MN struggle to success - Page 3

Divz...I don't think there is M and N any more...it is MN now..it is the beauty of marriage...as harsh as the outside world is...they truly have each other to fight it off...sensibly...

the assumption that she needs to work in order to support may not be right.....she can help him several ways...the more we explore the more strength it adds to the relationship......

Agreed AJ, i have always maintained that Nupur isnt stupid...............i think it wud have great to see, how Nupur would help Mayank cope up with the pressure..........

Originally posted by: muskan19

You know if i wud have posted something before you......i would have probably written the exact same thing......
I agree with you completely......i have yet to see a husband wife relationship developing between the two. They were in college fell in love.....had no responsibilities so the equation between the two was different. Now things have changed. They got married at a time when they both were not prepared for it on so many levels. So at this time they need each others support and understanding more than ever. That's why a change in the way they even converse, is necessary. More talks pertaining to how they will manage........their priorities......proper work distribution as to who needs to take care of what and in such a way that they still get time for each other. All this should be perfectly balanced out with some light moments. I personally believe that people change after major life turning events......and their marriage surely was one of them considering the circumstances. I want to see a change in characters.....i want to see Nupur specially behaving more responsibly and maturely.....yet maintaining her basic fun element......which does not have to be nautanki all the time......it can be kept simple. I want to see how their sudden marriage changes them for better......which I guess shud be the social message being tried to put across......that today's generation is smart, intelligent, confident and mature enough to handle such situations and take control of their lives.

Muskan....you always put some great ideas....

@AJ :) Yup MN it is now :)

Actually, it would be great if we can see N supporting M quite actively, that can(?) happen once the G&N issues reach a crescendo and they decide to part ways for a long time? (I dont want them to..)

Then N is left with only M in the whole wide world ...I was wondering, what if she becomes quiet and stops being very filmy or dramatic and goes about doing all the household work plus help M n support him in everything he does. Lets say she doesnt even fight much and is generally quieter...
This would break his heart :( To see her like that,,
It might make them closer ?
(is that grossly off topic 😕 )

Its not necessary for Nupur to work now.............she can finish her studies................and Myank isnt against her career, infact would be great if he helps her in chalking out a career plan..........

Originally posted by: aj_observer

Divz...I don't think there is M and N any more...it is MN now..it is the beauty of marriage...as harsh as the outside world is...they truly have each other to fight it off...sensibly...<br><br>the assumption that she needs to work in order to support may not be right.....she can help him several ways...the more we explore the more strength it adds to the relationship......<br>

Ok AJ what's wrong.....i can ditto every post of ur's 😆.......this is what exactly i've been saying all along. s u said she works or she doesn't.....that is not the issue as right now they both are struggling on many fronts ......not just financial.....if he takes care of the financial part she shud take up the rest. Yes as girls we wud like to see her be independent and work but right now her being independent is not the priority. Their pulling thru this tough time is......a lot is going on..... college, home, work and also their family problems. I would like to see nupur take up more responsibilities......tht may or may not include working .....college, home.....anything that can give mayank more freedom to work.....
About the nautanki and filmy part.....ok i'm not a fan of that movie but a scene i just remembered after ur dance idea which i really liked....."mujhse dosti karoge"......hrithik goes to rani's room where she is listening to an old hindi song.....and he offers her to dance......after a while if i remember correctly the tape gets stuck....so hrithik starts singing and they dance......a role reversal of this scene may be as she is more into songs......but such simple moments to show the delicate balance between a stressful struggle and a beautiful lovestory.......

Agreed Divz, it would be nice.........

Originally posted by: manggi28

nice post Jess...

Hmm quite a tricky question... my personal opinion is that I would like Nupur to work.. she has always been shown as a smart girl who once put's her heart and mind into something can emerge as a winner.. eg exams where she stood second... but CV's have not really developed her character in terms of what she should be doing and what her interests are.. I mean initailly she was shown to have some liking in dance and then all that got shadowed... I would really want nupur to recognize her talent and do soemthing ..hmmm maybe help her MIL in her work since she is into Market research and then she develops interst in that line or dance or maybe just anything... but they should get her to do something where she recognizes her talent....she knows that now she only as Mayank as her support system adn he might not really want her to work becasue of what bauji said... but they should get her to do something...waht abt Tam mam approaching her to assist in directing some plays or something just anything ... I know i kinda sound desperate her lol but I simply adore Nupur's character for what it is and i want her to be explored well :)

wow quite a long reply...in office so m gonna ramble some more later :)

Originally posted by: aj_observer

@ Sindhya...putting aside the idea of what CVs are planning...what would you want to see ?? how would you imagine MN moving forward ??/ that is what we are focusing on ...

You are a writer...ideas madamji...Ideas....😆

Originally posted by: myownarea

@AJ :) Yup MN it is now :)

Actually, it would be great if we can see N supporting M quite actively, that can(?) happen once the G&N issues reach a crescendo and they decide to part ways for a long time? (I dont want them to..)

Then N is left with only M in the whole wide world ...I was wondering, what if she becomes quiet and stops being very filmy or dramatic and goes about doing all the household work plus help M n support him in everything he does. Lets say she doesnt even fight much and is generally quieter...
This would break his heart :( To see her like that,,
It might make them closer ?
(is that grossly off topic 😕 )

As much as I love this idea Divz...that is not Nupur...believe me...LOL...this girl is a spitfire...the only time she looses it and withdrawn if she looses him (marriage track) ....She fights back or moves out ( post TP track) as long as she believes she has done right she will not back out......

And they part ways....fine...happens in real life too....As SG story moves along...

MN will need to establish their own identity...they are capable of it....both strong personalities and coming under one roof....I rather have them focus on themselves...I rather see them become strong than withdrawn and weak...they are closer...they need to explore and say it out loud....he is saying it...she stared and got side tracked....it is time for actions....

As a matter of fact she can be happier this way...a loving indulging husband...a house...what else is needed for the time being.....she needs to focus on self....

there is a saying in south...you can't fight a battle outside the house when you haven't even won a war inside the house...