Some thoughts? ( Will try to make it a positive post) - Page 2

Originally posted by: reginalsecret

I love this, Neha (I hope that's your name lol).... Thanks for trying to uplift us with this well thought-out post...You're right this isn't the first time something like this is happening...But it doesn't make it any less unbearable either...At the end of the day, most of us are online viewers and isliye wo log humare kyun sununga bhala....

Let's see what happens...but if people prefer crass stuff to quality and mental peace, I now understand why our society refuses to change...

Yeah I know right. It isn't new but it doesn't make it less painful. But 2-3 episodes ke basis mein judge karma bhi Sahi nahi hain. So, will watch till I can tolerate no more. As of now, there is still a hope that the only sane person in the show which is MH will herself do something and get herself out of this situation

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

have you read this? 👇

Pehli wali Puri hogayi Nikki. Aloobhaji finally told MH

Thanks for the tag.

About upcoming storyline tho I have no intuitions. But yes, as you say Sunaina's sitiation will be served as a example to compare with.

I have no issues with the Meet² situation too. I have posted in the EDT my review after Monday's and Tuesday's episodes. I find a beautiful kind of love between them. Only that it is just not acknowledged yet. Especially after the scene yesterday where both hide their pain/problem and want to care about the partner. That scene made me remember the story 'The Gift of the Magi' for some reason. This is not something to be just dismissed.

Meety believes in destiny. She has always accepted what destiny has given her. She told Meetwa that making and breaking relations is not in our hands. But we know that her saas-sasur do things differently. So I too feel there is a high point coming up and my hope is Meetwa gains clarity and finally burns Manushi's photo and earring in the fire. But how exactly it may come about I have no ideas. Since Babita is being so horrible with Sunaina, and we see Meety interfering, she will be vengeful towards Meety and give lot of preference to Manushi over Meety so much so that in the heat of the moment she could actually say it was better that Manushi were her bahu. Or maybe she could pose the question to Meety asking if she will give up her marriage for the sake of Meetwa's pyaar. Now if this topic is raised in front of the whole family, it can cause some emotional distance and questions in their minds which may also be uncomfortable for them to discuss initially but hopefully it wont last too long.

What I am unable to tolerate is the crude and negative behaviours of the two mothers in the show. The two mothers who actually claim to love their child but doing things that actually hurt them for their so called betterment. I am just waiting for Tej's story to unfold now so that other unnecessary drama is reduced.

I am afraid to do any kind of analysis now because the makers seem to be using some kind of alien logic and story telling from the honeymoon phase onwards and its all going downhill so far. Meet² progression is the only saving grace in the midst of weird scenarios and I am quite happy with that. I think I will give it time until 150th episode without much analysis.

I loved reading your thoughts neha, but kash I would be able to say same about the show.

Actually I kept utmost patience and watched HM track and after that I kept my hopes and thought to give Manushi in AH a chance trusting ph,and story writer despite hating the concept of third angles especially sister turned psycho ex religiously.

I tried to give show a chance.

You know what for me painful is that I can understand meetA,I can connect I can feel what he feels and exactly that feeling scares me,I've observed this very closely and this is so real but accepting this gives me scary feeling which force me to believe that he loved Manushi way too much and when you love someone this much you requires a considerable amount of time to move on and god knows if you will be able to love again with same passion or not.

So when they depicted his love so close to reality than technically they need to depict his move on and than falling in love with meety also close to real to make it believable right but tell me is it possible to take that much time in show to make leads fall in love,no not possible so how will they make their love believable(close to 30 episodes to this manushi love track and still continues....)...considering this a very genuine question,so they shouldn't have gone overboard with this obsessive love and if they had than they have to take considerable amount to make meet² believable also especially meetA's love (assuming next 2 weeks episode with manushi based on bts so around 50 epis so to make move on believable requires another 50 episode atleast than to make love story believable another 50 episodes so around 100 which means in show 250), jo ki practically toh possible nahi hai.

Now I am so disappointed with how they ruined their side characters one by one just to keep third angle in the show.

They just butchered side important characters,neither they are concerned about Tej's back story,just shoving down Manushi on us and if they had to than they should have worked upon,it looks completely illogical.

Originally posted by: Nephy

I loved reading your thoughts neha, but kash I would be able to say same about the show.

Actually I kept utmost patience and watched HM track and after that I kept my hopes and thought to give Manushi in AH a chance trusting ph,and story writer despite hating the concept of third angles especially sister turned psycho ex religiously.

I tried to give show a chance.

You know what for me painful is that I can understand meetA,I can connect I can feel what he feels and exactly that feeling scares me,I've observed this very closely and this is so real but accepting this gives me scary feeling which force me to believe that he loved Manushi way too much and when you love someone this much you requires a considerable amount of time to move on and god knows if you will be able to love again with same passion or not.

