Farewell post.

I realized ki I've given this show,these characters,valuable time of mine and at the end didn't even said bye properly.

And I firmly believes ki agar koi kissa shuru karo toh use ache se khatam bhi karo...

I was always invested in this show becoz I liked story of BK..I knew since start ki everything will not be same but I also never imagined ki everything will be so different.

Many people here assumes by my comments ki I was interested in fairytale love story but No I was not..RiKul never had a fairytale love story...their bond,their love developed over a period of time.

And thats the point where I lost my connect in this love story.

No doubt their situation is very realistic,it exists,it happens,I knew this I agree with this,I knew people get married,became good friends and spend their whole life happily,yeah it happens,happening every minute,but than its a STORY not a LOVE story.

When you put so much thought,so much reasons to be with a person,its not love,yeah you develop a strong bond but its not love.

Kyunki itna soch vichar ke pyaar toh nahi hota...

Understanding,dependency and habbit are the most prominent reason in the real world of two people living together,aapke kamre mein agar ek chair rakh di jaye,you tend to get habbitual of that chair also and will want it at same place but than its not something which can make you go crazy,no it never happens.

Aur ye hi toh farak hai pyaar mein aur dimaag ke soche samjhe liye gaye decision mein..

Pyaar aapki choice hota hai aur compromise aapki majburi..

Jisse aap pyaar karein uske sath rehna aapki ichha hoti hai aur jiske sath aapko rehne ke liye keh diya jaye uske sath rehna aapki duty..

Toh kya is real world mein log compromise nahi karte obviously karte hai kya ek dusre ke liye apni duties fulfill nahi karte bilkul karte hai...kyunki real world mein love exist hi nahi karta...pyaar toh ek kitaabi ek filmi shabd hai jo serials mein novels mein movies mein hi dekhne ko milta hai..

Pyaar ka reason nahi hota..

Pyaar mein logic nahi hota..

Pyaar karne ki koi vajah nahi hoti..

Aur ye hi 3 reasons hai ki pyaar reality mein exist hi nahi karta toh fir...reality mein roz hi dekhti hu show mein real life dekh kya karungi..

Pyaar matlab jab use dekho toh saansein ruk jayein dhadkanein badh jayein...

Yeh sab hua hai meetA ke sath but regarding manushi...koi reason,koi logic,koi vajah kuch nhi tha use dekha aur saansein ruk gyi dhadkanein bad gyi...

Kash meety ki life mein koi aisa hota...

With time they both will move on from meetA's feelings but Move on...this word itself explains ki heartbreaks se log move on karte hai na vo un feelings ko kabhi bhulte hai na un memories ko....aaj tak meetA ke liye yeh rishta nibhana isliye zaruri tha becoz marriage ki ek respect hoti hai aur vo uski upbringing mein sikhayi gayi hai toh yeh respect yeh duty yeh compromise uski pairon ki bediyan bane aur ane vale time mein Manushi ki sachai uske pairon ki bediyan ban jayengi...

Aap ek potential life partmer ko chhod ke ek aise insaan ke sath zindagi nahi bita sakte jise aap chahte toh ho par jisne aapke bhai ko chot pahunchane ki koshish ki...

Mujhe females ke liye jyada connect feel hota hai and I always thought ki meety deserved better,she always did,and I can never make my peace with this thing ki she deserved to be someone's choice but become someone's option...

Jahan tak baat shadi aur pyaar ki hai toh bhagwaan shri krishan ki biwi toh rukmani thi lekin pyaar Radha thi...

Kal ho na ho ki naina ne bhi apni puri zindagi rohit ke sath bitayi jabki uska pyaar humesha Aman tha...rohit ne pyaar ke liye shadi ki yeh jante hue ki use badle mein naina ka sath toh milega lekin pyaar nahi aur naina ne vo shadi pyaar ke liye nibhai vo aman ke sath toh zindagi nahi bita payi lekin uski icha ke sath usne zindagi bitayi,toh kya rohit aur naina khush the but kya unke rishte mein pyaar tha han tha one sided rohit ka pyaar..

MeetA will take control of his emotions not becoz he forgot Manushi or forgot his feelings but now he realized those feeling hurting not only him but his parents also...

Uske dil par uske dimaag ne taala laga diya..

Aur dil ke faslie agar dimaag se hone lage toh fir pyaar nahi vyapar hota hai...fayde nuksaan ka hisaab hota hai..

Which is clearly happening in real world daily....

Pyaar toh usne manushi se kar liya...agar meety se pyaar hota toh manushi kuch bhi karti kitna hi pass kyun na ati par uska dil use meety ke pass kheench le jata jaise ab meety ke pass hone ke baad bhi uska man use manushi ki aur kheench raha thaa,man toh maar liya par pyaar nahi marta kisi kone mein dil ke baith jayega..

