Episode 168 Discussion: 12th Jan 2013 - Page 5

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

For me TESTING LOVE is not wrong. Some people test you. Its just one demanding aspect of a personality. Itna kya, let me warn you...since you are a mother...your children also may want to test you and you may not even know about it. My sister tested my parents if they love her or not 😆 😆...very silly and strange test it was. We were stunned at the revelation and just open mouthed...but you accept with it like Khatte meethi demands. Because there is a logic + emotion ka tadka in it. That just tells us that the other person can become that much weaker, agar pyar nahin mila... ya phir our expression of love is being not understood properly. .it becomes a lesson for both the parties. There is outrage at being tested, but there is also sympathy for the other that he is so weak as to test. One side of our self-esteem will want to be angry, the other side of our character will invoke our empathy and we will be compassionate to other's insecurities.

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

RK-Dips-Madhu ka Break-up

Finally I hope..we will have the much needed break up between the three regarding seeing them together in same quarters. RK quarters was getting to be habitated by RK and his two women...one a 4-phera Biwi and other Ex-mehbooba. All three hinged together.

Today too in the ending scene..Madhu the wife was walking away from the room, RK the husband was at the threshold of the room and Dipali inside the quarters, just like the time when RK brought Biwi to his quarters when Dipali wanted to spend the night with him in his room, adorning it with all candles, right under the nose of her husband Sikky, who still was inhabiting RK mansion.

• Only RK was clear that who gets to stay in his quarters. He asked his Biwi to stay there and he always used to ask Dipali to get out.
• But Shameless Dipali always used to barge in anytime of the day or night...even when husband and wife were in bed on their first day. Even Patranis or concubines have their own rooms. But never I could believe my eyes that this woman gets away by coming into his room...and shameless she and the inmates of RK...no one wonders or asks what the Bhabhi has to do in the Dewar's room.
• And Madhu the wife when not in love, would just let her aadha adhoora pati to have all conversations with this woman, she would wear her saree when she knew her husband would not like her wearing his ex-flame's saree and she wouldn't even remove that saree when RK asks her to. And when later she fell in love with her husband, even then she was telling RK to treat Dipali with respect and not shoo her away.

Dipali was the worst character and track introduced by CVs to create drama. Seema Mishra must have impressed people with her acting, but her character to the story was plain disgusting and an unfathomable CLUNK to the Story. Because she rendered Rishabh Kundra the socially married person to an almost NAKAARA Napunsak, who couldn't keep the woman away from his quarters. She also rendered Madhu, the wife in love/devotion letting the woman roam around in their quarters freely as if none of it bothers her. Can any woman believe this ? I mean simple question is Ek Mayaan mein Do Talwaaren Kaisi ? Why Madhu would never understand this ?

No matter, how much interesting drama Dipali must have generated, but all of it was PLAIN CLUNK.

CVs,

Please do register this feedback on permanent basis in your book and you RETIRE DIPALI. We don't need a character that just is clunky device. Treat this as a disapprobation for turning a husband and wife into Napunsaks at having been unable to stop her barging into their quarters any time. No amount of RK insecurities and Madhu innocence will actually allow me to overlook the fundamental CLUNK present in the story through Dipali. At real, I don't know how many husbands and wives could tolerate this drama.

Originally posted by: arya.nair

👏👏👏 Agree with you. Its high time to get rid of this woman dipali. I have never seen a vamp as shameless as dipali.

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Thanks.

I am trying to find Twitter address of Sourabh Tiwari. Does anyone have it ?

I posted my feedback on FB, Colors.indotcom and Colors twitter. Need the message to be driven to the CVs. Looking for contact addresses.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

I think, I am dumb emotionally some times but I have had a challenge understanding why testing in love is a bad thing or why what prompted the test should matter?

The fact remains that Madhu herself asked for a test of love which ended up in Rk to propose. The fact remains that Madhu knows that RK has been hurt emotionally several times so he is bound to have trust issues and other emotional baggage. The fact remain Rk has gone out of his way to protect her/her family and indulge her and he just stated that she passed the test with flying colors. Fact remains that Madhu should be aware by now that Dipali is a troublemaker and liar not to mention she wants to break Rishbala apart.

In my mind the only hurtful pieces in the whole scenario are

1)Test implies that RK has been holding a piece of himself back and had retained the capability to walk away if he wanted to while Madhu was a complete goner.

2)RK is not healed completely yet and this implies that he can quickly fall back to distrusting/testing Madhu at the prompting of a third party

3)It is hard for Madhu to discern where the test ended and truth began. Was there any truth in anything RK did or said or felt? Does he feel anything for her or not?

Originally posted by: zoya_naziya

Soundarya, i don't know if am right in having understood what you meant by this statement...

According to me, Rishabh fell in love with Dipali and now the Rishabh inside RK hates her for betraying him... But it's RK who likes Dipali's intelligence and wit.. By bajaoing Dipali, it gives pleasure to both RK and the Rishabh inside RK. Rishabh takes out his khunnas or hatred through RK who loves to play with her... Hope I have made sense and conveyed what I wanted to say properly...

Am continuing my meandering post, before i forget what I have to say, so pls bear with me😉

Besides this is about Madhubala.

If he was in love with Dipali, how could he fall in love with madhu?? Total opposite in nature, innocent, compassionate, strong willed, artless at times, a little less intelligent?? Not really, she is less exposed, less a woman of the world because of her background, pampered and protected...why, because remember her father tried to kill her. She was willing to discontinue her studies and settle down with Mukund. If one thinks of her story, she just took on the role of the good daughter. If we see Trishna now, we can imagine the scenario at home, Trishna always storming off saying noone loves me, and everyone trying to manao her, incl Madhu.

her intelligence is of a different kind...she is extremely perceptive when she wants to be. And quite strong when she wants to be. Rememeber she tells RK- mood ke hisaab se, situation ke hisaab se, she can be whatever she wants to be. And she is also very open about it. She is quite happy otherwise in her own happy world.

RK-Rishabh for her are one and the same, you cannot love one without accepting the other. In fact, I was imagining her love confession along the same lines as RK, explaining to him why she loves Rishabh and why she loves RK...with instances...would have been beautiful no??

She loves RK, raps him sharply when he acts smart, and loves Rishabh, gives in to him, comforts him, supports him when he needs it. Which is what is needed in any relationship, complete acceptance of the person with his kinks, chinks, idiosyncracies.

It is for RK now to accept himself as RK/Rishabh and move on in life with someone who understands both the worlds he inhabits.

This is sort of unrelated and presumptious, but jaya bachchan in all interviews addresses Amitabh Bachchan as Amit. Who else would dare to do that with the legend, the superstar except his wife?? Who else has the right, except his parents, siblings?