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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah AJ but just to clarify.....i do not want to see geela tauliya on bed fights plzzzzz.....too cliche'.......... 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: muskan19

yeah AJ but just to clarify.....i do not want to see geela tauliya on bed fights plzzzzz.....too cliche'.......... 😆

correct Muskan... neither do we want fights like it;s your clothes lying on the bed... you do the work....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: muskan19

yeah AJ but just to clarify.....i do not want to see geela tauliya on bed fights plzzzzz.....too cliche'.......... 😆

no please....not those...😆😆...more like..she misplaces his hair brush or replace his gel/mouse whatever...he is organized ...she is not....etc...it needs to lead to a point....something they can learn about each other more....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nice post................It wud really gud 2 watch der desire 2 prove demselves n come out through all d obstacles in life............I know dey wud bcum more close 2 each other n understand each other wen dey pass through such a type of phase in der livesss..............
Hope to c MORE n MORE MAYUR...............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aj_observer

no please....not those...😆😆...more like..she misplaces his hair brush or replace his gel/mouse whatever...he is organized ...she is not....etc...it needs to lead to a point....something they can learn about each other more....<br>



oh i'd love a bed tea kaun banayega types cute fights......😆 happens everyday in my house....😆 u fight for 10 min. then u cut deals.....i'll make tea only if u iron clothes..... 🤣
dono mein se koi ek uth jaaye to instead of debating....tea ke saath breakfast bhi ban jaaye.... 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
#46
Exactly...it happens in every marriage....for me...I make khanaa..he does groceries ( I hate driving in the snow ...eeecchhh )...I hate excercising...he loves it...a balance...usually a bet or a fight....we come to middle way....

show that...explore ...It can be done....if done right ...it will take 5 min /day track...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ AJ & Muskan...............yeah these ideas are good.........
geela tauliya is a bit too much..............but these simple things, getting to knw each other more...........adjustments............like the chart he prepared.............Nupur asks help, and Mayank says only if u make tea tomorrow morning..........
Silly stuff.........like keeping things on right place.............infact the scene on friday maybe in other context had bits of it........when they spoke abt cooking..............abt who will clean the mess in house...........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: yash.dilse

Nice post................It wud really gud 2 watch der desire 2 prove demselves n come out through all d obstacles in life............I know dey wud bcum more close 2 each other n understand each other wen dey pass through such a type of phase in der livesss..............
Hope to c MORE n MORE MAYUR...............

They actually have the understanding level....as they said...humari life mein jo bhi hoga saath hoga... Nupur has already become stronger person for Mayank... she is giving him courage... it's just that we need to see her in action... doing some things for themselves.... taking responsibilities... facing obstacles... lot of crying has been done... Bauji has disowned her, G will go away fromher soon... she needs to be stronger now... Mayank will console her... but it's hard life for them...and it will be great to see MN successful by their own... without anybody's help... without proving to anybody...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aj_observer

Divz...I don't think there is M and N any more...it is MN now..it is the beauty of marriage...as harsh as the outside world is...they truly have each other to fight it off...sensibly...

the assumption that she needs to work in order to support may not be right.....she can help him several ways...the more we explore the more strength it adds to the relationship......



Aj.. i absolutely agree with its MN now.. and not M and N... thats marriage isnt it..

I do want N to take up something ..but not just for the financial support .. but to show that she can do better than nautanki as they call it... I mean like all of u said... she is fun but not stupid... I'm not saying being filmy is bad or anything.. but something more to it...
she does something she really likes to pursue to take pressure off her..although the idea of helping M out in his work, projects, assignments would also be great.

Her working thing should not be "majboori mein" and to support... rather it should be like she is afterall talented.
Edited by -ananya- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Ananya I agree...she shouldnt do it for fin support alone!
@ok, looks like I sowed the seeds of unusual personalities and usual differences that quite a few marriage truths are out. Though I agree a 120 pct.. (lol. even a gheela tauliya isnt such a bad thing if only it wasnt shown a million times already :)) )
Lets see if we can get a nromal married life without the dramatic stuff?

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