So when they depicted his love so close to reality than technically they need to depict his move on and than falling in love with meety also close to real to make it believable right but tell me is it possible to take that much time in show to make leads fall in love,no not possible so how will they make their love believable(close to 30 episodes to this manushi love track and still continues....)...considering this a very genuine question,so they shouldn't have gone overboard with this obsessive love and if they had than they have to take considerable amount to make meet² believable also especially meetA's love (assuming next 2 weeks episode with manushi based on bts so around 50 epis so to make move on believable requires another 50 episode atleast than to make love story believable another 50 episodes so around 100 which means in show 250), jo ki practically toh possible nahi hai.

Now I am so disappointed with how they ruined their side characters one by one just to keep third angle in the show.

They just butchered side important characters,neither they are concerned about Tej's back story,just shoving down Manushi on us and if they had to than they should have worked upon,it looks completely illogical.

At this point, love story ka mujhe bhi pata nahi. Right now, more than anything I'm just curious. Like writers soch Kya rahe hain. Honestly, Nephy mujhe nahi laga ki I will see you here after Monday. Kudos to your patience. I realized I got a very attached to the story, so I'm keeping my hopes low and my involvement lower. And I personally decided if I make a post it will be positive. Toh this post was just an attempt and I feel a 'separation' is the only possible way this story can be redeemed for me. Baki mujhe bhi nahi pata. I'm avoiding the discussion threads like a plague for now kyunki mujhe parna hi nahi kuch negative. It will do no better to my mood and mental health

Originally posted by: Anjureads

Thanks for the tag.

About upcoming storyline tho I have no intuitions. But yes, as you say Sunaina's sitiation will be served as a example to compare with.

I have no issues with the Meet² situation too. I have posted in the EDT my review after Monday's and Tuesday's episodes. I find a beautiful kind of love between them. Only that it is just not acknowledged yet. Especially after the scene yesterday where both hide their pain/problem and want to care about the partner. That scene made me remember the story 'The Gift of the Magi' for some reason. This is not something to be just dismissed.

Meety believes in destiny. She has always accepted what destiny has given her. She told Meetwa that making and breaking relations is not in our hands. But we know that her saas-sasur do things differently. So I too feel there is a high point coming up and my hope is Meetwa gains clarity and finally burns Manushi's photo and earring in the fire. But how exactly it may come about I have no ideas. Since Babita is being so horrible with Sunaina, and we see Meety interfering, she will be vengeful towards Meety and give lot of preference to Manushi over Meety so much so that in the heat of the moment she could actually say it was better that Manushi were her bahu. Or maybe she could pose the question to Meety asking if she will give up her marriage for the sake of Meetwa's pyaar. Now if this topic is raised in front of the whole family, it can cause some emotional distance and questions in their minds which may also be uncomfortable for them to discuss initially but hopefully it wont last too long.

What I am unable to tolerate is the crude and negative behaviours of the two mothers in the show. The two mothers who actually claim to love their child but doing things that actually hurt them for their so called betterment. I am just waiting for Tej's story to unfold now so that other unnecessary drama is reduced.

I am afraid to do any kind of analysis now because the makers seem to be using some kind of alien logic and story telling from the honeymoon phase onwards and its all going downhill so far. Meet² progression is the only saving grace in the midst of weird scenarios and I am quite happy with that. I think I will give it time until 150th episode without much analysis.

I agree. I hope to see something massive on Lohdi. I don't know why they are dragging this third angle nonsense for so long. Aisa chalta raha they will definitely lose the loyal fanbase and trp bhi giragi as Manhusi drama never got trp I don't feel angry on MA at this point. I just feel bad for him. I can't be angry on someone for what their emotions, but can blame them for their actions. It's like Manushi is harassing him and it's just sick.

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

At this point, love story ka mujhe bhi pata nahi. Right now, more than anything I'm just curious. Like writers soch Kya rahe hain. Honestly, Nephy mujhe nahi laga ki I will see you here after Monday. Kudos to your patience. I realized I got a very attached to the story, so I'm keeping my hopes low and my involvement lower. And I personally decided if I make a post it will be positive. Toh this post was just an attempt and I feel a 'separation' is the only possible way this story can be redeemed for me. Baki mujhe bhi nahi pata. I'm avoiding the discussion threads like a plague for now kyunki mujhe parna hi nahi kuch negative. It will do no better to my mood and mental health

Yaar I actually gave up long back I couldn't tolerate since last one qeek I have stopped watching but visiting forum and reading other's views and commenting here and there,very less.

