First time I cried for Duryadhan

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After watching today's episode I've been compelled to make this post..it's my first ever topic in this Mahabharata forum. I got so many feeling today, first of these is about Duryadhan. He's the most unfortunate brother in the epic..he had to see n bear all the pains alone. His parents couldn't get to see..lucky they are! Today after watching so many deaths, specially death of his fav brother Dushsan he must have also wished to be a blind like his parents! :'( First time i felt sorry for him. I know many of you will say he doesn't deserve a little drop of tears or sympathy..but after all we r humans.. the next thing ,what I had felt beforehand n today it just became stronger , is among all the five pandavas Bheem is the one who genuinely loves Panchali and of course loves her most! In fact he's the only one who took revenge for her. Neither her brother nor her father or other hubbies did. Only Bheem was the real lover of Draupadi. :) He fulfilled his promise, did the righteous job a husband should do for his wife.. He even became inhuman to do so. share what you feel..I'll be happy to know. :)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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ofcourse ;today s episode was so difficult to watch for us then naturally imagine what duryodhan had to go through.But he is responsible for it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeah the epi content was violent but it is their own doing. it's their karma and duryodhan was indeed responsible for this blood bath .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes dear..even I felt the same.. Although he himself was responsible for his misfortune.. I even felt bad for Dushi.. Today's episode was really unbearable.. Actually, this death proved who was the most unfortunate people in the epic.. It was definitely the two groups of cousins. Cousins have some of the best bonding in family.. They are so close to each other.. Brothers.. The Pandavs nd Kauravs cud also have been the same..the best of brothers.. But... This really brings tears to my eyes.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Somehow I never hate Dury! He suffered greatly today but that is what you call Karma!
And Of Bheem, today my aunt said the same thing!
But Here I have to disagree with you!
IMO all her husbands have lost the right to actually claim they took revenge for her humiliation coz they themselves were the reason of what happened then! I believe its a mix of anger towards kauravas and guilt for not standing up for Panchaali when she needed them the most what lead them to their taking revenge!
And of killing Dushy, it's only Bheem who could Kill all of 100 sons of Dhritharashtra like that, only his physical strength could match up to kill them so brutally! Arrow of Arjun, Spear of Yudi, Sword of Nakul or the weapon of Sahadev could't have bought such a death!
This is just my opinion! 😳 I didn't want to hurt your POV! Just said mine! 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i cdnt watch 2daz epi as it ws so bloody 🤢
yes bheem loved drau most ..he had to accept hirimba as kunti ordered bt apart 4m her bheem didnt marry any1 else..bt d other bros had many more wives.
arjun married so many times that really proves he ws just like pandu..like father like son ..pandu too married madri 4 her beauty n didnt consider that it cd hurt kunti..same with arjun..
bt i dnt blame arjun..i feel he was a shrewd soldier who had gr8 vision..those days marriages brot along
alliances..so he gained frndly kingdoms by marrying into thr families..quite a politically correct decision.
n lastly i wd just say thr wd of course b sinful flesh traders wanting to buy a woman n njoy her 4 thr lust
bt who is a gr8er sinner d buyer or d seller who is a husband?yes duri dushi disgraced drau bt who put her up in d market as pawn/bet/selling item?swayam bichar ki jiye 😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I guess it was payback day!!

Draupadi's Vastraharan was far more brutal than it was shown in the serial, in my opinion.
In the serial, she was only dragged with cruelty...
Whereas, in the epic, she was dragged like that, in a single piece of cloth, wrapped around her body...
She was not even properly dressed...she was in her season...her dress was stained in blood from her season. In that condition, with clothes almost slipping away, she was dragged by her hair, to a court full of men.
Even today, we women, tend to be careful about our clothings, in our season.
Just imagine, what it was like for Draupadi, at that age, to be dragged in front of in-laws, outsiders, servants, etc, half-dressed, and stained in blood...
So, no I feel no sympathy for Dushasen or Duryodhan.
But there is one thing, that I would like to say.
Throne, power, greed, ego, etc ruin everything.
The Pandavas and the Kauravas could have been friendly, but all got ruined bcoz of this LAND and THRONE.
Power destroys people, and make them do horrible things.
And JustMySelf, yes Bhima loved Draupadi a lot. But he did marry another woman named Valandhara. 😭
And Pandu was married off to Madri, by Bhishma.
The marriage was arranged by Bhishm.
Reason was Kunti's inability to conceive, although it was Pandu, who was impotent.
I hope, I am factually right.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: amritat

I guess it was payback day!!

