A little TOO HARSH with Madhu? - Page 2

Actually it's easy for a person who doesn't live a situation or has faced all the hurdles to judge others, to say they should have done this, but actually no one knows what would be our own reaction if we were in Madhu's situation for exemple, here feelings play a lot, and it's difficult to take risks cause the consequences might be fatal. I actually don't know how would I have reacted in her place but I know for sure that provoking someone like Sultan doesn't solve your problem, the person provoked tends to react violently.

I had an experience of that sort, a lecherous creep whom i don"t even know made me a dirty proposition and i reacted vehemently insulting him then he was about to react violently, i think he had some knife, so to have time to escape because this happened actually at night - one of my uncles escorted me almost near my home but he had to go- and then unfortunatly came this hateful man , so i had actually to lower the tone of my voice making him think that i was about to accept his proposition, then in a moment where his attention was lowered i run from there. I remember at that time i came to hate men for being such lustful creatures.

It's just to say that sometimes life put you in situations where you have to react with some kind of cautiousness till you ensure your safety and then come back with a plan to punish the person who might have harassed you.

Coming back to Madhu, I admit that we might not agree with all what she is doing but from where she stands she is not that wrong either, and even in real life people are not all super intelligent to come with some great plans to defeat dangerous people like Sultan sometimes you really neead professional help and where can she get it when the supposed stalker is dead. As for her telling Rk the truth, actually that could have been an option i would choose personaly if I don't really come to solve the problem myself, and because I know in real life I'm not that powerful to do that but at the same time i would also be terrified for my hubby if telling him the truth puts his life in danger!

So all I say that we should just enjoy the show as a work of fiction, because in real life things might be very different and very difficult too.

Chakku we r not bashing her..its the frustration vd this track Bhai n Madhu's reactions to him..

in soap land almost in every Kekta show this track has been used n ppl hv felt sympathy for heroine but here that doesn't seems to be the case becoz

not just now but frompast few months madhu's reactions to Bhai hv been irritating her soft looks n eyelocks hv disgusted viewers n now in current track her constant proximity vd gangster n she behaving all weak n distressed in front of him has escalated this irritation..she is a strong woman she not for a moment asked him after divorce how is he going to get RK free of the murder charges..also she is so weak in front of him..he wants her to divorce her husband she shud put the condition ok m doing wat u said but in return stay away from my husband..before yesterday's epi she never said so..its a deal b/w them she needs to be strong in front of him..being weak will give sultan advantage over her!!

she is RK's wife now..they are in a marriage..its a partnership u can't decide its fate just by urself...1st n foremost u never hide anything from ur life partner...

RK dint believe her but the moment she said of divorce he knew there is something wrong..he did not buy her i love sultan crap at first n kept asking her wats the reason behind her decision until he burnt those papers n saw her reaction..he has given her many opportunities to tell the truth but she is going vd her i love sultan jaap..m sure if she tells him now that sultan is alive than he will surely believe her..but no she will not do so..that is my problem she is fighting hard with him to convince him but not using an ounce of this anger n fire against that gangster...u are in a marriage u r not suppose to take such decision all by urself u need to discuss vd ur spouse n fight together..it shud be u me against the world..not telling him means she doesnt trust him enough..

kudos to chakku, u r still sane after this...

My only complaint is that ample justification has not been provided for her current stand and there is no guarantee that her sacrifice will actually be worth it all in the end.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE your post. Perfect! and I agree 100%

I so agree chakku. Its neithr madhu nr rk 2 b blamed. Bt chakku madhu cn use her brains a bit. Nd ya i knw she luvs rk bt gvng herslf nd hr slf respct s a bit too much. Rk s a superstr. Kiling hm s nt dat easy. F madhu uses hr brains she cn trap sultan. Nd mreovr da dragng trk s da main reasn f frustratn. Bhai nds 2 gt out asap.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Chakku, everything okay na? 😃

okay, my reasons for feeling disgusted with Madhu is

1) she is not aggressive with Sultan as she is/was with RK. she doesn't show her disgust to him & she let him touch her...this is not abhi ki baat, this is 5 month old complaint that she's too soft towards him..

2) nobody but she is to be blamed for the current situation..befriending a guy is okay but a gangster? 😳 a person who can kill people is devoid of morals ..expecting a rose on cactus is foolish..fine, I don't blame her for Bhai's perverted thinking but usually, women are smarter than this..they come to know tht the guy is getting wrong ideas from her kind gestures ..now we can't have the "she was always like this" excuse every time..it's annoying..

3) nobody believed her doesn't mean she should stop trying..she can easily prove that he's alive ..

4) yes, if it was a selfish reason Madhu had full rights to take a decision, but this is related to RK and her marriage..their relationship..one person deciding for the other is not acceptable to me...this is the same reason bec. of which Radha is being blamed by RK..she took all the wrong decisions for RK's sake thinking that it's best for him..she lied to him for 17 years, she married Kuku...her intention may be good but she became responsible for his destruction & disturbed childhood bec. she thought it's best for RK but never asked RK if he's okay with it ..he is not doodh peeta bacha who needs to be protected by his wife or mother...

5) Madhu is not exhausted with the options..she just chose the worst from so many better ones available..whatever her plans may be after divorcing RK, whether she wants to destroy Sultan (which seems like a joke to me bec. jab woh kuch bigaad nahi paayi Sultan ka abhi toh tab kaunsa karishma hoga) or kill herself, whatever..she can make an effort now to correct everything..bec. there is no guarantee that Sultan will not blackmail her to marry him or sleep with him or not threaten to kill RK after she divorces him..blackmail is a never ending cycle .Sultan caught on Madhu's weakness but this has to end somewhere..again, it's foolish to think that RK, a person with clout, contacts , money & power can get overpowered by a petty gunda who claims himself to be a don..

I agree, it's easy to say but anyone in her situation will not be in a right frame of mind to think..but still..Madhu has always been a fighter..and it's sad to see that the fighting spirit in her is finished..though she can act smart with RK and force him to divorce her, but not do anything against Sultan 🤢