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Posted: 15 years ago
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i don't get bauji from day one he came to mumbai...erm not exactly day one....i like the fact that he wanted to meet mayank just once because it was the question of his daughter's life....but then one ladder incident (and i not saying it was rite or wrong...i mean it was defn wrong atleast from his POV) and poof there is no question of his daughter's life...he become's the if i may use the word cruel type of a father?
i mean agreed he does not like mayank...does tat mean tat he'll get his daughter married to any random guy just because his family is so ricj etc and can pay for her fees in the college....not once he'll ask for her approval...matter of her life na?
ok after tat during the marriage he's all emotional on how's he's leaving her and going..he's a father did he once notice how sad she was with this marriage....how how terrified she is to marry the guy she doesn't even know properly....teriified of being "forced" into this marriage...
and after the photo fiasco (wat was tat 😕)..... he agree for their marriage and abandons them 😕....i wud have been happy if he wud have locked up nupur again 😆 i mean even bui was forgiving and she asked him ki where will they go and he's all like she's not my responsibilty...she married to the guy now now he has to think abt her... wat was tat...was ur daughter a burden to u tat ur happy getting rid of her? tat was really sad....and even after shilpa aunty came and met him he's on tat i have one daughter mode and i have to get her married too...lol y are u educating her then if the sole duty of urs is to get them all married....the most hillarious thing was when he said to gunjan to stay away from nupur as she is bad company...lol she has been staying with all her life....wud it now make a diff if she stays away from her....
the hosp scenario u described it quite well....she's a sister, a mother, as nupur herself said she has been with gunjan more than he has been with her and all u remember is tat u have one daughter? my heart really broke when nupur said "aur mein?"....nupur is younger to him, she knows ki bauji is very angry on her...still all she remembered at tat situation was to console bauji assuring him everything wud be allright....but then he's still mean to the equally (or shud i say more) broken nupur....who does he have in this situation for emotional support?? dia, uday?? he had to turn to nupur....
his reaction with mayank was justiied 🤔 i mean he's disowning his daughter...yeh toh apna khoon bhi nahi hai...as much as the rest of the gang is doing i'm sure mayank is doing more....i'll keep samrat aside because he emotionally shaken.....it was a nice gesture on mayank's part t offer him tea...he cud have easyily given him silent treatment but chose to insult him again....oh well i dunno...
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12
gr8 post dear...👏
u all said it...
me 2 wonderin... 😳 abt d fact dat ......
in whole situation.. he gets time 2 observe samrat ... but not mayu... who is d best son-in-law he can ever get...🤔
but Cv's can't b trusted.. 😆
hope dey clear d misunderstandin btwn mayu & so called elder.. bauji soon...😊
thnx a ton 4 such an awesome topic dear..👍🏼.
- Supriya
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: spate22

I guess when there is a bad impression on someone, it lasts!! I guess there is a difference of seeing love in front him and not behind his back!! He didn't get to know Mayank like he did with Samrat!! It's all because of a misunderstanding!! Hopefully Adhiraj can clear it!! Or Mayank wins his heart!! 😊 But I agree he should forgive everything by now!! Especially at a time like this!! 😔 But I think he will soon, I think!! 😊 The money thing, I guess some people are like that!! 🤔 But does he know Samrat has money??!! 😆

Shreya

okay...so his impression take precedence over his daughter's pain and tears....did he try to understand or make an attempt as to what my daughter is talking about before he sentenced her to life time of pain....

in my view...he is not father...he didn't even for one second look in to her eyes and wonder ...he didn't try to put aside his anger and think rationally and talk to Mayank....he decided unilaterally....and he called her buri sangat.....his own flesh and blood.....the one that had been the back bone of the family......

I guess..i am having hard time putting myself in his shoes.......I can't begin to think ....because he is wrong on so many levels....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bauji.......a father figure.who send his daughters from Morena to mumbai..for higher study........
then one day he got a call from bui , that her daughter Nupur love a guy.he came to mumbai .talk with nupur & decided to meet Mayank.......until this point he has done all the logical thongs that a father should do.
Then he saw mayank with the ladder...........for him it was wrong....but what is to do with the promise he made to his daughter that he will at least give them one chance to explain....Whatever he saw he can be angry , but that doesn't mean u just took back ur decision....
& then he did the most unacceptable thing .he decide to get married to her daughter with a stranger within 3 days!!!! I mean even if ur daughter or son made mistake u hv full right to punish him ,but this way ruining his daughter's life i donno what kind of punishment that was!& when ur daughter made mistake & ask for apology, u just caanot stop loving her.nupur went down to her knees, cried & .asked for forgiveness.he didn't even care to c that pain.just becoz Mayank cannot pay college fees.....this matter just became sooooooooooooo important..to him even more than the love for her own daughter .....Isn't it shameful for a father to even think that her daughter's husband will pay for her college fees! its ur responsibility at the first place bauji to educate ur daughter & pay their college fees!!!!!!!!!
Now come for the wedding part.......i still don't get it why he asked maynk to get marrid to nupur. when he was not ready for marriage! the only possible answer is he just wanted to take revenge ........yeah! thats it! he disown his daughter & send them away to suffer.....just for revenge & to satisfy his ego which is surely more important to him that his daughter.....& when he mentioned it in front of Mayank's mom.he made it clear! he just wanted to get rid of one burden.of his life which is his one daughter!!!!!!!! .........

