MN struggle to success - Page 2

Originally posted by: princess_dj

Jess Wonderful post........

Mayank told Nupur to concentrate on her studies for now...... so pata nahi if she would work or not.
I would love to see her help out though, may be my finishing his notes for him, doing the bigger part of projects etc.

I would love to see them do house hold chores together , studying together etc.....

and you are right.......... as long as these two are together, they can fight all the hurdles.

That's the point Deeps...it'ns not about if she will work...or he will allow her to work... it's their struggle together... right now she is occupied with too many problems with her relationship with Bauji and Gunjan. She needs emotional support.... but she will also see Mayank's struggle... her heart will tell her to become stronger... taking small dance classes will not earn big... but it will help her do what she loves to do... and that will relieve her tension....

Hi jess,
thanks for such a sensible POST (Some thing good for Society)

Mayank and Nupur
When ever i see them flash back starts
How was mayank how was Nupur ????
Mayank completely a practical person
Nupur always in dream

but when they came together they shared there good things with each other
Mayank started dreaming and Nupur learner to be on earth
They changed for each other (There love and trust has changed them a lot)

I am loving the current track of MJHT (Only MAYUR Track)
and must say you have triggered a very nice question
POST Marriage studies with Part time job ,will it be successful????

Completely agree that it is not that easy to manage
but not impossible either
if we wish we can make it possible

I am loving this track because it has a Message for our own society
Where ppl think that after marriage study is not possible
and I would love to see if they continue and show some troubles and the solutions to come out of the problems so our society will have some lessons from this

Because if some one does bad they say "aajkal ke bachhe to TV dekhakr hi bigad gaye hai"
So it means if they take those things definitely they will take this message as well

It was my POV
I hope no one is offended

Originally posted by: aj_observer

It will be too much for Nupur to handle in the current position....Although it provides a great relief from her mental stress and also makes her share the responsibility ...that may not be ideal now...

She needs to accept and the fact that she now is alone with her husband and needs to esatablish a proper relationship with him....she may be his 'responsibility' but also he is hers...the delicate balance of husband wife relationship can be quite endearing to watch...

There are ways she can help him out...as he already has jotted down the to-do list in the house she can own up certain responsibilities...balance the check book....

study hard and excel....help him in making study plans ...learn along with teach...get out of filmy mode and actually have an intelligent conversation with him....she is filmy not stupid...she knows the difference between reality and fiction....

realize that he needs her to be his side...don't throw her emotional baggage on him...rather share it with him...
Be there for him at his hour of need....Like Mayank is stuck in a deadline and she will help him in non filmy yet funny way....

I will continue later as thoughts come across....since this is can be the time to re-establish Nupur and explore her character more...

AJ

Very well said AJ.... I want her to be there for him... he is always giving her emotional support and fighting with other hurdles in life... she is filmy but not stupid...and she will understand that she needs to pitch in.... this struggle is their struggle... this is the best time to show some no nonsense Nupur... and re-establish her character more....

yaaarrr jesss i wantt smthngg similar

Originally posted by: aj_observer

It will be too much for Nupur to handle in the current position....Although it provides a great relief from her mental stress and also makes her share the responsibility ...that may not be ideal now...<br><br>She needs to accept and the fact that she now is alone with her husband and needs to esatablish a proper relationship with him....she may be his 'responsibility' but also he is hers...the delicate balance of husband wife relationship can be quite endearing to watch... <br><br>There are ways she can help him out...as he already has jotted down the to-do list in the house she can own up certain responsibilities...balance the check book....<br><br>study hard and excel....help him in making study plans ...learn along with teach...get out of filmy mode and actually have an intelligent conversation with him....she is filmy not stupid...she knows the difference between reality and fiction....<br><br>realize that he needs her to be his side...don't throw her emotional baggage on him...rather share it with him...<br>Be there for him at his hour of need....Like Mayank is stuck in a deadline and she will help him in non filmy yet funny way....<br><br>I will continue later as thoughts come across....since this is can be the time to re-establish Nupur and explore her character more...<br><br>AJ<br>

You know if i wud have posted something before you......i would have probably written the exact same thing......
I agree with you completely......i have yet to see a husband wife relationship developing between the two. They were in college fell in love.....had no responsibilities so the equation between the two was different. Now things have changed. They got married at a time when they both were not prepared for it on so many levels. So at this time they need each others support and understanding more than ever. That's why a change in the way they even converse, is necessary. More talks pertaining to how they will manage........their priorities......proper work distribution as to who needs to take care of what and in such a way that they still get time for each other. All this should be perfectly balanced out with some light moments. I personally believe that people change after major life turning events......and their marriage surely was one of them considering the circumstances. I want to see a change in characters.....i want to see Nupur specially behaving more responsibly and maturely.....yet maintaining her basic fun element......which does not have to be nautanki all the time......it can be kept simple. I want to see how their sudden marriage changes them for better......which I guess shud be the social message being tried to put across......that today's generation is smart, intelligent, confident and mature enough to handle such situations and take control of their lives.

@ Sindhya...putting aside the idea of what CVs are planning...what would you want to see ?? how would you imagine MN moving forward ??/ that is what we are focusing on ...

You are a writer...ideas madamji...Ideas....😆

Ummm good idea!! Would like to see it on screen!

@muski, wow if u were gonna write the same thing as AJ we do have hopes for a MN track 😆

@I agree...it would be great to see them helping each other out, not just M being a pillar of support for but vice versa as well ! Like the night of the marriage & the next morning when M freaked out, N was more realistic about it.

I like the idea by Monica where N helps M in the work he does, like helping with market research etc..that would be so cool!!

Muski..I think teh word filmy and nautaki has been really twisted when designing the character....I am filmy...but when the situation demands I raise above the fictional world and face the reality.....The fine line ....fun doesn't equal to idiotic...

She can be all filmy ..for once ..i would like her to ask him for a dance for an old movie song...like khudaa jaane...insists on dancing as she sees him struggling...she wants to lighten his work load...after the dance she will be his side and help him finish the job....

I am not looking for forceful Nupur who has to prevail on her husband and he needs to yield because he loves her...i am looking for a Nupur who sees and understands the pressures of her partner and relaxes him herway...as she promised him...she is with him always...in pain and pleasure...

Originally posted by: loving_bird

i feel mayu won't make her work .....as bauji challenged him 2 take care off her ...........if idea of nupz going 2 do work that it might prove bauji that he can't take care of her ,..............but he very much capable of taking care of her ..........

though i wanted 2 c nupz helping in mayu's job & nupur helping in college assignments .........

& together they r helping in house-hold work

Tanu....technically he is not capable of taking care of them alone...his bank balance is in negative... he is living in Samrat's house... he is doing part time job... earnings might not be enough... at this point...it's not about what Bauji will think if she starts working... it's about their struggle together... they don't have rich parents to support... in fact....if the creatives show Nupur working, it will be a greater social message... that girls can eually contribute in married life even though it's not big contribution...the thoughts of helping each other out in every possible way...that is what counts...