But I agree with you regarding separation but for me not for meet² but for meety,girl deserves a break,I am in she is in mess right now not meetA,problems with meetA are more of self generated and all but meety she is literally pushed into this pothole,I seriously feel bad for this 20 year old girl with dreams in her eyes and wings on her back having capability to touch the sky got entangled in this circus.

And regarding meetA is only one cares for her,no doubt but I strongly believe she deserves much more than just care but thik hai yaar ab jyada bhi kya bolu meri disappointments dusro ka mood off kar degi so I think I should restrict myself to this as already spoken a lot here only.

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

I know I have not been active for a few days, and I think a lot of us are done with the show after Monday's episode. I personally avoided coming to forum because I just wanted to rant, and honestly the amount of negativity everywhere scared me, and I realized I would be doing nothing much, but add up to the hate. I am not watching the episodes,but just following the insta clips and updates, and honestly, I don't know what the makers are doing. Do they not realize that people are mostly watching for Meet2? And they are hell bent on ruining the one thing that works for the show

Anyways, I promised I won't add onto the frustration, but here is the only thing that I'm looking forward too, and that's a separation. Maybe not physically but emotionally, but I feel the couple needs it the most. For once, I want MA to have the option of going back to both the ladies, and he makes his choice, cz honestly none of us can tell no more.

Here, are my reasons why I feel everything is topping up for a huge climax or a massive breakdown

1) MH being constantly reminded that now she is married, and her primary focus should be her husband and her in-laws. Her being forced to give up her responsibilities for her family, which is something she can never adhere to. She is the 'man' of her house, and even after marriage she always had her priorities set. She is a great wife and DIL, but her first priority has always been about being a great daughter.

2) why wasn't MA able to share his turmoil with her? Do you think getting MH physically hurt was just an uncontemplated scene? I don't. I feel they either want to create a situation where MH loses her faith on MA ( which is basically everything she wants in a relationship) or her to realize that she should give up the relationship.Why is she in a relationship with MA? It is definitely not love, but a sense of responsibility towards him. If she realizes that it's her sister that he needs, she will leave. Atleast, right now it is her marriage that is stopping her from being there for her own family.

3) Sunaina-MH's conversation about self-respect and love wasn't futile after all. It repulsed MH to see a girl being questioned about her chastity. (and honestly I realize the toxicity of the concept but I will be a hypocrite if I say this doesn't happen. Ok, yes the topic has been extremely dramatized and Sunaina's situation isn't a common one. Humara yaha jab arrange marriages hota hain both the families try to find out about the prospective match from their neighbors, friends and relatives. The girl's character usually comes under massive scrutiny. You think when your relatives are trying to find about the girl and her family, it is about her food preferences or her knowledge about mutual funds? No! It's about her character and about her chastity. Ha koyi doctor k paas pakar kar nahi le jata hain par sadly, sawaal indirectly uthtey zaroor hain. If they are trying to address that, then it is great) what I wanted to say is if that self-respect vs love conversation was a premonition for the upcoming track why can't the 'wool' conversation be the same? Even though Ravi-Sunaina-Tej's situation is very different from Manushi-Meet-Meet's situation (I can make a whole diff post about it but honestly not in the right mood for that now). MH supported 'love' in that conversation. So, if somehow she comes to this conclusion that she is being the 'Ravi' in this equation, then she will definitely leave. Warna Sunaina k second marriage wala drama Kiya kyun? She isn't even an important character jitna use importance diya geya hain iss track se so it definitely has something to do with the leads.

So, Kuch toh bara Hoga aga. Ya toh separation, ya phir kuch aur. But be prepared, as till the Lodhi episode there will be lots of unwanted drama, gallons of majnupana k dohra, and very few Meet2 scenes.

P.S-I don't know who needs to hear this,but here it comes. I get agitated with people who complain about Malini/Jasmine/Pakhi's character and want this character to leave the show or atleast get less screen space. It is not possible. You knew what you were signing up for from the first promo. They are also the main protagonist/antagonist of the show, so you have to see them till the end. But here the premise isn't the same. Jo log bhi thoda bohot tolerate kar rahe hain. They will also leave by the end of Jan or at best, by the mid of Feb as they are not getting what they were promised. So, play your game carefully writers. Jo raita felaya hain woh sameto. Mera hisaab se only a separation track can salvage it, but I am not a writer, and I have heard so much about these writers, so I hope they know what they are doing.

I promised I'm not going to be negative in this post. But it seems like it is not a very positive post either. But my last few words might uplift the post, so bear with me.

