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Posted: 16 years ago
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the saddest thing is trhat even though it may actually be the boys fault......the gil always gets pinned as charecterless.....very disturbing.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Excellent post Naima 👏

What I really fail to understand is, Rannvijay is the new guy in Excel, while Dia has always been an old and well known student. So, the question is, inspite of the fact that people knew what RV did to Sammy earlier, they really believe him, and not Dia?

Haven't they known Dia and her character much better. Personally, I wouldn't believe a new guy, an instead believe the one whom we all know since such a long time. These might seem insignificant things, but such things matter. This shouldn't be ignored. If the whole of Excel could believe that Gunjan could never push Sheena into the pool, how could they even possibly believe RV and his trash?

And that is true, that whenever such issues arise, it is always the girl who is blamed, who's character is questioned, while the guy just escapes it all. This is really unfair on the girl, even though it wasn't her fault..she has to face innumerable taunts..

the only reason is..
GENDER DISCRIMINATION, which really pisses me off!

RV should be the one suffering, not Dia! And if Royals don't marry girls who do "all that" before marriage, then who the heck says..royals can have one night stands? Shouldn't the so called Royals' character be questioned then? Ugh, this is really unfair towards girls!


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Posted: 16 years ago
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I know its insane that our society is conditioned in a manner to think that XYZ things are ok for guys..but god forbid, a girl does the same thing she is considered immoral.
Forget a girl having a one-night stand (or anything else)..even implication is sufficient to taint the girl.
I fail to understand, especially in such cases how the girl alone cud've done anything..? The mind set is what requires changing...! I think most importantly, as girls, we must change our way of thinking as well...only then will it go a long way in changing the mind-set of the society..
Speak up if you find anything wrong happening
Fight for your rights
Do not implicate when u do not know the truth..

Sorry, I got carried away but the subject is close to my heart so I had to put in atleast one-millionth of what i feel...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: armidz4ever

you are so right...the guy is equally responsible...for guys life is all just baout fun and games...they do whatever the hell they want n get away with it...but us girls we have to get blamed for all eh things that we do, thats what annoys me the most. ....even if the guys are equally responsible....for example...the whole one night stand thing....if the guy does it...he is so cool and every one loves him for it...btu the girl on the other hand gets treated like crap, humiliated and maybe even isolated from society in some cases good point, and true, its again discrimination towards women, why are the guys not isolated as well? they were equally responsble, but its the girl that gets shamed because, guys are seen as higher than wmoen therfore they can never be wrong and its always the womens fault. .....but they both are equally responsible....society needs to change its views on this because being sexist will not make the world a better place....it will only make it so much worse, Bullseye, well said, theres already many things going on in our world and these sexist peeple are not making our lives any easier.

Thanks for commenting. 😊

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruti.nil

the saddest thing is trhat even though it may actually be the boys fault......the gil always gets pinned as charecterless.....very disturbing.....

...and very sad, which is what disgusts me, i cant believe i actually live in a society that consists of discrimination to women, even though im in UK, this still exists everyewhere, and it can weaken or compel a women to go for suicide, since they cannot take in all this BS about being character less.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: utfracks

Excellent post Naima 👏Thankyou

What I really fail to understand is, Rannvijay is the new guy in Excel, while Dia has always been an old and well known student. So, the question is, inspite of the fact that people knew what RV did to Sammy earlier, they really believe him, and not Dia? Bingo, it doesnt make sense, to me atleast, how can a guy who you know for four months or so change your mind about a girl you for how many years who knows? i certainly could not do that, for sure. and the worst part is NOBODY taunted Rv when Dia was being insulted infront of the entire college.

Haven't they known Dia and her character much better. Personally, I wouldn't believe a new guy, an instead believe the one whom we all know since such a long time. Ditto! These might seem insignificant things, but such things matter. This shouldn't be ignored. Correct.If the whole of Excel could believe that Gunjan could never push Sheena into the pool, how could they even possibly believe RV and his trash? Excellant point, but i guess it wasnt the whole excel at the farmhouse was it? it was just the gang, and thankfully the believed Dia and nor Rv's BS. Its time like these when i really appreciate my friends.

And that is true, that whenever such issues arise, it is always the girl who is blamed, who's character is questioned, while the guy just escapes it all. This is really unfair on the girl, even though it wasn't her fault..she has to face innumerable taunts.. I know, whether its underage pregnacy, or pregant before marriage, or onenight stands, these were the girls foolihness to do them in the first place, but the point is WHY is the girl only insulted and degraded, WHY is the guy let off from EVERYTHING after ONE shout, while the girl remains to live the rest of her life in shame and embarrasment, its sick!

the only reason is.. *drumroll*......
GENDER DISCRIMINATION, BULLSEYE! which really pisses me off! Me too!

RV should be the one suffering, not Dia! And if Royals don't marry girls who do "all that" before marriage, then who the heck says..royals can have one night stands? Shouldn't the so called Royals' character be questioned then? This is what makes me angry, iff a royal cant mary a girl that does all that, tat Dia apparently did last night with him, who the heck would wanna the royal who done that?! its common sense people, but no, everyone sees it as Dia's fault and no one will even ASK Rv, how come you did it too? No body will question Rv since hes a riyal, and wtf is a royal anyway and who gives him the right to do all the stuff he claimed to do with Dia, im sure theres no exception like, only royals can have "one night stands", its disgusting!!!

Ugh, this is really unfair towards girls! Complete discrimination!
Thansk for commenting. 😊


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Posted: 16 years ago
#37
great topic....
its sad but true...the girls are always looked at with disgust after such a rumour speads...people claim its her faiult that she couldnt maintain her dignity...but what about the guy yaar?!
its like "woh to ladka hai..woh to yeh sab hi chahega..." but the girl must have stooped herself to fulfill his "wishes"....
despite knowing how most girls are generally gullible, emotional and innocent at heart people always blame HER not HIM!!!! its a sad fact of our society....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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hey honey, excellent post. will get back to you soon man, kind of busy but i have something to say regarding this matter as well.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guyz i know this topic is slightly delicate, u can discuss but please remember not to swear (even wid asterixes) ...even at the characters😳,
there r people here as young as 13 and seniors who maybe reading these comments- hope u understand what I mean

Thank you

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: kandy

great topic.... Thankyou
its sad but true...the girls are always looked at with disgust after such a rumour speads...people claim its her faiult that she couldnt maintain her dignity...but what about the guy yaar?! Ditto!
its like "woh to ladka hai..woh to yeh sab hi chahega..." but the girl must have stooped herself to fulfill his "wishes".... truely said, yes the girl did end up giving into the guys "wishes" out of foolishness, so yes she can be blamed, but why should the girl be blamed only, the guy is equally responsible, but nobody says a word to the guy, why? because hes a guy and the girl is a girl, shes seen as a thing that has been "used" now so no one will even look at her and everyone will put her to shame, but the guy will stil be "pure" and will get as many girls as he wants why? because hes a guy.
despite knowing how most girls are generally gullible, emotional and innocent at heart people always blame HER not HIM!!!! its a sad fact of our society....
😭and its sad that we have to live in this society, and to think people claim that society has changed, really!? well i would like to know HOW exactly society has changed, apart from girls are allowed to work out the house, i dont see a single glimpse of change. Men are still given a higher position to women, and people say society has changed?! As if! Until that day comes when women and men are given equal rights, nothing is going to change and discrimination towards women will continue.

Thanks for commenting hun. 😊

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