I have a doubt... pls clear

I always have this doubt in my mind.MA have known manushi only for a short period of time...but even then he had wifey feelings for her...that physical attraction and passion.he would be ready to consummate their marriage. But why he want so much time for an attraction for meety.he know her more than manushi and has even spend time with her more than manushi.So i dont understand what is blocking him from that kind of an attraction to meety...and that is a huge let down for me.He is afftected by manushis touches...manushis presence and all...but didnt feel anything even during bathtub scene with meety....when they were so close.

As a man...at least he should feel something na....or is he in too much control of his emotions but only for manushis touches he cant control himslef...thats yuck...and this always is there in the backside of my mind...so i am not able to believe him having passionate feeling for her...like what a man feels for a woman...its always like trying not to hurt a mahan and good person like her.... and slowly making a physical feeling for consciuosly.

I know he is attached to meety in mind more than meety herself is attached to him.but still i dont know...i always feel a missing spark.

He did during the Christmas scene, and he did even in the bath tub. Physical attraction dikh raha Hain ab with the recent episodes , but I guess with Meety he wants to take time and allow the relationship to develop before they finally take the next step. In the Christmas scene, he didn't stop her from kissing him, but she herself diverted, and with her speech it was clear that even Meety isn't ready for physical intimacy. Moreover, I want both the leads to fall head over heels in love with each other before they consummate their marriage. With Manushi, everything was about physical attraction,but with Meet the kind of bond he is having is the kind that one can only have with another soul. And as Meetwa himself said, they have to reach the 'soulmate' stage of their relationship, before they finally tick off the societal definition of 'being married'. Attraction hain from Meetwa's side. You can see it in his body language, atleast I can.

Hope that helps 😳

I agree with you.

This is something which bothered me too and now I reached a point where I can see them as happy couple and friends not as lovers.

With meety its like friendship which is platonic which had care,concern for each other and somewhere this thought to never hurt a beautiful soul like her as meetA knows meety is too good to done something which will hurt her.

They are more of friemds as couple not lovers as couple,actually I can understand this.

My sis married her best friend and they are not overly touchy like we generally see newly weds they have comfort and flow between them where they understand each other without saying a word,they are look to couple but they are not someone like who are not leaving each other's side always engrossed in each other and I guess thats becoz they are best of friends before husband and wife and very comfortable about each other,obviously they are husband and wife so physical intimacy is not an alien concept to them but its is not something which they are mad about or couple in romantic love are.

So meety and meetA are going to be like them,they are friends,confidiant and in future physical intimacy bhi hogi but I can't imagine that at like madness level itna comfort hone ke baad vo kaise ho sakta hai.

With Manushi it was different,manushi was not friend she was lover meetA loved her as a woman not a friend so it was natural for him to have those feelings for her and uncontrollable desire for her which a man have when he loves a girl as lover.

This is my conclusion meety and meetA have a subtle love story,friends turned to lovers(mera toh khair lover kehne ko man nahi karta,more appropriate would be husband-wife)

Secondly its natural to fall out of love and fall in love second time but you tend to loose the level of passion you feel first time,as first heartbreak makes you cautious first time a person goes all in but second time his every step is well calculated and thought of,same is the case with meet ahlawat,in case of meety his mind also plays a role its not all heart and it can't be,it will be stupid to expect and more stupid if they will show something like this.

Secondly whatever meetA feels for meety is more of dependance its not even proper friendship,she is his support system in case of difficult situations.

And I agree he feels surprised even shocked or admires also when she looks beautiful but physical attraction nahi hai us level ka nahi hai I mean itna closeness ke baad bhi nahi hai,he knows and admitted that he is going to spend his entire life with meety so physical intimacy is not something which is out of question thats the reason he would have kissed her on christmas.

But as you said its not due to attraction or desire it will be more becoz he knows they are husband and wife and that is something which will be there if not now than in future thats the reason he is able to control himself,he is not averted to it but he is not dying for it either becoz I already said meety is his friend who is his wife also but he never desired her in that way,in future it will be their relation status which will be the base of their intimacy not attraction.

vo vali attraction hai hi nahi bhai,jo admiration hai little bit here and there vo isiliye becoz meety is not decked up always so jab bhi sunder lagegi toh fir vo sabko hi lagegi not alone meetA.😆

So if you will compare meety-meetA love story with with meetA-Manushi love story you will feel bad for sure so you can't if you want to enjoy just take them as couple and don't compare meetA's love for manushi to meety,friendly suggestions.

Thanks for the reply...yea..even i dont want them to consummate their marriage before they r ready and dont want them to regret later make it the reason that they should now stay together...I just wanted to see that attraction like aankhon me kho jaana and all..😃 like they had before the marriage....

Actually i got a trauma by seeing his over majnupan for manushi and was not able to digest any of his feelings for meety after seeing it.thats the truth...sometimes i feel like he is letting go of manushi and trying to move ahead forgetting the past for meet..not for himself...as he is a husband right now and dont want to break his patnis trust..and there is no possible way to reunite with manushi. And that thought is disheartening me.

