A time to Forgive -beautiful updt by meens on pg 5 - Page 3

Originally posted by: DiyaS

aarthi, beautiful post, hon ... agree with you, it's time to forgive and move on , but forgiving something like is soo difficult ... as the old saying goes ... "to err is human, to forgive, divine" ... one can accept it and move on, but one can never forget ... and as for forgiving truly, from the heart, that is probably the most difficult thing to do when you have suffered such a loss. But unless Mayank and Gunjan do forgive, accept that it was an accident, destiny, whatever you will, they themselves will find it too difficult to move on. So for their own sakes, as much as for Samrat, they need to forgive him.

Diya u said it as usual bang on...👏👏👏. we can accept the loss and move but never forget the hurt and pain which is caused ,epsl by the one who is close to us .. we may be forgive a stranger easily than a person who is close to us, and thats because we want to forgive them from heart and which is the most difficult ,

Hai AARTHI,
Only 1 WORD 4 YOUR POST "AWESOME".Its Great THOUGHT.

-SOHAM.

Hey Aarthi Awesome Post!👏
And i read some amazing replies...!! nothing more to say!
Keep Rocking hun, and yeah keep posting, Luv this thread😳

Originally posted by: SHAMSHIR-MJHT

Hai AARTHI,
Only 1 WORD 4 YOUR POST "AWESOME".Its Great THOUGHT.

-SOHAM.

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thanks soham ...

as i said to aashi , its thru them i am trying to relate to real life reactions to certain issues, some issues are just negligible yet we hold on to it ... we just dont let it go by a forgiveness or a sorry, which can make our life easier and peaceful , but there are big issues which needs not only time but circumstances for people to understand forgive ... in such situations i think most of the time people don't forgive is because they think they are betraying their past and the people who supported them thru that phase,

Originally posted by: VampirePrincess

Hey Aarthi Awesome Post!👏
And i read some amazing replies...!! nothing more to say!
Keep Rocking hun, and yeah keep posting, Luv this thread😳

Originally posted by: SaJan_Sana4ever

All The Words Are Like First Class....
I Really Liked The Topic And I Totally Agree With In This POV...😃
Truly Said Jii!!!

thanks sana for agreeing with my view point... 😊

Aarthi!! awesome post!! completely agree with u!! although it is going to be impossible for Gunjan and Mayank to forget what happened...i think its time for them to forgive samrat!! they need to realise that they have to move on....someday....and forgiving Samrat will be the easiest thing to do...coz without doing so...its gonna be quite difficult to actually move on...and moving on does not mean forgetting!! i read this somewhere "Forgiving is not forgetting. It's letting go of the hurt." and i think Gunjan and Mayank need to understand this...by forgiving Samrat they'll feel that peace within themselves...that happiness will be back....and they need to accept that nupur is no more but the still have to move on in life!!

Originally posted by: -Drishti-

Aarthi!! awesome post!! completely agree with u!! although it is going to be impossible for Gunjan and Mayank to forget what happened...i think its time for them to forgive samrat!! they need to realise that they have to move on....someday....and forgiving Samrat will be the easiest thing to do...coz without doing so...its gonna be quite difficult to actually move on...and moving on does not mean forgetting!! i read this somewhere "Forgiving is not forgetting. It's letting go of the hurt." and i think Gunjan and Mayank need to understand this...by forgiving Samrat they'll feel that peace within themselves...that happiness will be back....and they need to accept that nupur is no more but the still have to move on in life!!

Awesome post Aarti and very much needed......one accicent..and 4 lives have been lost....if Nupur is dead..so is Samrat,Gunjan and Maynak in a way...and the only thing that can heal them is Forgiveness.....both Maynak and Gunjan have to accept the fact that it was an accident...and hence it was not Samrat's fault....and that over last 3 years he has been punished enough..his guilt..his pain of loosing Nupur and all his friends including his love is quite apprenant....now is the time for healing....and moreso,the kind of person Nupur was..she would not like to see Samrat like this..nor would she like to see Majan so cold and bitter towards him ..And she certainly would not like to see her younger sister hooked with her husband.....