MN struggle to success - Page 4

@Sindhya - interesting idea!

@Jess - I agree Nupur is disassociated from the family, but the problem is they want Bauji's acceptance, nothing might seem right to him now...but they want to ensure that he does accept them and that can happen only if M takes resp (as per him ofcourse) ...after all he wanted was a family that was rich enuf to pay his daughter;s fees *Rolls eyes*

@Aj n Muski...I agree (though I dont want to agree as it seems so unreal to agree to the both of u at the same time) ...As much as we want her to take up work, it makes more sense for them to do something along the lines of her helping him out actively,,
anything, project research
or helping in doing notes
or helping out with the work that M does (is going to ie..)
keeping the spirits around the house

Muski ...that is scary....🤣...never the less...

For once I want Nupur to do something silly and Mayank gets upset....

I am dying to see the old song..."accha ji mein haari chalo maan jaao naa "...it can play on the radio and Nupur can act Madhubala...and Mayank being Adkdu adn Sadu..can be Devanand......sweet and light hearted...both end up laughing...and she says sorry and can explain the reason she behaved that way...open up more after small nok jhok...not just hugs....sit and talk....say it out loud...

Selfish me...

noooo I don't want Nupur to be withdrawn. That will happen only if Mayank leaves her.

Originally posted by: aj_observer

<br>As much as I love this idea Divz...that is not Nupur...believe me...LOL...this girl is a spitfire...the only time she looses it and withdrawn if she looses him (marriage track) ....She fights back or moves out ( post TP track) as long as she believes she has done right she will not back out......<br><br>And they part ways....fine...happens in real life too....As SG story moves along...<br><br>MN will need to establish their own identity...they are capable of it....both strong personalities and coming under one roof....I rather have them focus on themselves...I rather see them become strong than withdrawn and weak...they are closer...they need to explore and say it out loud....he is saying it...she stared and got side tracked....it is time for actions....<br><br>As a matter of fact she can be happier this way...a loving indulging husband...a house...what else is needed for the time being.....she needs to focus on self....<br><br>there is a saying in south...you can't fight a battle outside the house when you haven't even won a war inside the house...<br>

Sure :) was just a thought :)
IT would definitely be better if she retains her characteristics and decides to ignore the problems and go ahead with her married life (would that be her? she is way too attached to her sis isnt he? I mean..I keep feeling that way)

It would be good to see some clashes of personalities for a change...Not just in the way that they fight but how M n N differ in an unusual way.. I dont mean a fight here, just how different they are and how they overcome it without simply giving in to one of the ways..instead finding a middle path

@ Divz and AJ.......... I agree..............it would be nice, if M comes late one day, and goes of to sleep asking N to wake him up, coz he has to make notes..........she instead does this for him.............

Divya....it's high time MN do what they want to do....instead of pleasing everyone... they tried to give up their love for Bauji... their love did not win his heart....then how come her working or not working is going to matter to him?.... he is not going to change is opinion so easily... and as Nupur said... ek na ek din Bauji samaz jayenge...ke tum sahii hai... tum sahii ho...hamara pyaar sahii hai....

ok divz to answer ur nupur becoming serious and quite part....who said anything about her becoming serious......why evt has to be extreme......she can be responsible, sensible, mature as well as fun and spirited.....personally i'd use these two words rather than nautanki and filmy as i guess we and cvs have sort of made nautanki her trademark...... no matter if it is or isn't the right time for it.......I believe that her character can be shown to have a balance......that even surprises mayank at times......
ok me personally like the surprise factor in a couple......so promoting it.....😆

Divz...she is attached to her sister that means she knows her sister...then she will have to let her be...she did it before...minor incidents...she is not letting her go...she is letting the desire to protect her all the time go...

and she will be there for her if need be and she knows it.....

exactly...we assume a lot about our partners before marriage...we get to know our partners really well only after marriage...

from soap box to type of shampoo ...small things and little issues will pop up...it is a adjustment ....it takes time...

and trust me men are great as lover boys..once they become hubbys they change...🤣...I want to see those small adjustments...they can be quite lovely...

Yes Jess!! MN should do what THEY want to!

Originally posted by: NidheyaCole

You mean role reversal?

no ..not quite....mayank is never withdrawn...he is no nonsense guy...he only spoke when needed...and she spoke all the time...😆😆😆