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Posted: 15 years ago
@violetscarf- u r right, actually i dont knw thr details of the matter, i just read tht thread and the huge response here, its clear tht the girl is deeply hurt.
To stop all this i guess the best thing is to make the real username public, noone would want tht insult and it is for this very reason the person created an MID at the first place, i dont think the member's frnds r gonna be really proud of her/him or after tht thread any1 wud want to be frnds with her/him.
I dont knw if for tht person hate is stronger or Love, but no1 can bear hatred of others.
and thts wat members will do once the real username will be out...atleast members who dont knw her/him personally.
and the insult may work magic n prevent tht member from doing such cheap tricks ever again on IF atleast.
not only tht member but others as well who r runnng MID's in the forum.
Edited by VampirePrincess - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
@ Preeti- I don't think we have asked for something impossible....All we require is that person who created such a topic to come forward publically in his/her orginal identity and apologize ,...... Is this a big problem....and what about banning the Id...many times i've seen certain members being warned just for small fights then what about such an issue, wherein a member was publically insulted and please keep in mind about the language used in that post........
If the person can humiliate a member publically then i think he/ she should show the guts to come forward and accept their mistake under their real identity instead of hiding behind some other id and acting like cowards....Acceptance is always better than denial....coz even now somewhere in that person atleast a pinch of humanity might exist.....
Today if you provide this kind of people with a loophole then tomorrow or in the future they'll definitely be back again with such acts....I know if it's a person who has lost all the basic human values then even a ban will not stop them from comitting such an act...coz that's their trait.....
Today just because of such an indecent act we are about to loose a valuable member from the forum, who not only have entertained us with his/her post's but also with his/her pleasing character....Not only that today if an action is taken against this issue then you'll be able to control many such acts on others tomorrow.
Please donot move out from your responsiblity by saying that you may not be active on the forum...on the other hand we'll appreciate you if you could first settle this issue and move on .....
@ vampire princess- i agree with your thoughts too and thank you...
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Posted: 15 years ago
@ VampirePrincess: I think you misunderstood Preeti's post. Most of the posts that have led to problems were posted by newbies, who happened to be MIDs. So if you know that the contents of the thread will create problems, then you shouldn't reply to them and add more fuel. So basically ignore problem posts. Hope I'm making sense here =)
I know it may be frustrating for you guys and it seems like we're doing nothing but the DT really is trying hard to sort this out. We're here to help you guys and run this forum smoothly and therefore need your cooperation.
Edited by -Ravjot- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
That ID has been banned and Nikki has been PM'ed and informed about the Rest of the Issues as it was pertaining to her.

@VampirePrincess, VioletScarf, jayresh
I never said Avoid Interacting with Newbie's as thats unfair to genuine people. All i said was avoid disclosing personal Info's and Crucial matters to people you dont trust totally. Thats the only way we can prevent such things from happening again.


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Posted: 15 years ago
@Ravjot- yeah i understood abt tht, i was referring to my other complaint as well some ppl create MID's n act as if they r loyal fans of one couple just to make fun of them later.
My frnd aashizin has been the victim of such cheap tricks.
m sure her PM's have reached u guys regarding tht.
About the current issue, i just want the name of the person who made tht thread using an MID.
We appreciate ur attempts and i trust u as well, its just tht this time we want an action n tht too fast.
edited
just read ur post preeti..thnks
-ZJ
Edited by VampirePrincess - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
@ Preeti - thank you for trying to clear out this matter preeti...but banning that ID didn take care of this matter at all.....and that ID was definitely NOT a newbie, thats for sure.....I mean it was that person's first post and which newbie would join a forum with the only purpose of humiliating a member of this forum for absolutely no reason except for the sake of entertainment....
the whole thing was disgusting beyond belief and I even have issues with people who pressed like on a post that insulted a member that way and didn even have the grace to apologize for it....
if banning that ID was the only thing you guys can do then I am quiet sure we will see these things happening more often in this forum because from this post its very clear that there are some really incredible individuals among us who think its their right to do whatever the heck they want.....and Preeti people like that dont change unless forced to do so....I know you guys can investigate to find out which ID made this post and I really hope you do because the girl who was insulted like that deserves at least that much from you guys...
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Posted: 15 years ago
first of all i will thank DB.....for d constant support he had given me....for undrstandin d situation.....thanx a ton DB for alwz bein such a fair impartial mod.....😃😃.....

@Preeti.....
1st of all thank u for bannin tht id.....BUT LET ME TELL U....THIS IS UTMOST LEAST THING U ALL CUD HV DONE TO ME INFRONT OF D MENTAL TRAUMA I WS MADE TO UNDERGO FOR D PAST TWO DAYS....

You may think im over reacting but am i not justified...They have PUBLICLY INSULTED me,HUMILIATED me and im supposed to wait.That too action against that account was taken only after 48 hours of the incident taking place.But the most disturbing part is that i KNOW who all did this.You may be surprised but i know.They told me personally that they were the ones who did it.They however refused to publicly apologise as they presume that they did nothing wrong and it was just a "JOKE".Just a joke?...but jst bcoz i dnt hv solid proofs other than they told me...who wud beleive me....they can evn deny it sayin they nevr told me,if i publically took their names here...SO THTS D ONLI REASON I AM KEEPING MY MOUTH SHUT...

They have made a fool out of me and hurt my feelings beyond repair.
To add to it all the people who "liked" that paticular post didnt even apologise after knowing that it wasnt a joke-only two did Aastha and Deblina.The rest i presume found it "Very Funny"
.This isnt the first time its happened-its happened previously on Arjun Bijlanis blog too..n tht too on d same day such inhuman fiasco happened to me in IF,two days ago...They call themselvs "loyal fans" but they are downright insensitve to target me again and again.Such behaviour isnt forgiven or to be ignored.What if the same has happened to you.But now as you said nothing can be done i think its useless even telling you what i went thorugh.

PS-you were saying that all my friends spammed the pages beacuse i told them to,Im Proud to say that i didnt ask them to,they did it out of thier love and respect for me...evn ppl who r nt evn my frnz they also supported me coz THEY ALL R WELL EDUCATED N MATURE ENUF TO DECIDE THT WHT HAPPEND TO ME WS SOMETHING VICH CROSSED THE LIMITS OF HUMANITY....

nywz thnxx to all who insulted me beyond all limits...hope nw they r satisfied wid their outcome...

thnxx to all who supported me for gettin me justice.....

thnxx to mods for takin action...TEMPORARILY....

n i hope i wnt come here again wid same complaint.......I HOPE...

I END THIS ISSUE RITE NW......nw i wil decide wht shud i do next......
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Posted: 15 years ago
Oh God! this is really humiliating and depressing😒. How can one do this? We all are here to share our love for this show. We are here to give our inputs and feedback. So please don't absue or bash anyone. We all are coming from a nice family. So be polite, positive and respectful to each other.
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Posted: 15 years ago
i can really understand from what pain di suffered............people go beyond limits to insult someone..........so pathetic..........nikki di at least pm me the name who did this all........and preeti di that was a mid.........the person who did all this is roaming free in the forum...........thats too sad......that person is so cheap and pathetic........imagine if once again that persons repeat something like this with another mid ..........than what.......an another person will broke and the person who creates those mids will still roam free in forum............cant we know who actually did all this......that person should be banned ...
and if that person is really guilty of what he did......was actually not knolwing whatg he did was not a joke....😡.....which i doubt actually ....a post for an apology to nikki di should be made by the person's real id................
Edited by Surbhi123 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
thanks for banning that mid...............
Edited by Surbhi123 - 15 years ago

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