Some thoughts? ( Will try to make it a positive post)

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I know I have not been active for a few days, and I think a lot of us are done with the show after Monday's episode. I personally avoided coming to forum because I just wanted to rant, and honestly the amount of negativity everywhere scared me, and I realized I would be doing nothing much, but add up to the hate. I am not watching the episodes,but just following the insta clips and updates, and honestly, I don't know what the makers are doing. Do they not realize that people are mostly watching for Meet2? And they are hell bent on ruining the one thing that works for the show

Anyways, I promised I won't add onto the frustration, but here is the only thing that I'm looking forward too, and that's a separation. Maybe not physically but emotionally, but I feel the couple needs it the most. For once, I want MA to have the option of going back to both the ladies, and he makes his choice, cz honestly none of us can tell no more.

Here, are my reasons why I feel everything is topping up for a huge climax or a massive breakdown

1) MH being constantly reminded that now she is married, and her primary focus should be her husband and her in-laws. Her being forced to give up her responsibilities for her family, which is something she can never adhere to. She is the 'man' of her house, and even after marriage she always had her priorities set. She is a great wife and DIL, but her first priority has always been about being a great daughter.

2) why wasn't MA able to share his turmoil with her? Do you think getting MH physically hurt was just an uncontemplated scene? I don't. I feel they either want to create a situation where MH loses her faith on MA ( which is basically everything she wants in a relationship) or her to realize that she should give up the relationship.Why is she in a relationship with MA? It is definitely not love, but a sense of responsibility towards him. If she realizes that it's her sister that he needs, she will leave. Atleast, right now it is her marriage that is stopping her from being there for her own family.

3) Sunaina-MH's conversation about self-respect and love wasn't futile after all. It repulsed MH to see a girl being questioned about her chastity. (and honestly I realize the toxicity of the concept but I will be a hypocrite if I say this doesn't happen. Ok, yes the topic has been extremely dramatized and Sunaina's situation isn't a common one. Humara yaha jab arrange marriages hota hain both the families try to find out about the prospective match from their neighbors, friends and relatives. The girl's character usually comes under massive scrutiny. You think when your relatives are trying to find about the girl and her family, it is about her food preferences or her knowledge about mutual funds? No! It's about her character and about her chastity. Ha koyi doctor k paas pakar kar nahi le jata hain par sadly, sawaal indirectly uthtey zaroor hain. If they are trying to address that, then it is great) what I wanted to say is if that self-respect vs love conversation was a premonition for the upcoming track why can't the 'wool' conversation be the same? Even though Ravi-Sunaina-Tej's situation is very different from Manushi-Meet-Meet's situation (I can make a whole diff post about it but honestly not in the right mood for that now). MH supported 'love' in that conversation. So, if somehow she comes to this conclusion that she is being the 'Ravi' in this equation, then she will definitely leave. Warna Sunaina k second marriage wala drama Kiya kyun? She isn't even an important character jitna use importance diya geya hain iss track se so it definitely has something to do with the leads.


So, Kuch toh bara Hoga aga. Ya toh separation, ya phir kuch aur. But be prepared, as till the Lodhi episode there will be lots of unwanted drama, gallons of majnupana k dohra, and very few Meet2 scenes.


P.S-I don't know who needs to hear this,but here it comes. I get agitated with people who complain about Malini/Jasmine/Pakhi's character and want this character to leave the show or atleast get less screen space. It is not possible. You knew what you were signing up for from the first promo. They are also the main protagonist/antagonist of the show, so you have to see them till the end. But here the premise isn't the same. Jo log bhi thoda bohot tolerate kar rahe hain. They will also leave by the end of Jan or at best, by the mid of Feb as they are not getting what they were promised. So, play your game carefully writers. Jo raita felaya hain woh sameto. Mera hisaab se only a separation track can salvage it, but I am not a writer, and I have heard so much about these writers, so I hope they know what they are doing.


I promised I'm not going to be negative in this post. But it seems like it is not a very positive post either. But my last few words might uplift the post, so bear with me.

Even though I wasn't a BB fan cz as I said Kuch hojata hain Mera dimaag mein baccho ko sindur mangalsutra mein dekh ke. So, I could never watch it properly, but I did watch a few tracks. Saudamini played by Pranali was a powerful vamp, especially Pranali was great in her role. But I just couldn't watch anymore, when she literally started waging a war to win back Anirudh against a kid. The drama became unbearable when she she was ready to even kill Bondita. Like stop! She is a kid! And in that track, we lost our Saurabh😭. Aur phir inhone Bondita ki innocent behen ko villain bana diya aur Kakasasur ko toh Babita jaisi hypocrite.