& then come the Gunjan get shot scene.....he came there....to meet his only daughter...in tough time like this .ppl even forgive their rivals..but he still manged to behave rudely....& saying not even a single nice word to Mayank who is there doing all the possible thing he could to support both of his daughter...........
& that hypocrate twofaced guy accept Nupur ...just when Nupur reminded him how important she is in Gunjan's life..which he clearly forgot & was saying all these baakwaas of galad sangat again !such a shame !.....&...he needed someone to share his worry , he choose to accept her....for the time being.......never even asked a single question how she is dealing with her new life.wah! some father he is!!!!!!!!!.
& i m not even gonna go what did he saw in sam part.i m pretty sure thats the money which is talking for him.(though i hope he really saw how much sam love G).......
all in all a double faced father figure bauji , who just destroyed all the equation for a beautiful relationship like father daughter relationship.........& i ve never seen ..a father charecter like him on tv before! Hypocrisy at its best!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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aj superbly description of bauji !!
as for bauji character is concern 2 me less i say it would be better..........
1st he came down when bui called him .......than he took a mature decision after talking 2 nupur .......taking his own time in thoughts that he 1st wanted 2 meet mayank .........even when bui was going 2 ask not 2 be said he will meet
that was all in good part
next what he saw ladder scene.....he can get anry that was right on that part
now after that he took all marriage decision in anger he even didn't gave a thought 2 think of once of her daughter who is already in love .......& u expect her 2 marry in 3 days ...........
imaturity at high ...........
1st he is giving thoughts on thsi so immensely now he even didn't gave a thought of once
now seeing her daughter asking she loves sumone else she can't live without him .........u r giving reasons she can't marry ..bcoz that boy has less money
it was itself roflllllllll
bauji kispar naraz tha he has less money or he has seen that ladder scene.............
i'm still not able 2 understand that part rofl it was ..........
ok other side if mayank has more money & even seen with ladder scene he might have agreed for marriage .......
i think so if money was the matter bcoz reasoning given 2 nupur was this he can't pay ur college fees & all luxuries .............
now for shaadi scene
its boy father seen pic of bride with her BF ........the big mess he created .........
boy adhiraj was himself involved in this all revenge drama ........he couldn't utter a word ......that he also was sgreed 2 this marriage only 2 create mess in nupur's life
after that
bauji asking mayank 2 marry nupur there at that point ....without giving him option left ..........
he agreed just bcoz he doesn't wanted 2 lose nupur ......
marriage he did ........but now disowning her daughter .......ohh yeah mayank has less money that why disown her ....otherwise if he didn't disown her daughter than might be he had 2 pay money of nupur ........
he just wanted 2 get rid of her .......so he got rid
now again entry of bauji ..........he came here for ek lauti daughter.........who is on hospital bed .....sumone is showing concern 2 u atleast u can talk 2 him nicely even ur so much anrer on him ........than also at that moment all things r fogotten .........who thinks of this but no bauji had 2 think of on whom's kandha he needs 2 cry .........
i last it was only nupur only who is there 2 give her shoulder 2 cry ........
this all is out of my connection.............
on sam part -
his daughter BF is crying its luking so obvious by dialogues he is saying infront of G than also innocently asking nupur .........it was so obvious ........
he can do anything for her one daughter but .........he can't do anything for another daughter ...........
how father love is one sided...............
nupur is there give all for her father but he is only concern for his one daughter
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Trust me
i dont know about rest of the things but what shocked me more was y'day's Scene whene Sam was heart-broken, Nupur & Mayank in shock and Benji, Suhani and Others cryiing, but Bauji somehow failed to deliver the expression he should have given.

I mean remember the Hum Aapke Hai Koun ka scene when Pooja dies her father is totally heart broken and his tears just dont stop. But here i found nothing happening. Gunjan was in such a serious situation and he finds reasons to other things and thats what makes me think .... is this behavious normal or am i expecting too much?

Don't know what more to say
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Posted: 15 years ago
#17
Bauji is a character of contradiction... its probably the worst written character in my TV experience.

Although I loath this show now... I cant deny the fact, it has given some of he best and sweetest Non-Romantic relationships...

the sibling bond in N & G, best mom-son duo, the Bhushan cousins relationship grew so beautifully...

And coming to bauji- this person is beyond my understanding

In the first few epis.. he was a normal father.. just the one you ve mentioned in the begning of your post.
then he completely vanished(although we can assume, they did talk but it was not shown) , He again was a sensible man in Morena track.

then came the track which killed mjht fo me.. the infamous shadi track... the this person started defying all laws of human behavior.
First he wanted to meet mayank, then he doesnt, then he asks a college kid to marry his daughter.. then he claims his daughter's happiness is very important for him, then he asks MN to get married, then he disowns them, mocks them... apparently he had no other choice.

i dont know whats happening now, but apparently when his ONLY daughter is in coma and he still has time and energy to spread hatrate...

has he accpected SG relationship? what about "khandan & samaj "now.. i dont think shergill's and Bhushan's belpng to came community..(sorry for bringing up caste issues)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Preeti...I fail to understand his reactions seriously, No daughter deserves a father like this. HE seemed only sligthly concerned while he should ideally not be thinking of anything else when his ONLY daughter nearly loses her life.
@Neetu ... No caste issues for him, only paisa boltha hai!! PAying the girl's college fees was his main concern, may be he found out Samrat can do that comfortably, so he is ok with that. From a father who thinks his daughter is a "bhoj" whom he gave away in marriage, what more can u expect!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Preeti, well he was more busy in seeing how much Samrat loves Gunjan................
@ Neetu...........caste?.............i doubt he even knows Samrat's full name...............its only money , money and more money..............
Rich guy is sanskari..........and not so rich is totally unfit for his daughter..................
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Posted: 15 years ago
#20
@ divz & annie- it was all about money? i pity his shallowness... he should know what ever mayank will ve will be his own... because of his hardwork and smartness....

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