Aditya vs Gaurav

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Has anyone else noticed how differently aditiya and gaurav are treated by the family members?
Seems Aditiya is more spoilt, the mum, the dad and even babuji seem to let him get away with anything, where with gaurav, the dad only speaks to him to insult him, the mum only speaks to him to try and emotionally blackmail him and babuji simply ignores him!!!
In one episode the father says to the mum that he had big dreams for aditiya wedding and dreams of aditiya carrying his name on.........Why not Gaurav? Hes the first born in the family.
Although aditiya is good to look at i feel his charecter oozes immaturity! He acting at times can be over the top and in ur face, if he ever has a problem he goes crying to mum, dad, babuji even gaurav...........
Gaurav on the other hand is the strong silent type, very mature for his age, he works hard and doesnt rely on anyone else, my heart goes out to him at the way his father constantly puts him down.....
What do any of you guys think?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree...

Also, i like Gaurav's Character . He is doing justice to his role.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yeah aditya is a little immature at times but i still think he's more confident than gaurav in his decisions... He was ready to leave the house when the dad opposed his marriage to priya...dont think gaurav has taht much guts...

both are unique in thier own way


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Or u could look at it another way, Gaurav turned his back on love for his familys honour and mothers love......whereas aditiya was ready to turn his back on his family and walk out to be with the one he loved...even his mothers tears didnt change his mind....they are both strong in their own way but gaurav i believe is the only mature one, he doesnt jump in with his heart in his hand...he thinks about consequences and affects it will have on his family, aditiya doesnt, i like aditiya dont get me wrong but hes just too much sumtimes, very spoiled and its starting to show, he demands to have his own way all the time or else he'll emotionally blackmail the people around him, thats fly, gaurav puts it to you straight and doesnt mess about...plus its heart breaking to see his own father taunt him so badly where as he smothers aditiya with his love, surely thats not right.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Um.. I originally relly felt for Gaurav. He was sacrificing his love for hjis family and stuff. But now I am getting frusdtratedbat his behaviuor towards Vidya. I'm sorry whastever the reason. You marrried now it is your duty to keep her happy. If he truly sacrificed his love fore the family he would not keep the affair going after he married Vidya. His behavouoer towards Vidya is repulsive. They had no right to play with her life! She is being treated unfairly. I really feel for her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The way i see it, its his mum who has played with 3 lives....she knew what the script was when she got them married.....he also made it clear to her what it would be like if she chose to marry him off, so knowing full well that poor vidyas life would be incomplete she went ahead anyway why? for the families reputation...alot of ppl may think why did gaurav do it then but seeing a similar situation personally its so very hard to say no..................i sympathise with vidya, she didnt know any of this and still doesnt, on that part gaurav should be honest with her....
And if push came to shove i dont believe that aditiya would have walked out, he knew what he was doing and he knew his father would stop him....one of his many tactics to get what he wants
All i think is that all children in a family should be treated the same.........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i don't think it was always that reason........its just that one thing(the person he loves) that made the difference in gaurav's character..if he is ( as being said agy) the surely everyone will treat him the way they do......as for aditya he may seem immature but he has the guts to face truth n accept it..... he does go to his father n mother for support but it shows that he believes in sharing his prob with the people who love him n also that he believes in taking his family along with him in his every decision.he did tried to leave the house for priys coz that his father was saying no to his wedding for just a stupid reason...
as far as gaurav is concerned......he is silent n believes in taking all the pains himself n keeping his personal life private....he doesn't have the power to express his real feelings to his loved ones n thats the thing that differs him from adi...
its not about adi vs gaurav...its just 2 bros having different ideologies yet being together to celebrate each other;s happiness n to share each other's sorrows.....i like them both ...👏

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