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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ratilover

Its a nice post. BUT I dont think u would have made this post if Gunjan had died....just saying :)

dear this is topic is not based on sajan and mayur but topic writer only sharing her views abt changing situations of buddies this is more abt two best friends and their relations here their relations r growing with maturity this is general discussion and here is not point to discuss abt who died and not 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aashizin

aarthi completely agree with your each and every word yar , now its time and yesterday mayank took first step for his forgiveness advicing gun to join excel mayank knows very well that it was destiny but he haven't accepted yet but with sam's condition he is realizing his mistake that may be it was their destiny and not fault of sam he can't see him like this and that's why he took first step now i really want mayank will play vital part in sajan's reunion and dear superb topic yar loved it u rock 👏 👏

thanks aashi for ur support , i was really not sure if i can make a point ... its thru them i am trying to relate to real life reactions to certain issues, some issues are just negligible yet we hold on to it ... we just dont let it go by a forgiveness or a sorry , but there are big issues which needs not only time but circumstances for people to understand forgive ...

yes mayank has taken the first step of forgiveness by not only asking sam to move but also advising gun to join excel ... which will give gun the opportunities to forgive samrat ... hope the CVs deal with this in a matured way without any triangles .... and give a positive msg that forgiveness is better way to deal with pain...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani




Aahana thanks sweety for reading my stupid stuff ....😆

@ bold exactly from where this whole thought process starts .... we all know and even mayank knows that healing will start only when they unite... but the pain which is still raw has not allowed them to take this step, which is beacuse they feel that the loss of nupur does not make much difference to samrat as he is not related ... Before Mayank joined Excel he had no circumstances to understand the loss and pain of samrat .... but when mayank has circumstances to make him understand he does start the process of forgiveness , similarly gunjan needs circumstances ..... but still one thing which is still bothering me is -- in mean time if one forgives samrat, will the other lose the support system and feel betrayed ?



hey bhagu

aarthi to begin this is not stupid stuff so stop saying thT 😡

And next @ bold - that is a million dollar ques hun one which is apt - yes if it happens i think it will happen but then again it'd be gr8 and i think better cause when the two separate will they truly realize how it feels to be in Sam' shoes

for the past 3 years they had each other but he had no one and today if after 3 years of shared pain and friendship one makes this move the other will feel stabbed and betrayed - but eventually it'd be good - as they say only the wearer knows where the shoe bites !

once there they'd have an idea of how lonely they made Sam !!😭😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aashizin

aarthi completely agree with your each and every word yar , now its time and yesterday mayank took first step for his forgiveness advicing gun to join excel mayank knows very well that it was destiny but he haven't accepted yet but with sam's condition he is realizing his mistake that may be it was their destiny and not fault of sam he can't see him like this and that's why he took first step now i really want mayank will play vital part in sajan's reunion and dear superb topic yar loved it u rock 👏 👏

Agree wth u completly aahsizin that mayan took first step for his forgiveness though it was not complete samrat's fault at all it had to happen ths way and now its about time that gunj also realises thnk if it was samrat at the place of nupur who died thn wht would b gunjans reaction or to whom she would of blaim?
love ut post aarthi keep it upClap
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aahana86



hey bhagu

aarthi to begin this is not stupid stuff so stop saying thT 😡

And next @ bold - that is a million dollar ques hun one which is apt - yes if it happens i think it will happen but then again it'd be gr8 and i think better cause when the two separate will they truly realize how it feels to be in Sam' shoes

for the past 3 years they had each other but he had no one and today if after 3 years of shared pain and friendship one makes this move the other will feel stabbed and betrayed - but eventually it'd be good - as they say only the wearer knows where the shoe bites !

once there they'd have an idea of how lonely they made Sam !!😭😭

First Sorry.. will not say that ....

yes aahana even i think it will happen and agree it is better that it will make them realize sam's pain which eventually help them to forgive him... but i want the forgiveness from both on parallel lines, because again if one feels betrayed its going to affect sam even more...

but hey if one forgives which i think will be mayank first as he has already started ... it would be good to see our sammy boy back in action to woo his chashmish... what say?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani



First Sorry.. will not say that ....

yes aahana even i think it will happen and agree it is better that it will make them realize sam's pain which eventually help them to forgive him... but i want the forgiveness from both on parallel lines, because again if one feels betrayed its going to affect sam even more...

but hey if one forgives which i think will be mayank first as he has already started ... it would be good to see our sammy boy back in action to woo his chashmish... what say?



@ bold - bang on gal i think u r right the new promo makes me think this too 😉😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: adeenrocks

Agree wth u completly aahsizin that mayan took first step for his forgiveness though it was not complete samrat's fault at all it had to happen ths way and now its about time that gunj also realises thnk if it was samrat at the place of nupur who died thn wht would b gunjans reaction or to whom she would of blaim?

love ut post aarthi keep it upClap

thanks adeen.. for agreeing .. it circumstances which make us react in certain way, again its the same circumstances which makes us realize that things were not done on intentions, they were accidental... remember the scene of dance rehearsals where gunjan by mistake stamps samrats leg and is sorry abt it and says it was mistake and in return samrat says that if u ask for forgiveness than the person should be given a another chance , which made gunjan think abt her reactions and anger towards samrat regarding the bet .... similarly she needs situation make her understand the pain samrat is going thru... and that will be possible only when she joins excel which i see not very far...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@aahana true the new promo does give me hopes ... but i hope that the CVs handle this as beautifully as the secret friend one.. where they had created each circumstances for gunjan to understand sam's point of view and it was not on one go where she forgave him.. it was a slow process and i want something similar a slow not a drag process of forgiveness , because it will be surreal... rather than a single incident which makes her forgive... because in real too u can't forgive a person for so much pain in one go..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

@aahana true the new promo does give me hopes ... but i hope that the CVs handle this as beautifully as the secret friend one.. where they had created each circumstances for gunjan to understand sam's point of view and it was not on one go where she forgave him.. it was a slow process and i want something similar a slow not a drag process of forgiveness , because it will be surreal... rather than a single incident which makes her forgive... because in real too u can't forgive a person for so much pain in one go..



*fingers crossed* on that thought Aarthi i hope we get to see all what we expect in the show
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Posted: 15 years ago
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aarthi, beautiful post, hon ... agree with you, it's time to forgive and move on , but forgiving something like is soo difficult ... as the old saying goes ... "to err is human, to forgive, divine" ... one can accept it and move on, but one can never forget ... and as for forgiving truly, from the heart, that is probably the most difficult thing to do when you have suffered such a loss. But unless Mayank and Gunjan do forgive, accept that it was an accident, destiny, whatever you will, they themselves will find it too difficult to move on. So for their own sakes, as much as for Samrat, they need to forgive him.


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