Sadly meety ke pass sukoon toh hai par vo deewanapan nahi jo sirf pyaar mein hota hai..

Han meety ko usse pyaar zaroor ho gya aur iske sath hi meetA ki reason ki potli mein to love meety ek aur reason bhi add ho gya...

Par thik hai kisi ne sach hi kaha hai ki..

Pyaar mein junoon hai toh

Dosti mein sukoon hai...

They are best of friends no doubt..

But always wanted to watch love story kyunki best friend turned husband wife toh apni khud ki marriage mein dekh lungi...

I have no need to make this post but kafi time baad active hui thi socha ki inactive hone se pehle apne aap ko complete closure de doon...ab tv serial nahi hoon ki trp ke change hote hi mera track bhi change ho jaye...story hero hai mere liye toh,aur story ko mein bhool nahi sakti jo ek baar dekh liya pad liya vo yaad rahega...na mujhe couples se farak padta hai na actors se...dono ke hi fan nahi hu..

Nephyyyyy yaaar this really makes me sad n happy at the same time for u as its completely okay to not watch something when the connection is lost n that does not feel good anymore.But we will miss old good days jab itna kuch nahi hua tha but u hv to come to our forum everyday whenever u r free warna daant khaogi 😈infact Arpi said ki she will pm mods again to make a CCC tab wahi mast baatein karenge hum sab🤗❤️but tab taak Edt pe pop karna❤️

Originally posted by: Eemasnia

Nephyyyyy yaaar this really makes me sad n happy at the same time for u as its completely okay to not watch something when the connection is lost n that does not feel good anymore.But we will miss old good days jab itna kuch nahi hua tha but u hv to come to our forum everyday whenever u r free warna daant khaogi 😈infact Arpi said ki she will pm mods again to make a CCC tab wahi mast baatein karenge hum sab🤗❤️but tab taak Edt pe pop karna❤️

Actually I am trying but being active bring back sad memories but will definetely keep on popping or I also hope ki jaldi se ccc ban jaye🤗❤️

Actually serial makers ki galti nahi hai mere hi brain ki conditioning thodi novel side par hai toh long running shows ke liye bani hi nahi mein..😒

It's okay Nephy and I understand where you are coming from. So I understand not being able to watch something as you lost connection with it. Mera bhi pata nahi Kitne din iss show se connection rahe. Abhi mujhe problem nahi hain par kalko ho bhi sakta hain. But we did have some interesting discussions here, and I will miss that. Lots of Love Nephy 🤗

Originally posted by: Nephy

I realized ki I've given this show,these characters,valuable time of mine and at the end didn't even said bye properly.

And I firmly believes ki agar koi kissa shuru karo toh use ache se khatam bhi karo...

I was always invested in this show becoz I liked story of BK..I knew since start ki everything will not be same but I also never imagined ki everything will be so different.

Many people here assumes by my comments ki I was interested in fairytale love story but No I was not..RiKul never had a fairytale love story...their bond,their love developed over a period of time.

And thats the point where I lost my connect in this love story.

No doubt their situation is very realistic,it exists,it happens,I knew this I agree with this,I knew people get married,became good friends and spend their whole life happily,yeah it happens,happening every minute,but than its a STORY not a LOVE story.

When you put so much thought,so much reasons to be with a person,its not love,yeah you develop a strong bond but its not love.

Kyunki itna soch vichar ke pyaar toh nahi hota...

Understanding,dependency and habbit are the most prominent reason in the real world of two people living together,aapke kamre mein agar ek chair rakh di jaye,you tend to get habbitual of that chair also and will want it at same place but than its not something which can make you go crazy,no it never happens.

Aur ye hi toh farak hai pyaar mein aur dimaag ke soche samjhe liye gaye decision mein..

Pyaar aapki choice hota hai aur compromise aapki majpuri..

Jisse aap pyaar karein uske sath rehna aapki ichha hoti hai aur jiske sath aapko rehne ke liye keh diya jaye uske sath rehna aapki duty..

Toh kya is real world mein log compromise nahi karte obviously karte hai kya ek dusre ke liye apni duties fulfill nahi karte bilkul karte hai...kyunki real world mein love exist hi nahi karta...pyaar toh ek kitaabi ek filmi shabd hai jo serials mein novels mein movies mein hi dekhne ko milta hai..

Pyaar ka reason nahi hota..

Pyaar mein logic nahi hota..

Pyaar karne ki koi vajah nahi hoti..

Aur ye hi 3 reasons hai ki pyaar reality mein exist hi nahi karta toh fir...reality mein roz hi dekhti hu show mein real life dekh kya karungi..

