Why Is The Girl Always Taunted??? =S - Page 3

Originally posted by: angelic shaz

very interesting topic naima

Originally posted by: _Naima1994_

Hey guys, well you seen in todays epi, that Dia didnt want to come out of the washroom coz she was to scared to face anyone, even though she didnt do anything.

Yesterday you saw that the college was laughing at Dia for having a "one-night stand" with Rv.

But the point is, how come everyone blamed Dia only? And not Rv?

Coz Rv was equally responsible for this even though it didnt happen, but people think it did, so how come nobody questioned him and instead taunted Dia?

I feel sorry for Dia as she will have to face criticism and taunts for something she didn't do, nor was responsible for! Even today society is pretty narrow minded about certain things, especially when it comes to women! Men tend to get away with things like one night stands etc just because they are men and don't normally get blamed but someone always will point a finger towards the women! 😡 It's because women aren't given the respect in that manner!

Is is coz of the way society is, its always the girls fault, no matter what the guy does he cant be held responsible, or is it the way our minds think?

Even though in todays society, girls and guys have same rights and positions, the girl is always degraded for things she does, but the guy is let off, why?

I don't believe that women are given the same rights, yes we have accomplished alot as women, we do have many right but equal rights with men, no way, men even today in the 21st century have more rights than the women! It's still considered that boys are better than girls in many societies! Why? Because a son can grow up and support his family whereas a daughter will be married off, so she won't be able to support her family!? It's despicable and disgusting!

Isnt that sexist? Yes it is, as well as being discriminative towards women!

No matter how much the society chenges, will a girls reputation remain like this, one mistake, and she will be degraded and taunted for the rest of her life, and the guy will be free to do anything and nobody will say anything to him?!

You just said it all, there are certain things that even in todays age people have difficulty accepting, women having equal rights is one of them and it will carry on unless people are willing to be open minded and think about these things carefully and accept it!

No Matter whether its a rape case, a one-night stand or pregnant before marriage, the girl is always blamed, why does the girl have to tolerate these taunts and accusions? Why do people never let girls get over and forget about these incidents in the past?

Television serials always show a girl being taunted, but the guys gets away with it, why?

Has our Society really changed?! Or have they just decided that "girls should be let out of the house and allowed to make their life decisions themselves", IS change?

Society has changed in many ways, I agree but still there are many things which peopl arent willing to accept! There's still discrimination towards women, why? I will never understand! I think it will carry on until such a time comes when everyone is capable of being an open minded person! Even in the western society women are being stopped by the "glass ceiling" to get higher positions than men in jobs! It's one of the sad truths of our wold that women always get degraded and discriminated against in such cases as rape, pregnancy out of wedlock or one night stands! And it's just not the men, women themselves do it to women, because of their tough narrow minded views! It should be a real eye opener to everyone to see how women are degraded, when instead every women should be respected and not looked at as a sex toy! It really is very sad and demeaning! I find it vile and atrocious!

I would love to hear you views on this, please do share.

Originally posted by: _Naima1994_

as usual no comments 😆 😆 😆

thanks shaz.

Originally posted by: maybe-just

Originally posted by: angelic shaz

😆😆 i will comment on this

i feel that society has a very sterotypical view i agree Rv was equally involved but the society will point finger to the girl because girl is seen a pakeezah and once a mark there is doesnt go and it is also seen that the women are vulnerable and cant to do anything this is where i thing where the society judges women i think that the society should give that women chance to forget what has happen and shouldnt says things to remind her because by this this it will make them weak they should encourage her so she is able to ovecome wat has happened

Originally posted by: miss5stars

hey! nice topic! 😃hi, thanks you

i tottaly agree with you why is the girl always blamed, i mean we're only human too! 😕

and honestly..why is the guy not blamed? hes the one that most likely forced the girl into it.

maybe, maybe not, yes the girl shouldnt be blamed alone for tis, the guy had an equal responsibiliy, so why the sexist behaviour? but i disagree with teh guy forcing the girl, that may be so in csome cases but most of the time, the girl does one night stands on her own will, and therefore she has to face consequences, but why should the girl face tem only, is what iratates me, why cant the guy be blamed for once?

our desi society will always remain the same...

unless the new generation changes it...

Well, im not happy living in a desi society which still has discrimination towards women, but hun, this also happens in western societies as well, so were not alone. and until someone raises there voice on this matter, nothing is going to change.

Thanks for commetting

Originally posted by: maybe-just

Thanks Nimmo!

BTW Great topic! 👏I'm glad u made such a topic! 😉