Now, if I come to talk about the most practical and loved show of ITV 'Yudkbh'. Even that show didn't do justice to a few tracks. Samaina's marriage has to be one of them. Sab villain ban gaya sivaya the friends gang, and chacha Chachi. Honestly, typical ITV vamp uss show main sirf Sameer ki Dadi thi isse pehla, but phir inhona Mama-Mami aur Tauji-Taiji ko bhi nahi baksha. Yes, these characters always had their flaws, but grey se sidha negative banana zaroori nahi tha. And it aired on Sony?!!! Sony which is currently serving the least toxic ITV drama. Infact, if I took a sip of alcohol every time I saw Naina and her family getting insulted during their wedding track, I would have become a raging alcoholic by now. Even their HM and the first few months after marriage didn't serve Samaina well. I don't know who enjoyed it, but atleast I couldn't. It was just Sameer & Naina blaming each other for each other's failures. Sameer telling Naina how she is middle-class, has no sense of fashion, and takes no responsibility towards grooming the house, and Naina calling upon his bs. They even started regretting their marriage, and their respective parents had to step-in to knock some sense in their mind. Was it practical? Yes, it showed Pyaar jitna bhi gehra ho Shaadi ki side effects se koyi nahi baach sakta🤣. Was it painful? Yes, because we as audience have seen them fight bigger problems with greater understanding. Tabh toh communication hi band ho gaya tha dono leads mein. Sameer Jo problems face kar raha tha woh Naina ko nahi Bata raha tha, Ulta uska frustration Naina pe utar raha tha.

I used these two examples, because a lot of us are familiar with these two shows, and are also die-hards fans of these shows. Fans abh hain jab show khatam hogaya hain par jab woh sab tracks chal raha tha tabh I'm sure most of us didn't enjoy it.

So disgusting/uncomfortable tracks and sudden change in character arcs is nothing new. So, hopefully this track will end soon, because as I said ending se pehla hi bohot drama hota hain aur abhi bohot zyada drama horaha hain. Meety ki sabr ka bahan tootey ga aur woh bhi Lohdi mein hi hoga.


I'm sorry if this post made you feel even more depressed. But hey! I tried 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago
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(but honestly it feels like I forgot a lot of you, and maybe many of you left. I haven't checked any threads since Sunday. Par friends bura maat manna. Please join but I want this post to be optimistic so Zara soch samaj k comment karna. We don't need more ranting here, do we? )

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Neha mere khyal se ranting to koi kr hi ni ra… because Meets se to kisi ko koi issue hi ni h… (atleast personally mje to ni h) …. mera issue Babita and Anubha se h…

May be I am in minority… but the way Babita is being absolutely horrible to her daughter in laws … and Anubha is trying to be horrible to her only good daughter …. mera issue usse h…

well I am not ranting… I am just expressing an opinion that there was absolutely no need to make Babita and Anubha OTT…. baki even I will be scarce in forum too… I have willed to limit myself only to precaps that too because I am invested and anticipating Tej’s story… nothing more than that ā€¦šŸ‘šŸ¼

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Mujhe nahi khyal Nikki. I haven't checked forums because I sort of guessed the problem people are having with the current plotline. But as you said, this is what I fear. If this doesn't end, pura loyal fanbase chala jayaga. Ashi-Shagun do not deserve this. UD/Imlie/Ghum ney success Pali as they attracted the crowd who always wanted to see third angle drama with their very first promo. Meet ka fanbase aisa nahi hain. Par yahi Keh k dilasa deh rahi hoon that this is the climax basically kyunki itna drama toh climax mein hi hota hain na?

Honestly, the only person who cares for MH is MA and no one can deny it. Atleast, he cares for her enough to put her pain and her needs above his pain and his needs. Phir bhi, I want her to leave this Alhawat house and shift to some dharmshala for a few days. Ik possible nahi hain par soch ney mein Kya jata hain. šŸ˜†

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Posted: 3 years ago
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have you read this? šŸ‘‡

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

I seriously want Meet Hooda to take Anubha to side and ask her what really is her problem (she can use Anubha’s weapons aka ā€œSwear on herā€ ) and I hope Aloobhaji tells her that she is worried due to Manushi’s presence in her house…. I hope Meet Hooda will then explain her that even though she may stay at the house, her husband doesn’t because he also have a job and not a house husband…. there is no point of her staying behind and become easy target for her Chudail Nanad Masoom and Daravani saas Babita… Whatever is going to happen will happen.. no one can delay the inevitable…Here I hope the first portion of Jija-Saali promo to play out exactly where Meet Hooda is asking Aloobhaji to show faith in her faith on her husband … how lame it may sound but they really don’t need to complicate things there …smiley29

(ldki ka job k liye bahar rhna is good for her mental health… wo mt cheeno Aloobhaji)

once that matter is resolved… Its ok if Meet Hooda listens to an argument going on between Manushi and Meet Ahlawat where Meet Ahlawat confesses that he still get affected by Manushi’s presence and despite all his attempts he is not able to forget her … and Manushi also says she feels the same …hearing this I want Meet Hooda to go from there … and I want Meet Ahlawat to continue that let him finish first… He is not able to forget Manushi not because he is in love with her but her presence reminds him of the humiliation his family faced, his mother faced and how unfair he was to his wife due to her … she reminds him of the mistake he was about to commit… frankly the only good thing that came out of her betrayal is that he got married to Meet Hooda, his wife ..his lucky charm, his anchor and will never ever let her go … no matter whosoever and whatsoever tries to come in between…. Ache se usko suna kr nikal jaye … and also threaten her that he will expose her if she doesn’t stop her antics …

