Originally posted by: zoya_naziya
Yesterday, in that scene, RK was taunting Dipali that she was a loser on all fronts and has nothing but to crave and wait for her dream life. And he was talking about his success and indirectly her failures. But still, the woman was highly shameless, that she made a move on him provocatively when she was pinned to the wall.It was disgusting. And RK just shirked back and moved away from her...
So even yesterday, despite RK supposedly having the upperhand and he having hit her weak nerve, was still getting bullied.. The CV's need to make RK stronger than her and not cower down in front of her. He needs to stop getting bullied. It's a hit to his manhood in the first place and no man would entertain such things, however insecure they are... Secondly, this doesn't go down well with his powerful persona too.. You don't expect a person like him to let someone , (that someone ditched him for godsake), daunt him.. You're supposed to be vengeful and it has to be shown in his acts.. Ok she might be his bhabhi and for the supposed betterment of his family, he is keeping shut, but still there would be other ways to keep her in check...In the beginning ,I used to think, prolly, he doesn't want to waste his time and energy, as it's completely useless and this woman is going to remain shameless.
But from the time of Dipali's entry till now, her audacity and shamelessness has only increased(even in front of the family, during the daal-chawal nautanki of his or at the time when the jasoos told that she was found in RK's room before this guy fled off to Karjat or when Radha entered the room and RK was shirtless and she said, came to give him milk,mads hadn't even shifted to his room then.. It was abhorring for me!!! Is the family dumb? ) and RK is just being pathetic by being a weakling in front of her.. There has to be growth in RK's character on this front...They can't butcher his character by making Dipali stronger and stronger and him weaker and weaker...
I rest my case here...
P.S: I needed to get this out of my system.. This has been plaguing my mind since y'day night..
The way I see it Dips is a very complicated problem and regardless of what RK/Madhu does she gains. She is aware of that very fact and hence she keeps taking her shamelessness up a notch every single time.
Let us look at the current family equation- Rk does not get along with rest of his family and insults them on a regular basis. Radha does not know or trust her son to a point that she is able to believe every single thing that Dips and Bhatias feed her. She is depending on Madhu to singlehandedly mend that relation but given her weak personality it would not take much for her to become against Madhu specifically if she thinks that Madhu is taking RK away from the family. RK in general is considered a very vindictive and unpredictable personality. His panache for playing mind games and destroying his opponent is well known. In truth RK is a gentleman with immense emotional maturity however his past failures in relationships which he terms as betrayals are his weakness and nemensis. He genuinely wants to move on with Madhu and not cause any angst either to Radha or Bhatias. He wants to forget but not forgive. Madhu is just beginning to know RK, however she is fiercely fillial and righteous and seems to ignore the deep emotional undercurrents. She is quick to judge and believe partly because of her sheltered life until now. Dips is established as good elder daughter-in-law in the household and seems to have influence over Radha. No one seems to be aware of Dips-RK connection from past.
It also seems that Dips is tired of Sikky and wants to get rid of him and pursue RK. Sikky seems to be invested in the relationship though and no one is aware of discord between the couple.
So let us see what Rishbala can do
1)RK can routinely insult Dips and ban her from entering his room-He does that in every episode but Dips is shameless enough to pursue him still. The rest of the family turns a blind eye to his reaction because they think he does that as is his habit with rest of the family. Radha actually lets Dips pursue RK because she thinks that Dips is being a good elder daughter-in-law and is trying to draw RK in family circle despite all the insults. She also thinks that RK might be more responsive to Dips than Radha since he holds no personal grudge gainst Dips. If Madhu gets in this picture- Dips is going to cry foul and blame her for distancing RK from rest of the family. Given how much control she has over Radha, it could create a rift between Radha and Madhu relationship.
2)RK reveals all - To begin with this goes against the grain of his character as this is equivalent of kiss and tell. What does that do? Dips admits and than blames RK for seducing her . With the sort of vindictive image RK has, who is going to believe him that Dips is the shameless one. It breaks Dips-Sikki marraige leaving her to to chase not only a huge divorce settlement but also pursue RK more openly. The issue creates further rift between Bhatias and RK - Radha ends up in an impossible situation where she will end up taking Kuku Bhatia's side. If the news becomes public(Sikki's way of getting back at RK)- Rk is caught in a scandal which might impact his career, Madhu and Maliks are embarrased and pitied, Dips gets get moment in spotlight and an opportunity to jumpstart her career. In all everyone except Dips loses.
3)They can move out- That is exactly what RK is planning on doing. He wants to move out and kill the reason Dip pursues him-his success. But this is a time taking process specifically with the promise he had made to Madhu.
While writers have used Dips as devil on RK's shoulder and Seema Mishra has done an amazing job with her character yet something seems missing. Why has Dips has stepped up pursuing RK so badly now after 5 long years? what does she intend to achieve? She clearly does not want him to believe in love so she is not shooting for a love relationship. Here are couple of choices-
1)She did indeed care for him and wants him back since she never got over him.
2) He is sucessfull and hence a big catch with huge purse
3) She is jealous of Madhu and her influence on RK.
4)She is unable to forgive RK for falling in love and being happy with Madhu, a chawl girl while she the sophisticate has to carry on a sham of a marraige with wimpy Sikki. The idea being if I can't have him no one can.
5)She had always believed that RK would be open to a extramarital affair and would shower her with his love and money even if she was his sister-in-law. If not for love then just to stick it to the Bhatias.
6)She is a sadist who enjoys the gloom and misery around her .She tends to use the sorrow and chaos to increase her power and get her will done.
Edited by dramacrazy12 - 12 years ago
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