Nupur becoming insecure of gunjan **MOD note p. 25 - Page 13

Originally posted by: carolinecj

Human mind / activities are a combination of navarasas...and since nupur is not a saint, it is good that she has expresssed different attitudes instead of being UNIDIMENSIONAL

Sringaram (????????) Love, Attractiveness.
Hasyam (??????) Laughter, Mirth, Comedy.
Raudram (??????) Fury.
Karunyam (????????) Compassion, Mercy.
Bibhatsam (???????) Disgust, Aversion.
Bhayanakam (??????) Horror, Terror.
Viram (????) Heroic mood.
Adbhutam (???????) Wonder, Amazement.
Shantam Peace or tranquility.


one has to possess all characters that way...

as for insecurity-NUPUR CHOSE her situation..why would she be insecure for an option she chose... she is just ANGRY at certain people who serve two masters... either u talk fr ur sister or for ur dad..u cant be on both sides...

most characters do not complete the navarasa circle in MJHT..NUPUR DOES!

as for sibling rivalry..LMAO>.i can go without talking to my sis for a month..that doesnt mean INSECURITY...that means expression an OPINION

Originally posted by: carolinecj

thanks jess, nandita and others :)

the point being...

considering nupur is in a vulnerable state economically, relationshipwise AND in every angle possible except fr her relationship with her hubby..she is bound to react negatively
for a while and I am glad she does that!

it would be stupid if nupur goes all jadoo ka jappi on gunjan and tells her...aww mein tou baujee ke paas nahin hoon..sirf tum ho..baujee ke saath raho aur unko khayal rakhna..mere baare mein fikar math karo....-> BS thats not nupur and thats not real!

nupur is nupur and i appreciate the way she reacted even though my sentiments about the track are not positive.. and thats why we love her

exactly..i love her too..she does ..shows and speaks what she feels....she doesn't go on 'please everyone around me' mode

Originally posted by: princessyashika

Guys pls dont argue on who is more idealistic and who is not...we know both gunur r very good n both r idealistic...and in no way gunjan is supporting bauji....she just said that bauji did so as he had no option....she wanted 2 explain to samrat that bauji hasn't said yes out of his wish....that doesnt mean gunji is supporting buaji.and yes i agree she kissed samrat next moment....but i dont think there is anything wrong in it....commom guys kissing is just a beautiful way of expressing love...remember...mayu greeted nupur with a kiss a day before maurena track began....that was sho sweet.
It is all circumstantial....bauji think nupur is wrong coz acc. to him he has a wrong impression of mayank....bauji was never of the thought that their daughters cant be in love....he said to bui that he will meet the boy whom nupz love....so its simple no one is wrong just circumstances.and as far as gunji talking abt bauji is concerned....she just wanna act normal u know....see when some of our loved one gets hurt...we dont stop applying the medicine coz its hurting...but rather we dont mind that hurting a bit if in long run this helps....thats what gunji is doing.....she wants that nupur shudn't feel left out....so she keeps on talking abt bauji....not to hurt her but to make her realise that nupz is still a part of family and like always both of them can talk abt their bauji.

I dont have anything against kissing
but I said it was at a wrong moment
especially after bauji warning her
But I still think talking about bauji repeatedly in front of Nupur will only hurt her more
this wont make her a part of the family

Originally posted by: carolinecj

Human mind / activities are a combination of navarasas...and since nupur is not a saint, it is good that she has expresssed different attitudes instead of being UNIDIMENSIONAL

Sringaram (????????) Love, Attractiveness.
Hasyam (??????) Laughter, Mirth, Comedy.
Raudram (??????) Fury.
Karunyam (????????) Compassion, Mercy.
Bibhatsam (???????) Disgust, Aversion.
Bhayanakam (??????) Horror, Terror.
Viram (????) Heroic mood.
Adbhutam (???????) Wonder, Amazement.
Shantam Peace or tranquility.


one has to possess all characters that way...

as for insecurity-NUPUR CHOSE her situation..why would she be insecure for an option she chose... she is just ANGRY at certain people who serve two masters... either u talk fr ur sister or for ur dad..u cant be on both sides...

most characters do not complete the navarasa circle in MJHT..NUPUR DOES!

