Father ...relationship redefined...

AJ,i cudnt agree more...............

AJ are you talking about THE bauji? who sent his daughters from Moreyna to Mumbai and never bothered to call up his daughters once? Hadnt it been for Bui in Moreyna period he wouldn't even know that there is something to concern him about his daughters...

He has never come across as a respomsible man to me.. he doesnt even know about the thoughts and emotions of his own daughters.....He forced one of them to get marriaed to some one she doesnt like....And when that fanily dsowned her he allowed the B.F to marry her and instantly disowned her......His daughters who are probably highly confused as to what he thinks and wants had each others company, love and support....but even here he comes in and starts behaving in a partial manner to createa rift between them....

For one daughter he can do anything..For another he turns a blind eye..His treatment to mayank is exemplory....But I wouldnt say its unrealistic..Mayank doesnt hail from a rich family....has a single mother and irrespective o fhis grades is still unemployed..So probably he thought that he might have to monetarily help them so he distanced himslef from them....Wow....

I feel really unhappy for the two sisters that they have such a father....if the Cvs care they can actually justify/ explain all the drawbacks in Nupur's and Gunajn's character by showing their interaction with the Great Bauji...Or his lack of it....A bad childhood...motherless children with an insensitive father can wreck havoc in any girl's personality...

Bauji is so not a good father....

Hey AJ, I do have to agree with you!! Bauji's behavior has not been giving me good vibes!!

The thought has crossed my mind - that not once has he asked Nupur how she's doing after marriage - is everything Ok - though she apologised once again in the last epi (or the one before the last - don't remember)!! And one can't ignore Mayank in the hospital - his quiet support of his wife in the time of her need - and his support and direction to all his friends - looking out for Samrat and Gunjan - and I think to myself - how can one not want a son-in-law like Mayank!!

The way he said the boy who's been most helpful - Samrat!! But for Nupur it is Mayank - not Samrat!! I expected the scene - as it was there in the precap - but still it gave me a little shock - How can a father say that to his daughter?? They show bauji leaning on Nupur for support and to be honest he's offering her his - he's basically doing what Nupur told him is important - they need to stand together in this time of need - but even at this v.sad time - he's not prepared to accept Mayank - who has been in hospital for more hours than him - supporting both his daughters!! I find that unacceptabel!! Even the most hard hearted men melt in such situations!! Doesn't his rational mind tell him that there have to be some redeeming qualities in the boy - if everyone else is looking up to him - including Adhiraj who was going to marry Nupur!!

Ah well - I'm sure they'll make up - but at least in this track in the hospital - bauji's behavior was not in good taste and not suiting an elder of the family!! If the elders cannot forgive - then what should we expect from the youngsters!!

I guess when there is a bad impression on someone, it lasts!! I guess there is a difference of seeing love in front him and not behind his back!! He didn't get to know Mayank like he did with Samrat!! It's all because of a misunderstanding!! Hopefully Adhiraj can clear it!! Or Mayank wins his heart!! 😊 But I agree he should forgive everything by now!! Especially at a time like this!! 😔 But I think he will soon, I think!! 😊 The money thing, I guess some people are like that!! 🤔 But does he know Samrat has money??!! 😆

Shreya

WEll what do i say about Bauji............i cant imagine he is the same one who sent his daughters to mumbai ......... the first scene he is shown in the railway station with his daughters.......the way he behaves with them was so different....... that is a father daughter relation ship not this........

Currently.,,,,,,,, i am not sure who this man is ( i refuse to call him bauji)........

He cant see the pain in Nupurs eyes....when she comes to him to console him when Gunjan is shot.........

He cant see the way Mayank is handling the situation and instead goes on to say that mere betiyon ko jis sahare ki zarrorat hai vo main hun......... aur koi nahi......... yeah right.......😕

During the marriage time he had a different shade all together.......... that time he was the one who thought whatever Nupur did was wrong......... he couldnt see her crying...... he could see her in pain....... nothing...........

I do want to mention though.......... only time i felt for bauji yday was when he was crying for Gunjan... and Nupur was consoling him........ the one where he broke down.

Originally posted by: spate22

I guess when there is a bad impression on someone, it lasts!! I guess there is a difference of seeing love in front him and not behind his back!! He didn't get to know Mayank like he did with Samrat!! It's all because of a misunderstanding!! Hopefully Adhiraj can clear it!! Or Mayank wins his heart!! 😊 But I agree he should forgive everything by now!! Especially at a time like this!! 😔 But I think he will soon, I think!! 😊 The money thing, I guess some people are like that!! 🤔 But does he know Samrat has money??!! 😆

Shreya

I agree shreya that bad impressions can be long lasting, but not when he is ur son-in-law. IF he cant see Mayank for what he is, he is quite a bad judge of character.

As for Samrat, I hope he likes him for his good qualities rather than for the fact that he is rolling in money

Most importantly is this really the time to hold grudges..sigh...

Originally posted by: myownarea

I agree shreya that bad impressions can be long lasting, but not when he is ur son-in-law. IF he cant see Mayank for what he is, he is quite a bad judge of character.

As for Samrat, I hope he likes him for his good qualities rather than for the fact that he is rolling in money

Most importantly is this really the time to hold grudges..sigh...

I agree, dude!! 😉


Shreya

Originally posted by: myownarea

Agrees with u AJ, quite vehemently..!!

I m sorry to say I dont understand this Bauji AT ALL...!!

He makes me sick at his choosing so called dignity over the love of his daughter. I really wanna know (assuming there are people like this in real life) what exactly are they gonna do with all the dignity..? People will anyway he disowned his daughter is that far more acceptable that the happiness of his daughter?


I cant accept a dad who actually mouths such a dialogue - "woh tumhare college ke fees kaise barege? " That is sooo despicable
Oh I forgot..the purpose of marriage was to pay the college fees for his daughter. SO Mayank is not a suitable guy for his daughter BECAUSE he is NOT RICH in conclusion cant pay her college fees.
Sure bauji!!!

Nupur fell at her Bauji's feet and cried her eyes out...Even a stone would melt at her tears, not her own father..Nada!!! No way!!! exactly...you can cry your eyes out...but I am damn right and I won't budge because I couldn't care less because I am RIGHT...and if he is wrong...
u cancry as much as u want ...I refuse to believe my own daughter is the simple logic he follows!!

Now when Gunjan was shot, I thought I might see a redemption in Bauji...Nope...nothing....he loves Gunjan alright (thank god for that..he doesnt say...usko goli lagi hai tho woh meri beti nahi hai) Oh Boy...I hope not...well He can...but he won't because he knows Gunjan very well...then comes the question ...does he know Nupur at all...
but even at such a stage.he has a mind that criticises and rejects Nupur.
Wow, this man is strong!!

Mayank, his daughter's husband is nothing more than the dust on his feet right now, all his genuine efforts to make bauji comfortable is looked at like ..well not looked at all...
HE did notice Sam in a good way, knowing this guy I suspect, its not just sam's reactions, it could be the fact that he can afford his daughter's fees and the hospital bills probably that is the reason why he likes sam (I certainly hope NOT!!!)..I mean thats his track record.

So, any takers for him disowning Nupur again once Gunjan gets well?

I surely hope he does, I'd rather him not accept Nupur than give acceptance for hypocritical reasons!!

I once said in one of my earlier posts during the marriage track that I'd get my dad to talk some sense into this bauji...the offer still holds good 😉 😆

--Divya

The rest I completely agree Divz...I am questioning why is he unable to extend the same understanding to Nupur ....why would a father choose...he shouldn't be...