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Senny

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: aj_observer
It will be too much for Nupur to handle in the current position....Although it provides a great relief from her mental stress and also makes her share the responsibility ...that may not be ideal now...

She needs to accept and the fact that she now is alone with her husband and needs to esatablish a proper relationship with him....she may be his 'responsibility' but also he is hers...the delicate balance of husband wife relationship can be quite endearing to watch...

There are ways she can help him out...as he already has jotted down the to-do list in the house she can own up certain responsibilities...balance the check book....

study hard and excel....help him in making study plans ...learn along with teach...get out of filmy mode and actually have an intelligent conversation with him....she is filmy not stupid...she knows the difference between reality and fiction....

realize that he needs her to be his side...don't throw her emotional baggage on him...rather share it with him...
Be there for him at his hour of need....Like Mayank is stuck in a deadline and she will help him in non filmy yet funny way....

I will continue later as thoughts come across....since this is can be the time to re-establish Nupur and explore her character more...

AJ

Hey Anu awesomeeeeeeeeeee post. I loveddddddddd lovedddddddd your thoughts and i think the same although i would also love to see N working but i guess not at this moment, she needs to understand her current situation of life, plan which she never really does and focus on her studies and M's.

She is someone who may have done work at home like casual bit not taken control of their entire household and right now she is facing that, let her settle down alittle bit i guess.

I loveeeee your ideas of N helping M and not being an emotional baggage. Nupur is sensitive and is quite emotional so that bit would remain in her but she can cut it down a bit.

Umm i agree N is very smart and i would love to see her entering an intriguing and basic decisions but no filmy mode, that is something hard for N to get rid of.

I hope the concerned authorities read your post anu and give a real thought to it and use it accordingly.

Thankyou so much for this post jess, dancing classes later on not a bad idea. I want N to study well though so long as this doesn't effect his studies and life with M. all is well.

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Supriya

@-SupriyaluvsMN-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

omg.. awesome post.👏.

me 2 agree wid u...😊

luv 2 watch nupur workin & helpin mayu...😳

hopin 2 c mayur win deir struggles.. & prove bauji wrong..😳

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Annie

@annie07

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Posted: 15 years ago

#53

Struggles along with normal maried life............is what will be interesting to watch...........

They are two people hopelessly in love, married under not so good circumstances..................now they have to be each other's support..............emotionally and mentally..........

That wud be a nice thing..............

Nupur making notes for him, helping with household work

him helpinh ger with studies, making her realise her dreams...........

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Srishti but I prefer being called Mishu

@~*mishu*~

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

i guess that is what shud b in the future for mn,
it wud b very interesting to see them work like this,
n as u said it wud bring them closer,
i wud like it if nupur works, it'll help mayank out n they will kinda be in a better state

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stuti

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Posted: 15 years ago

#55

nice post jess ..... i too would love to see such things which you have mentioned but i dont really think dat nupur will work rite now coz mayank wants her to concentatre on her carrier but may be we can see her becoming a bit more serious towards studies and becoming more matured and responsible and helping mayank in things like making notes ...... and all and yeah wwould love to see mayank helping her in household work as well......... this track is a very interseting one and has so much of potential as well only if creatives handle it properly which is a major doubt but yeah thses simple things like hepling each other in their own ways would surely bring MN more closer and i would love to see this aspect of their life as well........

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Shamsa aka Sam

@Shamsaaa

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Posted: 15 years ago

#56

Agree with u it would be really lovely of mayuu to agree with Nupur to do the time part job to help him...............!!!but i think he wouldnt let her to work he really want's her to focus on her studies..............then he said if he cant do it alone then she could help him on that.................😊

Edited by ArTiToTheEnd - 15 years ago

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anniya_khan

@anniya_khan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#57

Id like to see dis story line atleast MN track toh hoga. Right now we r gettin very little of MN i want MN plzzzz creattives give us a MN track.

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Anuradha

@aj_observer

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Posted: 15 years ago

#58

@Ananya..I agree she should work not because of financial support but for her stability alone...I do wonder where it would fit in to the current story line...

atleast they are in pati & patni mode.....🤢🤢...because they are married they shouldn't stop developing as individuals...may be that is some thing I would like to see immediately...after settling in...an workless mind devil's den ....

I guess it is not quantity but quality that is important....take it slow but work it sensibly..

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Archana

@a-little-hope

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Posted: 15 years ago

#59

@AJ... agree with you... they need to develope as individuals.

Nupur doesn't have to work rightaway. But she can be more responsible. She can focus on her studies and find her talent that makes her happy. It should bring new beginning to her life.

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-ananya-

@-ananya-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#60

AJ... developing individually doesnt necessarily have to curb the pati patni thing... and being in pati patni thing shouldnt stop them from developing as individuals... i'm not saying being pati/ patni thing is bad.. I want best of both worlds... ok I know i'm asking for too much😆
thats the trick.. i know i'm talking abt too ideal a situation.. but surely they can give it a try.. doesnt it happen in everyday life atleast to some extent...

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