With time they both will move on from meetA's feelings but Move on...this word itself explains ki heartbreaks se log move on karte hai na vo un feelings ko kabhi bhulte hai na un memories ko....aaj tak meetA ke liye yeh rishta nibhana isliye zaruri tha becoz marriage ki ek respect hoti hai aur vo uski upbringing mein sikhayi gayi hai toh yeh respect yeh duty yeh compromise uski pairon ki bediyan bane aur ane vale time mein Manushi ki sachai uske pairon ki bediyan ban jayengi...

Aap ek potential life partmer ko chhod ke ek aise insaan ke sath zindagi nahi bita sakte jise aap chahte toh ho par jisne aapke bhai ko chot pahunchane ki koshish ki...

Mujhe females ke liye jyada connect feel hota hai and I always thought ki meety deserved better,she always did,and I can never make my peace with this thing ki she deserved to be someone's choice but become someone's option...

Jahan tak baat shadi aur pyaar ki hai toh bhagwaan shri krishan ki biwi toh rukmani thi lekin pyaar Radha thi...

Kal ho na ho ki naina ne bhi apni puri zindagi rohit ke sath bitayi jabki uska pyaar humesha Aman tha...rohit ne pyaar ke liye shadi ki yeh jante hue ki use badle mein naina ka sath toh milega lekin pyaar nahi aur naina ne vo shadi pyaar ke liye nibhai vo aman ke sath toh zindagi nahi bita payi lekin uski icha ke sath usne zindagi bitayi,toh kya rohit aur naina khush the but kya unke rishte mein pyaar tha han tha one sided rohit ka pyaar..

MeetA will take control of his emotions not becoz he forgot Manushi or forgot his feelings but now he realized those feeling hurting not only him but his parents also...

Uske dil par uske dimaag ne taala laga diya..

Aur dil ke faslie agar dimaag se hone lage toh fir pyaar nahi vyapar hota hai...fayde nuksaan ka hisaab hota hai..

Which is clearly happening in real world daily....

Pyaar toh usne manushi se kar liya...agar meety se pyaar hota toh manushi kuch bhi karti kitna hi pass kyun na ati par uska dil use meety ke pass kheench le jata jaise ab meety ke pass hone ke baad bhi uska man use manushi ki aur kheench raha thaa,man toh maar liya par pyaar nahi marta kisi kone mein dil ke baith jayega..

Sadly meety ke pass sukoon toh hai par vo deewanapan nahi jo sirf pyaar mein hota hai..

Han meety ko usse pyaar zaroor ho gya aur iske sath hi meetA ki reason ki potli mein to love meety ek aur reason bhi add ho gya...

Par thik hai kisi ne sach hi kaha hai ki..

Pyaar mein junoon hai toh

Dosti mein sukoon hai...

They are best of friends no doubt..

But always wanted to watch love story kyunki best friend turned husband wife toh apni khud ki marriage mein dekh lungi...

I have no need to make this post but kafi time baad active hui thi socha ki inactive hone se pehle apne aap ko complete closure de doon...ab tv serial nahi hoon ki trp ke change hote hi mera track bhi change ho jaye...story hero hai mere liye toh,aur story ko mein bhool nahi sakti jo ek baar dekh liya pad liya vo yaad rahega...na mujhe couples se farak padta hai na actors se...dono ke hi fan nahi hu..

Although we didn't do much discussions as I just joined recently and you left, but with the limited conversations we had, I get that you are an interesting person.

Agar man ho toh please keep visiting even if you don't watch the show.

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

It's okay Nephy and I understand where you are coming from. So I understand not being able to watch something as you lost connection with it. Mera bhi pata nahi Kitne din iss show se connection rahe. Abhi mujhe problem nahi hain par kalko ho bhi sakta hain. But we did have some interesting discussions here, and I will miss that. Lots of Love Nephy 🤗

Thank you neha🤗

Love to you too❤️

I met many great people in this forum,forum of mature people..Its only the friends here which brings me back once in a while to see whats happening.

I know I tried but now nothing seem to bring back my intrest or connection maybe I lost it somewhere,maybe my hate for third angles played a role or may be irritation with ultra mahaan bahu came as a reason but I'll always miss the people I met here.❤

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

Although we didn't do much discussions as I just joined recently and you left, but with the limited conversations we had, I get that you are an interesting person.

Agar man ho toh please keep visiting even if you don't watch the show.

Thank you dear,❤️,I also loved talking to you.🤗

Yeah I'll definetely try to keep on visiting in between.🙂

Show chaahe jaisa ho humse milne aate rehna.. 🥺❤️

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Show chaahe jaisa ho humse milne aate rehna.. 🥺❤️

I'll try yaara❤️

Hi Nephy. I used to come to forum to meet friends here. I stopped watching serial regularly. Once in a while I will. I used to read the reviews here and insta I check. Fed up of Manushi.

Sometimes I would have tagged you sorry. We will meet sometime. 💜