Draupadi's Vastraharan was far more brutal than it was shown in the serial, in my opinion.
In the serial, she was only dragged with cruelty...
Whereas, in the epic, she was dragged like that, in a single piece of cloth, wrapped around her body...
She was not even properly dressed...she was in her season...her dress was stained in blood from her season. In that condition, with clothes almost slipping away, she was dragged by her hair, to a court full of men.
Even today, we women, tend to be careful about our clothings, in our season.
Just imagine, what it was like for Draupadi, at that age, to be dragged in front of in-laws, outsiders, servants, etc, half-dressed, and stained in blood...
So, no I feel no sympathy for Dushasen or Duryodhan.
But there is one thing, that I would like to say.
Throne, power, greed, ego, etc ruin everything.
The Pandavas and the Kauravas could have been friendly, but all got ruined bcoz of this LAND and THRONE.
Power destroys people, and make them do horrible things.
And JustMySelf, yes Bhima loved Draupadi a lot. But he did marry another woman named Valandhara. 😭
And Pandu was married off to Madri, by Bhishma.
The marriage was arranged by Bhishm.
Reason was Kunti's inability to conceive, although it was Pandu, who was impotent.
I hope, I am factually right.


oh i c 😊
btw u can call me jms
i didnt knew all these part of d storys ..bheem had any other children like ghatotkach?thanx 4 d briefing 🤗



ok i read another short book..it was abt going to d swarg..al d pandavas n draupadi n a dog was thr.
d story reads:
that 1st drau dies n goes to hell..so bheem asks yudi y bro?
yudi says coz drau loved arjun most tho it was her dharm 2 love all equally..bt as arjun had won her she alwaz loved him more.

nxt nakul died..went to hell..bheem asked y..yudi said coz he thot he was best looking 😆

then sahadev died went to hell..again bheem asked y..yudi said bcoz he thot himself as d gr8st knowledge holder on healing ppl

then arjun died..went to hell..bheem asked y arjun?😲
yudi replied that as arjun thot he was d best archer in d world

then bheem ws dying n he was being taken to hell n said bro y me?yudi replied coz u thot u r d strongest in this world.

then d dog n yudi kept walking..finally yudi found himself walking thru hell..he saw duri dushi beng fried in oil in hell 😆
he hurried away..then he saw bheem n his other bro n drau too ..he was stunned..n tears came to his eyes..then d dog transformed n bcam dharmaraj himself..yudi asked y his fam n frnds here..he replied they r paying 4 thr sins..yudi asked y am i still nt dead bt ur showing me all these unbearable condition of my frnds n fam..dharmaraj said coz u lied abt ashathama while disarming drona..then dharmaraj said come nw u hv paid 4 ur sins its time 4 u to go to heaven..bt yudi said nt until u free my bros n drau else i wd stay here..so dharmaraj had to grant all access to swarg finally 😆
hv u heard d story?is this story true?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Though Duryodhan brought this situation upon himself, it was sad to his fav brother killed. Its all karma.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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JustMySelf,
Yes, this story is there in Mahaprasthan parva of the epic.
And I think, the last part is in the Swargrohan Parva, or maybe the whole thing is in the Mahaprasthan Parva.
However, it's not true that Yudisthir granted them all path to heaven. And Duryodhan was not boiling in oil. 😆 Infact, he was enjoying himself in heaven, as he had died in the Kurukshetra battlefield. There was probably some sacredness about the Kurukshetra battlefield, for which, people who died there, directly reached heaven. There's a confusion regarding this.
As for the Pandavas, actually, from what I have understood, that whole hell journey was an illusion.
It was a test for Yudisthir, which he passed with flying colours.
The moment Yudisthir says, that he would rather live his brothers and wife in hell, than with his enemies in heaven, he passes the test.
Hearing this, Dharmraj becomes happy. Then the hell disappears, and Yudisthir is told that it was a test.
And then, finally he is taken to heaven, where his brothers and wife had already reached.
And when Yudithir reaches heaven he sees Draupadi sitting in a goddess like posture.
Then he is told, that it's Ma Shree, who had taken birth as Draupadi.
I have read this part in other books as well. So, there might be some error in what I have written.
However, u can check it yourself, in KMG's translation, which is found online for free. 😊
Edited by amritat - 11 years ago

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