The only seen i watch on loop and give sukoon for my mind is the christmas drunk meety scene when he didnt backoff...

Anyways i know he is attached to meety..but just wanted to see him lost in her...instead of some comedy scene....

Yea...i will.have to convince my mind that meet manushi feelings and meet meet feelings are different.I dont know... i feel bad while thinking that..but am hoping some day they show that he cannot live without meety...he could live without manushi...he married another person and was shown trying to move on for whatever reasons..for himslef or for his wife.......but in meety case i want him to be like he cannot live without her or move on in life and trying to get back her in his life in every possible way. Just hoping that it will be shown in a beautiful way.

Originally posted by: Zorinacatherine

Yea...i will.have to convince my mind that meet manushi feelings and meet meet feelings are different.I dont know... i feel bad while thinking that..but am hoping some day they show that he cannot live without meety...he could live without manushi...he married another person and was shown trying to move on for whatever reasons..for himslef or for his wife.......but in meety case i want him to be like he cannot live without her or move on in life and trying to get back her in his life in every possible way. Just hoping that it will be shown in a beautiful way.

Exactly you have to consider their love story as different than meetA-Manushi.

Actually its a fact that people who only have passion in their relation don't last long as compared to the ones who are subtle but have understanding.

So yeah we are habitual of watching mad passionate love on tv screens so this subtle sweet love story doesn't seem eye pleasing but its beautiful to have such story in your real life trust me it is real although not eye pleasing.

Originally posted by: Zorinacatherine

Thanks for the reply...yea..even i dont want them to consummate their marriage before they r ready and dont want them to regret later make it the reason that they should now stay together...I just wanted to see that attraction like aankhon me kho jaana and all..😃 like they had before the marriage....

Actually i got a trauma by seeing his over majnupan for manushi and was not able to digest any of his feelings for meety after seeing it.thats the truth...sometimes i feel like he is letting go of manushi and trying to move ahead forgetting the past for meet..not for himself...as he is a husband right now and dont want to break his patnis trust..and there is no possible way to reunite with manushi. And that thought is disheartening me.

The only seen i watch on loop and give sukoon for my mind is the christmas drunk meety scene when he didnt backoff...

Anyways i know he is attached to meety..but just wanted to see him lost in her...instead of some comedy scene....

I also feels like he is trying to move on for meety as he knows she got caught in all this mess without any mistake and doesn't want to make it more problematic for her,not for himself,most of the time I feel that if meety was not his wife or he would have been unmarried for instance he may have forgiven Manushi after initial reluctance or anger and would have been marrued her and be happy with him.

And even if he would have married to someone else rather than meety than also he would have been try to move on from his past,thats meetA's character sketch and thank goodness for it,its not something "special" for meety.

These tv serials have messed up my mind..😃

It was ok for me to watch wife and girlfriend drama...thats what u will get in pretty much every serial....but in whichever triangle love show i watched the male lead attraction for a girl was evident that it was attraction.they were not shown having pain seeing the girlfriend in some pain or in trouble or missing them badly....but was always shown having deep pain when female lead was in pain or in some trouble....so ther was a believability when finally realises that they were not in love with the girlfriend.

But here MA is shown missing manushi...feeling the pain when she eats spicy food or cuts fingers.or someone scholds her....whatever....just like deep love...so his was always true love..cannot say it was attraction...and that hurts me😢...

Very true..if he was unmarried...am damn sure he would have married manushi after her return....even if he shows his anger first..he will fall in manushi's pyaari baatein and false stories and then forgive her.Our meety desrves somone better..

Originally posted by: Zorinacatherine

These tv serials have messed up my mind..😃

It was ok for me to watch wife and girlfriend drama...thats what u will get in pretty much every serial....but in whichever triangle love show i watched the male lead attraction for a girl was evident that it was attraction.they were not shown having pain seeing the girlfriend in some pain or in trouble or missing them badly....but was always shown having deep pain when female lead was in pain or in some trouble....so ther was a believability when finally realises that they were not in love with the girlfriend.

But here MA is shown missing manushi...feeling the pain when she eats spicy food or cuts fingers.or someone scholds her....whatever....just like deep love...so his was always true love..cannot say it was attraction...and that hurts me😢...

I can understand thats why I said ki have to admit that manushi was meetA's love like first love and meety is friend very close one,his partner in crime,support system,competitor everything but not lover yeah in future some day he may feel that attatchment important than anything else and maybe we can call it love also but for now you have to make yourself understood that this is love for Manushi friendship for meety and from manushi trying to move on whatever reason which I also feel more of his marital status and nice girl as wife but still manushi is love now ex and sister of wife,meety is friend.

Thats the relationship status of meetA and the incidence you mention I know we are not accustomed to watch such level reality on tv screen,we have been fan of passionate live stories from a long period of time so now brain is not registering this.

But ab dekhna hai toh apne man ko samjhna padega aur bakion ki tarah you can also find happiness in little things jaise sochne mein kya hi jata hai,soch lo maan lo ki vo meety ko pyaar se dekh raha hai and all.