Self doubt - a grave sin

As humans, we are gifted with so much in life. Beauty, brains but somewhere the feeling that we are not adequate always troubles us. Self doubt is something that is very serious and even lead to desperate actions.

Raghav has committed a sin that no good husband should. Yes, cheating is worse, contempt worthy and even seperation worthy. But no, worse than cheating is the fact that Pallavi doubted herself. He should make her feel pretty, adequate and safe. Agar utna bhi nahi karsathe toh he is an donkey's back. He is not fit to be anyone's husband if he makes his own wife feel that she has compete with someone to have his attention. Pallavi never made him doubt once. She was always reassuring him that he is the best.

This doesnot mean cheating is okay. Just that he has royally failed as an husband and touching new lows everyday. Isse zyada ek admi kitna girega?

His guilt is because of his actions. No one is responsible for his downfall except him. Neither D-Fam, SunKee, nobody.

He willingly had drinks with his ex and had drinks because of which he lost control. I don't care about the ons part. He was emotional infedile before that and that matters the most.

Acting like an ass Because you are guilty doesnot cut it. He could have been gentle with her but being rude and pushing her makes her think that's she is inadequate. And I hate him for that. As a person who suffers from self doubt, I can imagine the thoughts and feelings of Pallavi as clear as day. She must have been devastated by his rejections. The shame, the self doubt. Does he even know she would have felt at that moment? Can he imagine her internal torture? The caps itself is tear wracking.

Everyone is busy seeing his actions, his feelings. Pallavi bhi ek ladki hai jo apni pati ke saath zindagi mein aage badne ki iccha rakhti hai. She is already self doubting her so much. Raghav should alleviate her doubts not increase them. He is a despicable man if he does that. Pallavi ke liye Raghav is everything, her whole world. It is really sad to know that for him, he is only there in her name, no where else.

And what person brings their ONS home? He claims to be the Don of Hyderabad doesnot he? He didnot get to take her anywhere? What is the reasoning behind his stupid AF logic?

Raghav Rao you are fit to be no one's Husband. In my opinion you are not even a good man. You donot deserve Pallavi. I feel bad that I was ever your fan. Pallavi leave this useless ass of a man and get the hell out of that house. Nobody deserves this my girl. I feel for you. Truly.

And please I am not a Pallavi stan who has come out of hiding to post about RR and his cheap actions. Though I feel proud I am her fan. I am a very active member of this forum. Cheating is cheating no matter how. Cheating consciously is a crime. If you are sloshed it doesnot absolve you of the guilt nor the action. Drink and driving is a crime, so getting sloshed and having s** is also a crime atleast humanity wise if not legally. If he was drugged then I wish he gets justice, but just for that. Jitni zimmedar Esha hai utni hi zimmedar Raghav/Raghu🤢 bhi hai. Esha ko villian banake don't make him lacchar. That's pathetic. We all want to blame a woman for everything. First it was Pallu, now its Esha. Because it's convenient. Raghav ki dimag gass charne gayi kya? He said he is born smart. But I say he is the biggest dumb fool of the whole world. Because he doesn't use his brains when it is necessary. Ab kyun Pallavi ko Mahaan detective banna hai? Let him sort out his mess himself.

*edited by DT*

Once when a man cheats on his partner, the first person to get blamed is the woman whom he got involved out of the relationship.

She might be responsible.

But it was him who chose to break the boundary. So he has to be blamed fully. Cause he is already committed to another woman.

Any reason is unjustifiable.

Thank you so much Vera for making a post on this topic.

Raghav is no more fit to be Pallavi's husband. He not only cheated her (physical or emotional, cheating is still cheating) and ignored or avoided her, he made her doubt her beauty and value. Making a girl question her worth is the second worst thing you can do after betrayal.

She even took a bullet for him and here he is putting her down and betraying her trust.

No matter what they show, there is no justification for Raghav's action. He did wrong with Pallavi and he no more deserves her love or care.

Originally posted by: -abz-

Once when a man cheats on his partner, the first person to get blamed is the woman whom he got involved out of the relationship.

She might be responsible.

But it was him who chose to break the boundary. So he has to be blamed fully. Cause he was already committed to another woman.

Any reason is unjustifiable.

Yes. She is responsible but he is equally responsible. It is not like he is a 2 year old kid who doesn't know what is happening to him. Like you said, he chose to break the sanctity of marriage. Why blame Esha alone? Even before he was drugged( assuming he was) he chose to spend time with his ex, no matter the reason. So I blame both of them equally. Not less not more. Esha is pathetic but Raghav is no less.

heart broke for my girl today 🥺😭

Pallavi Deshmukh, despite being a widow, was a confident lady who always kept her head high in the face of society's ridicule and taunts of ppl like Sulo, Raghav, and later Sunny.

She initiated the intimacy today, and RR did what -?
Push her away harshly !

Could he not be nice with her, such an insensitive man!
Why is he disrespecting her for on a regular basis?
He and his ex made a mistake, didn't they?

Yet he is being gentle with his ex but so harsh with his own wife.

Shame on him . He made completely secure wife insecure today because of his cowardice .

Thu 💦 on his 2rs guilt .

