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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey guys :)

please give me some advice on this...i'm really confused =/
but please read ALL of it before advising anything

background info-

ok- so it started around last year- august...when i started like him😳
he's a junior-and i'm a freshman. our families are reallyyyy really good friends- we've known each other since forever. but i never really talked to him until i switched schools- i started going to his high school. on the 2nd day of school he came up to me between lunch and 6th period and asked me how i was adjusting/if i needed anything. he said that if i needed help/had questions i could come to him anytime.- and i think since then i started liking him.😳

everyday since then i kept glancing towards him and whenever we made eye contact i smiled and he returned the sweetest smile ever😳

and that went on for a while lol. - ok let me tell u that my parents are SUPER strict and don't want me dating. and the junior i like is pretty conservative.

then around march- i started volunteering at this place; and later i found out that he volunteered there too.
so when i first went there- he saw me and and smiled and we talked and stuff. our shifts both ended at 3- so we had lunch together. :)
we kept talking and stuff
then after that weekend i went to school and saw him in the cafeteria and he came upto me while i was getting a drink and we talked for 10 minutes...it was so sweet 😳

then the next saturday- i met him again at my volunteering place and we talked some more...and this continued for a couple saturdays. i think this got us a lot closer.😃

then april 19th (saturday) was my bday :)
i was the first one at volunteering- so i decided to start my work already. then as he opened the door to the room, i turned around and before saying anything - he put on the sweetest/cutest smile EVER and said happy birthday and gave me a HUG!!!!!😳
i felt so safe in his arms- and this was prob. the best birthday ever- only because i spent half the day with him :)
im telling you, i was on top of the world that day! lol
and the weirdest part is that i never even told him that it was my birthday
but later he told me that he saw me in the lunchroom the previous day and heard my friends singing 'happy bday' for me.😊


later i realized that "wowww, i really like this guy....prlly more than just a crush!" so i decided to tell a couple of my friends- because i've never felt this way about a boy before- i mean sure, ive had tons of crushes- but never like this. there's just something about this junior that makes him so amazinggg!

my friends started paying more attention towards him and everytime he would look at me they would let me know- and i never realized how much he looks at me! i thought i was the only crazy one who looked at him!
they told me that he looks at me every 2 seconds in the lunchroom (he sits 4 tables across from mine)- and whenever i pass by him in the hallways he always smiles.

sooooooooo- i want to know if he likes me!
what should i do?
i think about him 24/7- no joke
i look at his facebook picture everyday! i really LOVE him!
but whenever i see him- i get so nervous and butterflies in my stomach
i want to talk to him, but at the same time i get nervous!

any tips? what r ur thoughts on this? do u think he likes me?

reply back! xx

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Posted: 17 years ago
#2
awwww omg he sounds so sweet,
i think he prolly does like yu,
😊
Edited by cutiex0 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hey! Hun, well I just read ur whole story, and it was really sweet and a lot like the ones I've had so my advice to you is think before you do something, b/c u'll always think they like you but you don't know the truth for sure and plus u don't wanna do something stupid...I mean he could like you so you have to find a way to get to know if he likes anyone!! That's the best way and until then.....just act normal in front of him but u can drool all u want when ur alone 😆 😉...hope that helped!! 😃 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutiex0

awwww omg he sounds so sweet,
i think he prolly does like yu,
😊

aww you're making me blush :)
lol thanks! i hope so! i really really like him too!😃

-Ashleesha

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Paagal_Priya

Hey! Hun, well I just read ur whole story, and it was really sweet and a lot like the ones I've had so my advice to you is think before you do something, b/c u'll always think they like you but you don't know the truth for sure and plus u don't wanna do something stupid...I mean he could like you so you have to find a way to get to know if he likes anyone!! That's the best way and until then.....just act normal in front of him but u can drool all u want when ur alone 😆 😉...hope that helped!! 😃 😳

Aww thanks for the advice!
Yeah, that's true..I def. do not want to make a fool out of myself! lol
Haaha yess i DO drool all the time thinking about him ;)

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Posted: 17 years ago
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awww thats soo sweet...well after reading ur post i think that mayb he likes u aswell but u cant bsure i remember when i use to tell me frnds to look if the guy who i had a cursh was looking at me lol and when they tell u that he looking and how u get happy lol but i noe u rly like him and it looks as if he likes u but u never noe mayb he just bein nice and wants to b frnds so i guess u try to noe him better and u never noe when this mite turn into a datting kinda relationship...getting butterflies in ur stomach? ye i guess thats totally cool cuz i guess that happens to almost every1 but ur rly brave and keep it that way n just try to act normal
😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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awwwwwwwwww dat sounds cute mann
sumthin lyk dat happened to me aswell i used to lyk dis guy n used to think he lyks me aswell bt i cud neva speak so i was waitin 4 him to speak bt i think he was shy too n he made it too late b4 him dis other guy asked me out lol n now im wid dis guy yer n dat 1st guy told me dat he loves me n i didnt kno wah to say.. i didnt wanted him to kno now coz i m with sum1 esle dat i loved him too bt neva mind wat eva happens happens 4 gud dats wah i think n now m realii happy wif ma bf =D n i still tlk to dat other guy bt only as a m8 nothin else m over him now ;p lol
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ahh thats so sweet
i fink he does like you..
😃 😃
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Posted: 17 years ago
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awwww.....datz sooo cutee 😳

i fink he likz u 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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awww thts such a sweet story! hmmm i think he does like u. but as everyone has already said, u nvr kno for sure. ugh! thts the bad part, u just nvr kno! 😆 i think u should find out more about him. whether he has any girls on his mind...maybe from his previous classmates if u kno them. but find out in a discreet way. u kno, be casual when u ask. start the convo about him being ur friend, the fact tht he's a nice guy and hope he finds a nice girl. then ask whether he has had any girls in the past or whether he has any on his mind. tht should give u some clue as to whether his thoughts r occupied with someone else....or....**butterflies in stomach moment**... with u!!! 😉 😳 😆 hope this helps! wish u the best of luck! 😃

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