Even though I wasn't a BB fan cz as I said Kuch hojata hain Mera dimaag mein baccho ko sindur mangalsutra mein dekh ke. So, I could never watch it properly, but I did watch a few tracks. Saudamini played by Pranali was a powerful vamp, especially Pranali was great in her role. But I just couldn't watch anymore, when she literally started waging a war to win back Anirudh against a kid. The drama became unbearable when she she was ready to even kill Bondita. Like stop! She is a kid! And in that track, we lost our Saurabh😭. Aur phir inhone Bondita ki innocent behen ko villain bana diya aur Kakasasur ko toh Babita jaisi hypocrite.

Now, if I come to talk about the most practical and loved show of ITV 'Yudkbh'. Even that show didn't do justice to a few tracks. Samaina's marriage has to be one of them. Sab villain ban gaya sivaya the friends gang, and chacha Chachi. Honestly, typical ITV vamp uss show main sirf Sameer ki Dadi thi isse pehla, but phir inhona Mama-Mami aur Tauji-Taiji ko bhi nahi baksha. Yes, these characters always had their flaws, but grey se sidha negative banana zaroori nahi tha. And it aired on Sony?!!! Sony which is currently serving the least toxic ITV drama. Infact, if I took a sip of alcohol every time I saw Naina and her family getting insulted during their wedding track, I would have become a raging alcoholic by now. Even their HM and the first few months after marriage didn't serve Samaina well. I don't know who enjoyed it, but atleast I couldn't. It was just Sameer & Naina blaming each other for each other's failures. Sameer telling Naina how she is middle-class, has no sense of fashion, and takes no responsibility towards grooming the house, and Naina calling upon his bs. They even started regretting their marriage, and their respective parents had to step-in to knock some sense in their mind. Was it practical? Yes, it showed Pyaar jitna bhi gehra ho Shaadi ki side effects se koyi nahi baach sakta🤣. Was it painful? Yes, because we as audience have seen them fight bigger problems with greater understanding. Tabh toh communication hi band ho gaya tha dono leads mein. Sameer Jo problems face kar raha tha woh Naina ko nahi Bata raha tha, Ulta uska frustration Naina pe utar raha tha.

I used these two examples, because a lot of us are familiar with these two shows, and are also die-hards fans of these shows. Fans abh hain jab show khatam hogaya hain par jab woh sab tracks chal raha tha tabh I'm sure most of us didn't enjoy it.

So disgusting/uncomfortable tracks and sudden change in character arcs is nothing new. So, hopefully this track will end soon, because as I said ending se pehla hi bohot drama hota hain aur abhi bohot zyada drama horaha hain. Meety ki sabr ka bahan tootey ga aur woh bhi Lohdi mein hi hoga.

I'm sorry if this post made you feel even more depressed. But hey! I tried 😳

Loved reading your post.

Actually it gave hope ki may be they become better after this track.

MH is someone who is shown to tolerate all of the things collectively which many different girls face.

Everything she is facing is no doubt happens in real life but ya it happens to different different girls, but it is almost next to impossible to not break and remain strong facing so much all at once.

And Babita, it is impossible to say positive about her . I don't know why she thinks her Bahus to be robots solely constructed to cater to the needs of her whom she things are paralyzed sons.

Remember during pagphera?

How will my son remain without AC? And bla bla..

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

Loved reading your post.

Actually it gave hope ki may be they become better after this track.

MH is someone who is shown to tolerate all of the things collectively which many different girls face.

Everything she is facing is no doubt happens in real life but ya it happens to different different girls, but it is almost next to impossible to not break and remain strong facing so much all at once.

And Babita, it is impossible to say positive about her . I don't know why she thinks her Bahus to be robots solely constructed to cater to the needs of her whom she things are paralyzed sons.

Remember during pagphera?

How will my son remain without AC? And bla bla..

If MH feels her leaving a place, will make someone else happy, she will leave. Anyways, she doesn't love MA, so definitely love will not stop her.

This, or she gets so harshly insulted that she leaves for her self respect (I don't want to see this torture tbh)

Now, I'm just getting more and more sure that there will be some MU between Meets2 . Even in today's episode, MA tried to tell MH what Manushi did the other day, but MH had to leave. So, they are deliberately keeping Meets2 away from each other Taki Kuch bara ho. Now that's what I feel

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

If MH feels her leaving a place, will make someone else happy, she will leave. Anyways, she doesn't love MA, so definitely love will not stop her.

This, or she gets so harshly insulted that she leaves for her self respect (I don't want to see this torture tbh)

Now, I'm just getting more and more sure that there will be some MU between Meets2 . Even in today's episode, MA tried to tell MH what Manushi did the other day, but MH had to leave. So, they are deliberately keeping Meets2 away from each other Taki Kuch bara ho. Now that's what I feel

MU is the most favourite way to mess up things for ITV writers. Yaha direct lack of communication nahi dikha sakta due to the characters Meets are, isliye conversation ko pending banate jaa rahe hai for that build up🤔.

Jo v ho MH should not get insulted more