Self doubt - a grave sin - Page 2

Vera, I am so proud of you for making this post. For so many reasons! 🤗🤗

You said everything. To the point! ❤️ Thank you so much for coming up with this one 💯

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

He might even not apologise for it. Even if he does what’s the use, damage is done . He didn’t even care to console her ! Like didn’t even realise how humiliating and hurting it must be for Pallavi . I doubt he even understands gravity of his so called mistakes. He only cares about his own feelings and guilt.

Raghav is born smart

Raghav values fidelity

Pallavi is Raghav’s priority

- what a joke ! 👏

I wonder if makers will touch on this in future .

Rado🤗

He did confessed to himself that its him who is wrong and he loves her the way she is and doesn't want her to change anything but what's the use of telling himself

He should have told this to her because she felt so let down 😒She was literally crying 😭😭why didn't he stopped her 😡

In his guilt mode he isn't thinking about Pallavi's feelings. How his actions hurting her emotionally and she started to have self doubts 😒Raghav is being selfish as usual in his guilt mode. His "Me Myself and I" hurting Pallavi but he isn't realizing that

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Rado🤗

He did confessed to himself that its him who is wrong and he loves her the way she is and doesn't want her to change anything but what's the use of telling himself

He should have told this to her because she felt so let down 😒She was literally crying 😭😭why didn't he stopped her 😡

I don’t care about what he thinks anymore 🤪.

He always lies and breaks promises, unreliable guy 👎🏼

Will he say it to P?, That’s what I’m concerned about.

His so called guilt makes me nauseous now. He’s all talk no action 🤢.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Vera, I am so proud of you for making this post. For so many reasons! 🤗🤗

You said everything. To the point! ❤️ Thank you so much for coming up with this one 💯

Thank you ❤️❤️ I am happy to hear that.

I just said what I had to say considering that self doubt is a very serious issue. Rest, the credits go to all my friends who have always encouraged me.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

As humans, we are gifted with so much in life. Beauty, brains but somewhere the feeling that we are not adequate always troubles us. Self doubt is something that is very serious and even lead to desperate actions.

Raghav has committed a sin that no good husband should. Yes, cheating is worse, contempt worthy and even seperation worthy. But no, worse than cheating is the fact that Pallavi doubted herself. He should make her feel pretty, adequate and safe. Agar utna bhi nahi karsathe toh he is an donkey's back. He is not fit to be anyone's husband if he makes his own wife feel that she has compete with someone to have his attention. Pallavi never made him doubt once. She was always reassuring him that he is the best.

This doesnot mean cheating is okay. Just that he has royally failed as an husband and touching new lows everyday. Isse zyada ek admi kitna girega?

His guilt is because of his actions. No one is responsible for his downfall except him. Neither D-Fam, SunKee, nobody.

He willingly had drinks with his ex and had drinks because of which he lost control. I don't care about the ons part. He was emotional infedile before that and that matters the most.

Acting like an ass Because you are guilty doesnot cut it. He could have been gentle with her but being rude and pushing her makes her think that's she is inadequate. And I hate him for that. As a person who suffers from self doubt, I can imagine the thoughts and feelings of Pallavi as clear as day. She must have been devastated by his rejections. The shame, the self doubt. Does he even know she would have felt at that moment? Can he imagine her internal torture? The caps itself is tear wracking.

Everyone is busy seeing his actions, his feelings. Pallavi bhi ek ladki hai jo apni pati ke saath zindagi mein aage badne ki iccha rakhti hai. She is already self doubting her so much. Raghav should alleviate her doubts not increase them. He is a despicable man if he does that. Pallavi ke liye Raghav is everything, her whole world. It is really sad to know that for him, he is only there in her name, no where else.

And what person brings their ONS home? He claims to be the Don of Hyderabad doesnot he? He didnot get to take her anywhere? What is the reasoning behind his stupid AF logic?

Raghav Rao you are fit to be no one's Husband. In my opinion you are not even a good man. You donot deserve Pallavi. I feel bad that I was ever your fan. Pallavi leave this useless ass of a man and get the hell out of that house. Nobody deserves this my girl. I feel for you. Truly.

And please I am not a Pallavi stan who has come out of hiding to post about RR and his cheap actions. Though I feel proud I am her fan. I am a very active member of this forum. Cheating is cheating no matter how. Cheating consciously is a crime. If you are sloshed it doesnot absolve you of the guilt nor the action. Drink and driving is a crime, so getting sloshed and having s** is also a crime atleast humanity wise if not legally. If he was drugged then I wish he gets justice, but just for that. Jitni zimmedar Esha hai utni hi zimmedar Raghav/Raghu🤢 bhi hai. Esha ko villian banake don't make him lacchar. That's pathetic. We all want to blame a woman for everything. First it was Pallu, now its Esha. Because it's convenient. Raghav ki dimag gass charne gayi kya? He said he is born smart. But I say he is the biggest dumb fool of the whole world. Because he doesn't use his brains when it is necessary. Ab kyun Pallavi ko Mahaan detective banna hai? Let him sort out his mess himself.

