A time to Forgive -beautiful updt by meens on pg 5

Its been a long time i have made a post..... so may be i don't make sense .. but its purely my point of view ... now what triggered this post is yesterday's convo btn Sayank and a promotional article of the Movie Milenge milenge (here i am no way promoting the moive ) its just the article which brought few questions in my mind.. and for which i am trying to find justification ... There were few questions in my mind regarding the season 2 and the characters behaviour or would say their reaction to the incident hence the topic...

None of us want to accept the death but we accept the void they have created, no one wants to know how it's to live without the person who means life to you, yet u learn to live. Death, loss and void created are same for all but the learning to live with the loss makes the difference. And i have to say that MJHT has truly portrayed loss in a very apt and wonderful way! Different people react to this in a different way..

Like Samrat takes this approach of guilt and penance, he regrets his living, he has learnt to live by the day with the memories of past and move on, yet by the end of the day he regrets his existence by trying to kill himself, and yet again the new day brings him a hope to live, hope to seek forgiveness to relieve him of his guilt and have a new beginning with the ones he loved..

Mayank has moved in life by holding his memories of his love which he never wants to lose. It's his cherish memories that gives him strength to move on. And again it's these memories makes him bitter in not forgiving Samrat. Although deep in his heart he too blames himself for her death by asking Samrat to drive fast...

While Gunjan takes taken an approach to life, understanding and accepting the emptiness and filling it by solving others problems and yet is in denial of accepting the basic fact that her di is dead and that the whole accident was destiny. She takes the route non expectance of the destiny and blaming Samrat for Nupur death which she thinks could have avoided.

Yet In last 3 yrs all three have not been able to move in true sense. They all are still holding to each other thru their past to move ahead.

Now my question is ----- Relationships are built over years, but even the closest can fall apart because of a small misunderstanding or an incident which changes life forever ..

To err is Human--- but to forgive is divine.. is it not the time for them (Majan) to forgive Samrat and retrospect, remember the good times and get over the grudge and forgive the person they are mad with? But in doing so will they lose their every support with which they are moving ?

Personally i think ---You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.

Originally posted by: swati98

OMG,Aarthi,what can I say?Every word is so true.I am at a loss of words,but what's new in that. It happens everytime I read an Outstanding post. But I really agree with you,it is time to forgive and move on,not easy but also not impossible.And for your post👏👏

Originally posted by: mjhtkifan

A superb post 👏 I have nothing to add to what you said cause you've said it all in a very beautiful manner! I share the same POV as you do😃

Originally posted by: aahana86

Heya sweetie 🤗

incredible post ⭐️👏👏 and beautifully written hun ! so true and yes very touching .. in life we sometimes are faced with certain situations , some experiences which are hard to forget or forgive - somewhere we can never forget them true - but we have to learn to forgive - cause we wont be able to move on if we dont - holding grudges never helped anyone especially if it is against someone whom you dearly love - in anyway

I so loved these lines in your Post Aarthi - they touched me deeply
Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.

so true i know it is easier to say things then to do it - simply put easier to preach then practice - but life is about some bitter and hard experiences as well hun - even for the young - not everything always can be a bed of roses nor can anyone actually change the inevitable - which death definitely is - I agree what happened was tragic - but not out of the blue - we hear so many cases of young lives being lost in such incidents.. which is so tragic - but life can be harsh at times

but doing what MaJan did or continue to do cannot be the solution i see they are hurt and dont blame them for their actions - cause losing a loved one is a huge blow and one we never are prepared for ever thou we all know it's happen someday
i have said this time and again before hun - healing will only begin when they reunite and they truly somewhere down the line know it frankly

cause despite the hurt and pain they remember each other - Gunjan still loves Samrat - Mayank still has affections for his dearest friend - and hence despite the last night scene where mayank says to Sam to move on as it is easiest for him - he has no answers to Sam' words - one where he clearly told him - that both him & Nupur meant a lot to him and just as there was no relation that made Nupur his family - doesnt mean he hasnt loved or lost her he is just as hurt

and mayank knows it to be true - i suppose somewhere - mayank has begun healing - as now he has Sam too - wish Gunjan will return soon to do the needed😳

Originally posted by: ratilover

Its a nice post. BUT I dont think u would have made this post if Gunjan had died....just saying :)