraid of confronting her feelings........in the present scenario she is torn between two of the most important people in her life.........samrat has never encountered a situation where he was torn between two people he loves ..........i think both of them love each other equally ……..its just that one believes in letting go while the other believes in holding onto their love………just difference of expression...btw I loved your post.......its just that both of us seem to identify with different people

look what I think is that Gunjan is just hurt and confused abt what she wants nd in d process is hurting Samrat!

Guys i am here to talk about sajan.........i am making a topic on them after many days due to forum conditions...........and i really hope everyone will try to co operate with me.........and please no sarcasm .........its a request.....

Guys i know and agree that accidents are never planned..........and sam suffered a lot........now gunjan actions are hurting him even more.......

but look at her words guys............She said that she loves sam and hate herself for doing that........

guys she never wanted to punish sam......she too knows that accidents are not planned......and that is the reason she never said to sam that you kill my sis because that is wrong,............just feels guilty........guilty of the fact that just car speed took her sis......who was no less than a mother to her ....away from her......gunur relation was really special one.......nupur loved gunji to core........it was not at all easy to take her death and move on for gunjan............her leaving from the hospital was not that he wanted to leave sam because she blames him............but she wanted to run........run from everything in her past...........just wanted her sis back.......she dint wish to remain happy....her wishes end ....knowing that she need to move on..........its was not as simple.............not at all..........she never moved on actually.....

She never wanted to punish sam.........but she is punishing herself .....she is fighting hard with her feelings.......fighting really hard......she dont hug sam because she want to hurt him.........but mixed feelings , her fight with her feelings broke in front of sam love for some seconds which made her do so every time .......she needs support and whenever she look for support......she finds sam standing beside her.......she never want to intentionally hurt him.......his tears , even his sadness add to her miseries.............i really dont know if i was clear in expressing myself or not...........i really dont know if i was clear in expressing myself or not........


Its not that people always do wrong ......but sometimes situations make them look wrong but they are right at their place.........

Sur mee to reserving it...........will edit soon.....