A tweet I saw in Twitter explaining my post:

https://twitter.com/emroldnothin/status/1449921370968580102?t=586Z8jzhvzyWzyouO2Pb8A&s=19

You said everything that I felt 💯...I feel cheated... I use to love watching Raghvi together... They were soo much in love and I could feel the love they share...Now all I feel is disgust watching them together...I want Pallavi to leave him and go to Kolhapur forever, pursue a career of her choice and live her life away from this toxic man....What have they done to Raghav...He is everything that I hate in a man....A cheater, a lier, someone who doesnot have a control over his emotions,removes his frustration on his wife because of his own shortcomings,cant keep promises and breaks them without a second thought, disrespects her on daily basis, makes her feel unworthy, is confused about his feelings,still has feelings for his ex,he says that he loves Pallavi but still gets Esha home when she asked for a place in his heart and is gaslighting pallavi...apparently all this is because of his 'guilt'.... Raghvi were goals for me and now their relationship is toxic I mean who in their sane mind ruins their own creation like this...Sikku what have you done to the show😡

To even believe that the guy that gave her confidence, that digged deeper aura and self love is the same one who ripped it off and nade her question herself is so hurtful that i can't explain in words.

I remember Pallavi from the first episode, a girl who wasn't scared to walk alone at night, a girl who didn't care what the society would say if she walked around wearing a white saree fell in love. Fell in love so hard that the person's opinion mattered her the most. She started wearing to impress him. The least she expected from him was a sense if security in their relationship even when they hadn't fallen in love, even when they had a hate wedding (if that's the correct term).

Pallavi's only sin was to give this man soo much haq on herself to break her into a million pieces. She gave her heart and soul to him believing that he'll take care of it. Soo naive. This was her biggest sin and the worst think that she can to do herself. Yes i am angry at her for this. For giving him the leverage. For doubting herself.

Quoting myself from my post on a different thread but this actually pained me a lot.

Is it too much to say that i actually hoped Raghav would run after Pallavi when she spoke in that broken voice after being humiliated by him like that, when she ran away crying. I had expected him to run after her and tell her everything so that the women at least doesn't question her own worth but what he did instead was run back to his den, hiding like always.

I am sorry but he let her continue to think like she was not worth it or enough for him and that is ridiculous. And it is his actions that now make me think what would he have done if it had been Esha in Pallavi's place? Would he still be standing there like a statue and let the girl feel disgusted about herself?

From Pals to Vera

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

To even believe that the guy that gave her confidence, that digged deeper aura and self love is the same one who ripped it off and nade her question herself is so hurtful that i can't explain in words.

Exactly. What hurts more is that he always encouraged her. Now he is the same person who is the main reason for her hurt is unacceptable to me. Raghav aisa toh nahi tha. He has fallen so much that no amount of redemption can bring back the old Raghav for me. It pains me to write but I hate the guy.

I remember Pallavi from the first episode, a girl who wasn't scared to walk alone at night, a girl who didn't care what the society would say if she walked around wearing a white saree fell in love. Fell in love so hard that the person's opinion mattered her the most. She started wearing to impress him. The least she expected from him was a sense if security in their relationship even when they hadn't fallen in love, even when they had a hate wedding (if that's the correct term).

She was ready to leave. He stopped her and said that he would change for her, that her happiness would be his priority. How well he has he has made her priority. Slow caps 👏

Pallavi's only sin was to give this man soo much haq on herself to break her into a million pieces. She gave her heart and soul to him believing that he'll take care of it. Soo naive. This was her biggest sin and the worst think that she can to do herself. Yes i am angry at her for this. For giving him the leverage. For doubting herself.

She gave her world to him, more importantly, her trust which is the best gift she can give. She trusted him to take care of her mind, body and soul. She wanted him to make her feel safe. She is not wrong to trust him. Trust is the root of love. He is miserable and despicable to expploit that trust. But yes, we shouldn't give anyone the right to make us self doubt ourselves.

Quoting myself from my post on a different thread but this actually pained me a lot.

Is it too much to say that i actually hoped Raghav would run after Pallavi when she spoke in that broken voice after being humiliated by him like that, when she ran away crying. I had expected him to run after her and tell her everything so that the women at least doesn't question her own worth but what he did instead was run back to his den, hiding like always.

Same Sama. I would atleast considered him a decent human being if he had done that. But there he went hiding like a coward. The Raghav I liked was brutally Frank and honest, brave. Never. A coward.

I am sorry but he let her continue to think like she was not worth it or enough for him and that is ridiculous. And it is his actions that now make me think what would he have done if it had been Esha in Pallavi's place? Would he still be standing there like a statue and let the girl feel disgusted about herself?

Esha toh baspan ka pyaar haina 😵 Aisa kaisa khada rahega? Pallavi toh baad mein aayi na. EsGhu is ❤️ haina. She was his "soulmate" after all 😡

I shipped RaghVi like hell. I wanted them to be happy.

I love you Pallavi. Yeh Ghamandi Rao apni Saree ka Dukaan ke bina mar jayega. What. A. Joke 😳😭 it feels fake 💔 my heart breaks. I would have never believed that Raghav I liked could cheat and be this inconsiderate. I would have argued. But yeah, kudos to him, he proved me wrong. This guy is an ass. And I am an ass for liking him

Originally posted by: Inese_20

From Pals to Vera

This gif 💞💞

Ah my Queen 👑 I love you 😍❤️❤️❤️ you are the best my dear. You are as pure as the driven snow. Please don't change 🥺🤩🤩

Thanks Parul. You know I love ya tons 🤗🤗

Vera thank you for making this post .

I was so upset and disturbed yesterday. I just read the updates and saw some clips and it was enough for me and I was so so upset, I can't tell you, no girl deserves to feel or think about herself like that.

Pallavi was questioning her self worth, it was so horrible, it just break my heart like anything, my girl's self confidence was shattered and I will never forgive Raghav for making her feel like that, he is not at all redeemable for me.