as for sibling rivalry..LMAO>.i can go without talking to my sis for a month..that doesnt mean INSECURITY...that means expression an OPINION

Very well said caroline!! Nupur is not insecure - she's quite happy that she married Mayank!! Not for a sec she has shown any doubts as to the path she has chosen!! Infact in the last two days she's more sure than Mayank!! And if you notice, she's adapted very quickly to being Mayank's wife!! And she's the type of sister who always has been protective of her little sister - looking out for her and is thrilled everytime someone praises her. And I'm sure she is glad that Bauji has at least one daughter who takes care of him!! She's not a selfish character.

What disturbs her is that Gunjan is agreeing with Bauji's opinion and understanding his POV - and not understanding Nupur's - She always felt that Gunjan understood her. At the same time Nupur sees her romancing with Samrat in public - definitely something that Bauji will not like. If you see the expressions on Nupur's face - the very first time she sees them - she's a little startled by the PDA (public display of affection) and you see her looking around - and see the protective look on her face!! Later on when she sees them again - she has the "Bhai Wah" expression - she feels that Gunjan is displaying double standards - not understanding Nupur's feelings and explaining bauji's majboori to Samrat - while at the same time Sajan are being so demonstrative. I would say - perfectly natural!!

Sibling discord is quite common - be it in college or anywhere!! My sis and I fight all the time and as you said I can go by without talking to her for a month - and then we'll start missing each other and wonder why we ever fought!! Then it's kiss kiss and we're back as if nothing happened!! So hopefully GuNur would be the same way!!

Originally posted by: princessyashika

<br><br><font color="#6600cc"><font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">Guys pls dont argue on who is more idealistic and who is not...we know both gunur r very good n both r idealistic...and in no way gunjan is supporting bauji....she just said that bauji did so as he had no option....she wanted 2 explain to samrat that bauji hasn't said yes out of his wish....that doesnt mean gunji is supporting buaji.and yes i agree she kissed samrat next moment....but i dont think there is anything wrong in it....commom guys kissing is just a beautiful way of expressing love...remember...mayu greeted nupur with a kiss a day before maurena track began....that was sho sweet.<br>It is all circumstantial....bauji think nupur is wrong coz acc. to him he has a wrong impression of mayank....bauji was never of the thought that their daughters cant be in love....he said to bui that he will meet the boy whom nupz love....so its simple no one is wrong just circumstances.and as far as gunji talking abt bauji is concerned....she just wanna act normal u know....see when some of our loved one gets hurt...we dont stop applying the medicine coz its hurting...but rather we dont mind that hurting a bit if in long run this helps....thats what gunji is doing.....she wants that nupur shudn't feel left out....so she keeps on talking abt bauji....not to hurt her but to make her realise that nupz is still a part of family and like always both of them can talk abt their bauji.</font></font><br>

i agree with u princessyashika..
"kissing is just a beautiful way of expressing love"
VERY WELL SAID.. 😊

Originally posted by: faranzafar

i agree with u princessyashika..
"kissing is just a beautiful way of expressing love"
VERY WELL SAID.. 😊

NOT KISSing in Public my dear

😃

private matters must be kept private😆

but i still like ur thought..

well said princessyashika..i just added an extra line to it...

kissing is a beautiful way of expressing love but it must not be in public

Goshh!! I think i'm posting on this forum after ages...!! 😆 😆 😆 ok my question to all those referring to nupur as the 'negative' character...so does being insecure abt ur sister make u negative??

Originally posted by: carolinecj

<br><br>NOT KISSing in Public my dear<br><br>😃<br><br>private matters must be kept private😆<br><br>but i still like ur thought..<br><br>well said princessyashika..i just added an extra line to it...<br><br>kissing is a beautiful way of expressing love but it must not be in public<br><br><br><br>

i did'nt said in public dear.. 😃

Originally posted by: carolinecj

NOT KISSing in Public my dear

😃

private matters must be kept private😆

but i still like ur thought..

well said princessyashika..i just added an extra line to it...

kissing is a beautiful way of expressing love but it must not be in public

Completely agree with you yaar
even I think the same
VERY VERY VERY WELL SAID............