Shame on me for shipping Pallavi with this guy .

Show’s title song claimed Pallavi will get Sky after marriage but here, her marriage is just breaking her day by day.

Vera 🤗🤗

Thank you for making this post ❤️❤️

My heart went out to Pallavi today when she was checking herself in the mirror to see what's wrong with her 😭😭Why her so loving husband pushing her away??😒

No women should be allowed to feel the way Raghav's actions making Pallavi feel about herself 🥺🥺

If Raghav was really a man enough he should have told her the truth when she was feeling not enough for him 😔he made another mistake by sharing with kirti instead of who he is actually hurting.

Making her doubt herself is just sad. Although I do feel like drunk sex and drunk driving are different when Raghav said main emotional ho gaya he lost all my support.

And for Pallavi, she does not deserve a man who belittles her every single time.

He has been doing that ever since Ganpati Puja.

And now, he does not deserve her for a bit. She does not deserve to feel low about herself.

As humans, we are gifted with so much in life. Beauty, brains but somewhere the feeling that we are not adequate always troubles us. Self doubt is something that is very serious and even lead to desperate actions.

Raghav has committed a sin that no good husband should. Yes, cheating is worse, contempt worthy and even seperation worthy. But no, worse than cheating is the fact that Pallavi doubt herself. He should make her feel pretty, adequate and safe. Agar utna bhi nahi karsathe toh he is an donkey's back. He is not fit to be anyone's husband if he makes his own wife feel that she has compete with someone to have his attention. Pallavi never made him doubt once. She was always reassuring him that he is the best.

This doesnot mean cheating is okay. Just that he has royally failed as an husband and touching new lows everyday. Isse zyada ek admi kitna girega?

His guilt is because of his actions. No one is responsible for his downfall except him. Neither D-Fam, SunKee, nobody.

He willingly had drinks with his ex and had drinks because of which he lost control. I don't care about the ons part. He was emotional infedile before that and that matters the most.

Acting like an ass Because you are guilty doesnot cut it. He could have been gentle with her but being rude and pushing her makes her think that's she is inadequate. And I hate him for that. As a person who suffers from self doubt, I can imagine the thoughts and feelings of Pallavi as clear as day. She must have been devastated by his rejections. The shame, the self doubt. Does he even know she would have felt at that moment? Can he imagine her internal torture? The caps itself is tear wracking.

Everyone is busy seeing his actions, his feelings. Pallavi bhi ek ladki hai jo apni pati ke saath zindagi mein aage badne ki iccha rakhti hai. She is already self doubting her so much. Raghav should alleviate her doubts not increase them. He is a despicable man if he does that. Pallavi ke liye Raghav is everything, her whole world. It is really sad to know that for him, he is only there in her name, no where else.

And what person brings their ONS home? He claims to be the Don of Hyderabad doesnot he? He didnot get to take her anywhere? What is the reasoning behind his stupid AF logic?

Raghav Rao you are fit to be no one's Husband. In my opinion you are not even a good man. You donot deserve Pallavi. I feel bad that I was ever your fan. Pallavi leave this useless ass of a man and get the hell out of that house. Nobody deserves this my girl. I feel for you. Truly.

And please I am not a Pallavi stan who has come out of hiding to post about RR and his cheap actions. Though I feel proud I am her fan. I am a very active member of this forum. I have no problems calling a spade a spade unlike people who want to defend a cheater. Cheating consciously is a crime. If you are sloshed it doesnot absolve you of the guilt nor the action. Drink and driving is a crime, so getting sloshed and having s** is also a crime atleast humanity wise if not legally. If he was drugged then I wish he gets justice, but just for that. Jitni zimmedar Esha hai utni hi zimmedar Raghav/Raghu🤢 bhi hai. Esha ko villian banake don't make him lacchar. That's pathetic. We all want to blame a woman for everything. First it was Pallu, now its Esha. Because it's convenient. Raghav ki dimag gass charne gayi kya? He said he is born smart. But I say he is the biggest dumb fool of the whole world. Because he doesn't use his brains when it is necessary. Ab kyun Pallavi ko Mahaan detective banna hai? Let him sort out his mess himself. When it is convenient some people want Pallavi to be intelligent but otherwise she must be dumb and the housewife, is it? How hypocritical is this?

A tweet I saw in Twitter explaining my post:

https://twitter.com/emroldnothin/status/1449921370968580102?t=586Z8jzhvzyWzyouO2Pb8A&s=19

Can i plz give you 🤗 for this post? Specially those lines in bold . You said it all dear . Nothing else to add here . Thank you 🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

If Raghav was really a man enough he should have told her the truth when she was feeling not enough for him 😔he made another mistake by sharing with kirti instead of who he is actually hurting.

He might even not apologise for it. Even if he does what’s the use, damage is done . He didn’t even care to console her ! Like didn’t even realise how humiliating and hurting it must be for Pallavi . I doubt he even understands gravity of his so called mistakes. He only cares about his own feelings and guilt.

Raghav is born smart

Raghav values fidelity

Pallavi is Raghav’s priority

- what a joke ! 👏

I wonder if makers will touch on this in future .