Meet Hooda on the other hand will ponder over what she just witnessed and see Tej and sunaina from far… how in love they are … even in this condition, Tej has a aense of belonging to Sunaina.. and even after all the torture by Babita, Sunaina is happy that she gets to see her Tej …even if it means to leave a comfortable life … and be a servant in her own house … She compares her situation with them and comes to a conclusion that she is actually the third wheel in this Meet-Manushi chapter… she was an alternate option and not a choice… and may be Anubha was right… but how does it matter if two of them wants the same thing… She knows how deeply he loved Manushi and probably still loves her… so sensible thing is to move out of their way… but if she goes back then Anubha will be worried, probably will again come and will try to drag Manushi who may attempt suicide again and

ā€œduniya ka sbse bada rog, kya kahenge chaar log…smiley29ā€ she must be thinking what should she do and suddenly she gets a news that she is getting an opportunity to be promoted and if she wants, she could handle the warehouse at Delhi which means more income and extra time to study … she may after all pursue her dream of becoming a police officer… and staying away from both the families will give her much required mental peace… so she accepts the opportunity…. and went to inform her decision and dilemma to Rajvardhan-Babita

Babita who anyways was pissed at her and impressed with Manushi jumps at the opportunity and agrees without hesitation…. Rajvardhan wasn’t ready but Meet H and Babita k aage uski kaha chlti h… Meet H and Babita decide that its better to let her go without telling Meet Ahlawat so that he can be spared a guilty conscious…and she will send divorce papers once she is settled in Delhi….

and so she leaves the AH.. without informing MA….who is clueless of this development…. she however meets Manushi before leaving and takes a promise that she will take care of Ahlawats and this time won’t do anything which may hurt Meet Ahlawat or disrepute Hooda family…. She will make Aloobhaji and daadi understand and they won’t create an issue … Manushi gets happy…

However when Meet Ahlawat gets to know all this .. he is pissed …at his mother and his wife … and goes to delhi to fetch her back … she refuses .. he is adamant… she says she understands and he doesn’t need to sacrifice his love for Manushi due to her … and he gets more angry… baki unke beech ki tom and Jerry fight to writers ache se likh hi lete h ….smiley37

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

have you read this? šŸ‘‡

No. But just did. Delhi wala part kabhi nahi hoga show mein. But rest is quite possible. But I want MH to have a good face off with MA, where she finally tells him that she wants to give up. Baki Saab perfect hain šŸ‘šŸ¼

And about her job? I don't think she will leave it any time soon. Ghar kaisa chalega? Aur Meety thodi na apne family ko bheek mangne degi. The girl who can sacrifice her long hair, her beauty and even her dreams for her family, will she just silently comply bcz her mother said so. And I think AlooBhaji Meety ko samjhayagi why she wants her to leave her job.

Waisa Keh nahi sakta zyada kuch. Logic ney khud suicide karliya AlooBhaji ko dekhke. Instead of taking back her jadoogar beti, she is forcing her daughter to leave her job. Meety ko nahi rakh payagi ghar mein chahe Jo bhi kare Anubha. Usay interest hi nahi hain pati ko rijhaka rakhne mein. The moment she got some free time, she became a detective and women's rights activist🤣

Meety typical bahu/wife material hain hi nahi

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Posted: 3 years ago
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hmm… by the way your post is 400th post(topic) for the forum and Precap is out…

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I love this, Neha (I hope that's your name lol).... Thanks for trying to uplift us with this well thought-out post...You're right this isn't the first time something like this is happening...But it doesn't make it any less unbearable either...At the end of the day, most of us are online viewers and isliye wo log humare kyun sununga bhala....

Let's see what happens...but if people prefer crass stuff to quality and mental peace, I now understand why our society refuses to change...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I am not giving up completely.. Matlab I have given up on the episodes and will check only precaps to see if it can interest me again.. I won't watch the episodes especially not to be more negative about the serial.. 🤣🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jiggy7

I am not giving up completely.. Matlab I have given up on the episodes and will check only precaps to see if it can interest me again.. I won't watch the episodes especially not to be more negative about the serial.. 🤣🤣

Neither am I. Atleast not yet,but ha I can't bear watching the episodes. Suna Tumne I couldn't watch BB when there was an overdose of Saudamini. Filhaal full episodes dekhne ke liya God level patience chahiya. I don't have it so I'm basically adjusting with insta clips šŸ˜‚. But par umeed karo yeh climax hi ho warna we know our show doesn't show much drama atleast not for more than 3 days. Yaha toh I guess full week drama hi drama hoga. So end mein kuch toh satisfaction mile hume

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