'What If' - Page 7

Originally posted by: mystic_love

I don't understand why do you people come and comment in this post...listen folks these people will never be satisfied and will always be finding flaws in RK..so that they can justify their GHG's character...which is BULLSHIT!!

@TM why don't you make a list of things which u want to see happening in the show and which shows RK's redemption and send it to ST and the creatives...we will be more than happy with that track than any third person'r track

Originally posted by: _charu_

Originally posted by: _charu_

everybody's parameters of love, respect and selfless love is different..nobody is capable of loving selflessly...can Madhu love RK selflessly? bec. then she will have to sacrifice her "self" and she will be called a doormat ! if RK can clearly see and define that his love is flawed, he could not love Madhu like Madhu loves him, that proves that he is AWARE of his shortcomings ...whatever is missing in their relationship can be worked out between the two of them..he may not be as compassionate as her , he may not trust people...how can the relationship b/w 2 people be perfect when the people involved are not perfect? there will be clashes, there will be differences, one wud try to dominate the other, at some point of time, they may decide to part ways..so what? the underlying truth is that they love each other and if their intentions are pure, this love will always maintain a good balance AND eventually bring them back to each other...

Did you say Sultan "deserves" Madhu more than RK? just bec. RK doesn't know how to "respect" Madhu and Sultan can? is this ALL that is required for a good life ? what about Madhu's wish? what about giving a woman a respectable safe secure future ?

then according to ur pov ur DP pic vala character also abuser , many time he abused his GF mentaly n physically 😳

Originally posted by: swati1975us

So I skimmed over pages and pages of pankhi ramblings to finally get to the end of this thread (and I see MID queen Chakku is back in action!! Yay - that's my girl).

Thank you so much for what you've written Charishma. And if anyone wondered why it is so hard to socially isolate abusive men and motivate women to leave abusive relationships, reading the responses in this thread would be so instructive.

Almost all of these are young women and look what shockingly low expectations they have from men. Apparently the baseline requirements from a man are - must be hawt and rich. Abusive ho to chalega - sorry bol diya na!

They don't even recognize abusive behaviour when it literally pokes them in the eye and leaps out from their TV screens. This unfortunately is the society we are in where women have been convinced of their own inferiority. They truly believe they don't deserve better.

Kya - bended knee pe ho ke sabke saamne sorry bol diya na - ab kya chahiye Madhu ko? Shaadi kar li na usse - ab aur kya chahiye? And like a propah neanderthal man, RK will defend his property oops I mean Madhu against the other aggressive alpha male.

Gauti - if you're peeking into this thread - you're a misogynistic creep for writing this shit but these girls are masochistic for lapping it up. Apna sikka khota ho to koi kisi aur ko kyon dosh de.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Very well put, Charu👏👏👏

RK as a character is grey, pushing the boundaries of black many times...some ppl are unable to comprehend his complexities, fair enough...but what I really don't understand is the argument that Madhu is a "victim", a "puppet" in the hands of this puppeteer...lol...they both threaten each other in the SAME words...yet it is RK that gets labeled the "abuser"...odd...There is an inherent darkness in this relationship...Madhu has proven time and again that it is that DARKNESS that she is drawn to and fascinated with...that she is masochistic just like RK is for the pain that is part of this relationship...it is a love that makes them bleed and heal in equal parts...and always for EACH OTHER...it is not an idealistic relationship and people looking for idealism in this relationship will never be able to understand it.

If RK was the lone "abuser" "abusing" Madhu in this relationship, Madhu wouldn't be in this relationship...she has been shown clashing with him from day one and hardly ever giving an inch...they are both a constant challenge to each other that they are trying to win...if people here think that RK considers her a "property" then Madhu is no less in her obsession with RK...I guess that is the fundamental point some people are missing...and as Madhu herself very rightly put, other ppl CAN'T understand what RK and Madhu are to each other...it is only these two themselves that can understand that bond b/w them...that desperation for each other, that obsession with each other...it is not a normal, healthy, ideal relationship...but this is their relationship and they know no other way...they are ALIVE when they are with each other.