Nupur becoming insecure of gunjan **MOD note p. 25 - Page 14

Originally posted by: faranzafar

i did'nt said in public dear.. 😃

oh i knw

i just added an extra line to clarify that😃

I would feel the same way if I was nupur, it's a very natural thing for silbing, and i mean gunjan has a BF too but bauji likes him and gunjans still the angel and nupur is the bad one, if you dont remember for episodes, i think when they were in morena, bauji use to always say gunjan was teh good one and nupur was the bad one, but he still loved them both

and even if gunjan does confess about samrat, all the blame will go on nupur for coruptting her,

nupur was happy with gunjan until she bought bauji, and gunjan needs to realize that after such drama bauji would be kind of a sensitive topic

Originally posted by: carolinecj

Human mind / activities are a combination of navarasas...and since nupur is not a saint, it is good that she has expresssed different attitudes instead of being UNIDIMENSIONAL

Sringaram (????????) Love, Attractiveness.
Hasyam (??????) Laughter, Mirth, Comedy.
Raudram (??????) Fury.
Karunyam (????????) Compassion, Mercy.
Bibhatsam (???????) Disgust, Aversion.
Bhayanakam (??????) Horror, Terror.
Viram (????) Heroic mood.
Adbhutam (???????) Wonder, Amazement.
Shantam Peace or tranquility.


one has to possess all characters that way...

as for insecurity-NUPUR CHOSE her situation..why would she be insecure for an option she chose... she is just ANGRY at certain people who serve two masters... either u talk fr ur sister or for ur dad..u cant be on both sides...

most characters do not complete the navarasa circle in MJHT..NUPUR DOES!

as for sibling rivalry..LMAO>.i can go without talking to my sis for a month..that doesnt mean INSECURITY...that means expression an OPINION

Originally posted by: nidhi_88

I would feel the same way if I was nupur, it's a very natural thing for
silbing, and i mean gunjan has a BF too but bauji likes him and gunjans
still the angel and nupur is the bad one, if you dont remember for
episodes, i think when they were in morena, bauji use to always say
gunjan was teh good one and nupur was the bad one, but he still loved
them both<br><br>and even if gunjan does confess about samrat, all the blame will go on nupur for coruptting her, <br><br>nupur
was happy with gunjan until she bought bauji, and gunjan needs to
realize that after such drama bauji would be kind of a sensitive topic

well i dont thnk so or remember dat bauji said in morena dat gunjan was da goodone or nupur was da bad 1.. he loved his both daughters dat time..

well baujee still LOVES both his daughters..

a lil show of anger is not going to diminish/eliminate his love for his oldest daughter!

he will come around...

PS: as for who is the BETTER daughter..that is a sensitive question..

Better can be truthful daughter or better can be muska waali daughter..let me not talk about that for now

for thsoe who dont understand this..there si teh FABLE called PRODIGAL son..in my opinion both daughters were wrong..UTTERLY wrong..

one for hidiing her relationship ...one for going against his wishes

i started a topic but it got closed because similar topic already exists, so i am posting what i posted there:

guys, i dunno why people are so against Nupur.
she is going through so much.
she was always a good daughter and sister. she in fact was ready to marry adhiraj for the sake of bauji's happiness. but it was bauji who was so stubborn, he didn't even care to atleast listen to her before imposing his decision on her. and when she finally married mayank he disowned her, how heartless can he get...!!! nupur has always loved him so much..... and my heart aches when i think what she went through when gunjan mentioned bauji today........
after all he's her father she wishes to be loved by him like it used to be before.
and personally i think gunjan should understand what nupur is going through and atleast refrain mentioning bauji in front of her. i don't appreciate the way she's acting as if everything's okay, because its okay for her.
Remember how nupur didn't tell her about mayank and her confession because she thought gunjan might feel bad coz samrat at that time was with sheena. so i dunno why people are against her as a good sister.
i personally feel nupur's reaction is justified.

Originally posted by: carolinecj

thanks jess, nandita and others :)

the point being...

considering nupur is in a vulnerable state economically, relationshipwise AND in every angle possible except fr her relationship with her hubby..she is bound to react negatively
for a while and I am glad she does that!

it would be stupid if nupur goes all jadoo ka jappi on gunjan and tells her...aww mein tou baujee ke paas nahin hoon..sirf tum ho..baujee ke saath raho aur unko khayal rakhna..mere baare mein fikar math karo....-> BS thats not nupur and thats not real!

nupur is nupur and i appreciate the way she reacted even though my sentiments about the track are not positive.. and thats why we love her

Originally posted by: carolinecj

well baujee still LOVES both his daughters..

a lil show of anger is not going to diminish/eliminate his love for his oldest daughter!

he will come around...

Absolutely!! One cannot just eliminate the love for a child!!

One just has to see the expressions on bauji's face when Gunjan mentioned how Nupur wrote an essay on her Bauji when she had to write an essay on her mother!! btw: loved that part of the convo where Gunjan was talking about Nupur - a window into little Nupur!!

@Caro...one correction..she didn't...he didn't know that...never gave her the chance......which father would knowingly give his daughter away forcefully having known that she is in love with another guy.......she gave up her life for her father.....if the picture never was found by the groom's dad...the wedding would have taken place with Adhiraj....

AJ

i just said that from a neutral point of view..i havent seen those episode..but i did hear from a friend that she was ready to sacrifice her life for baujee..but again baujee didnt knw that...and it was too late i guess when it came out infront of him...and it became a question of family's izzat for baujee... the only criminal n this whole episode is BUI who did not trust nupur's judgement at all...maybe things would have not reached this murky water scenario if BUI was willing to give nupur the benefit of doubt...buee was partial and it came out badly!


and i hate this whole gunjan is pure thing while nupur is not discussion...both of them were born in the same house and had the same sanskaar...both of them are in love...both have kised...both have hugged their BFs quite well.....how did one become better than the other?? because one is silent and one is NOT

aah the great indian prejudiced mind! outspoke ppl and impulsive ppl can be good too! and not all quiet people are good! and I am being general here!

look beyond the DRESS and the ATTITUDE to life!