Nupur becoming insecure of gunjan **MOD note p. 25 - Page 15

exactly tanu

nupur can be and should be insecure jealous angry happy funny peaceful caring as per the situation demands it but that DOES not IMPLY that the basic personality of nupur is altered! it cannot happen in my opinion except in case of trauma!

Originally posted by: carolinecj

AJ

i just said that from a neutral point of view..i havent seen those episode..but i did hear from a friend that she was ready to sacrifice her life for baujee..but again baujee didnt knw that...and it was too late i guess when it came out infront of him...and it became a question of family's izzat for baujee... the only criminal n this whole episode is BUI who did not trust nupur's judgement at all...maybe things would have not reached this murky water scenario if BUI was willing to give nupur the benefit of doubt...buee was partial and it came out badly!


and i hate this whole gunjan is pure thing while nupur is not discussion...both of them were born in the same house and had the same sanskaar...both of them are in love...both have kised...both have hugged their BFs quite well.....how did one become better than the other?? because one is silent and one is NOT

aah the great indian prejudiced mind! outspoke ppl and impulsive ppl can be good too! and not all quiet people are good! and I am being general here!

look beyond the DRESS and the ATTITUDE to life!

@bold ...Amen to that....

exactly!
my parents have had a love marriage too..and trust me my mom had to change her religion itself..EVEN NOW i dont see my grandma complaining about sanskaars and stuff..she is proud of my ma for the way she ahs conducted ehrself all these years!

the biggest sanskaar I can ever think of in a girl is when her parents teach her to STAND For what she believes in! and NUpur is very sanskaari

she married the guy she was in love with..she didnt marry another guy and end up killing 3 lives...now THATS SANSKAAR!


buee just came across as a controlling figure! u knw the kind of people who say every decision has to be okayed by me kind....

oh BTW im loud and my sis is louder haha..as much as ever my dad thinks we should behave in a certain way..he LOVES US and that is PARENTAL LOVE-UNCONDITIONAL

AJ....exactly....parents need to trust their upbringing...and have faith in their children....

Originally posted by: -Jess-

AJ....exactly....parents need to trust their upbringing...and have faith in their children....

I don't think only Bui was at fault...she started it...but Bauji was the mostat fault for not trusting his own daughter...not listening to her....not giving her one more chance...If Mayank was bad guy in his opinion, fine...don't allow thier marriage....but why force a marriage on Nupur within 3 days to some other random guy?... He should have at least given her time to recover...If you trust your sanskar with which you brought up your daughters, then have faith in those sanskars....have trust in your child's decision... but here...Bauji acted like a hearless father....

just my POV...

u r completely right jess
parents should listen to their children's answer
bauji first need to trust his daughter and listen to what she says,
if he thinks that he bought her up properly then he should kno that his daughter would only take decision so he has to listen to them
he can't just ruin 3 ppl's life
this only shows bauji's selfishness and that he only cares about his pride but not his daughter

Nupur insecure and jealous of gunjan??🤣🤣
Ok so ur younger sis's BF kisses her in full public view and u become all proud??..wah wah..

Going by few people's views on "jealousy" perhaps this show would follow the path of 'K' shows..

nupur secretly loves samrat and cant stand SaJan togther. so she is going to plot against her own sis. and ya cvs r going to bring in a new character called ' Meena' ( Sheena's younger sister) who will reveal her real identity only after 3889956 episodes..she will enter to take badla on samrat. so right now the track has just started with nupur"s jealousy😆😆

CVs please don't let me down!!!

aww whats wrong btw GUNUR??omg im not watching mjht from monday!so i have no clue but can any1 tell me?

Originally posted by: iyer.siddhi

Nupur insecure and jealous of gunjan??🤣🤣<br>Ok so ur younger sis's BF kisses her in full public view and u become all proud??..wah wah..<br><br>Going by few people's views on "jealousy" perhaps this show would follow the path of 'K' shows..<br><br>nupur secretly loves samrat and cant stand SaJan togther. so she is going to plot against her own sis. and ya cvs r going to bring in a new character called ' Meena' ( Sheena's younger sister) who will reveal her real identity only after 3889956 episodes..she will enter to take badla on samrat. so right now the track has just started with nupur"s jealousy😆😆<br><br>CVs please don't let me down!!!<br><br>

throw in a few kids also please..to add mirchi

🥱

Its neither Nupur's fault nor Gunjan's! its the basic insecurities coming in Nupur's way....Trust me, it happens! its happened with me a couple of times, me being the older sibling! it is very natural.

Originally posted by: -Jess-

AJ....exactly....parents need to trust their upbringing...and have faith in their children....

I don't think only Bui was at fault...she started it...but Bauji was the most at fault for not trusting his own daughter...not listening to her....not giving her one more chance...If Mayank was bad guy in his opinion, fine...don't allow thier marriage....but why force a marriage on Nupur within 3 days to some other random guy?... He should have at least given her time to recover...If you trust your sanskar with which you brought up your daughters, then have faith in those sanskars....have trust in your child's decision... but here...Bauji acted like a hearless father....

just my POV...

Totally agree with you Jess! Parents bring up their children - and keep saying ke "humne sanskaar diye hain" - but when the time comes to trust those sanskaar - they don't!! Everyone around Bauji kept insisting that Mayank was really a great guy - but he was not prepared to listen and sit down and talk!! And I do feel sad - that both Mayank and Nupur had decided to give up their own love for the elders - but nobody realized or valued that - instead Adhi's dad had his say and insulted all and Bauji got MN married and threw them out!!

And even I felt that - if your daughter is in love with someone you don't like- then why not try to calm the matters down - rather than marrying her off to some guy as soon as she declares her love!!

Remember Mayank's famous battle between Dil and Dimaag - I remembered it when Gunjan was talking to her Dad about Nupur - Bauji for once needs to think with his Dil and not Dimaag!!