Episode 168 Discussion: 12th Jan 2013

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Ananya05

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Going by all ur reviews, Looks like I missed out on an action packed episode. Have read only WU so far. Will watch the epi n comment later.

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hansa22

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: _charu_
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kya Soundarya itna sad song 🥺 cheer up yaa otherwise i'll go into depression n i dun wanna spoil my weekend..see this one..one of my fav..

Kaisa yeh ishq hai...one of my favs too😊

I'm quite happy actually, gaana unke liye tha😆.

I'm happy because now RK will have to work really hard to get madhu back. It's easy when she keeps melting at whatever he says.

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Charu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

ASK HIM why he tested in that manner. As in WHY INVOLVE a THIRD PERSON in their private relationship. Lovers can test each other, so she allowed him...all fair and square in amour (and Madhu is the Beti of another GAMER like Balraj...khoon mein hi hai ---chaudhrain hai woh!), but lovers testing at the prompting of others shall lead to duels ...it used to happen in olden times...Bhai...emotions aaj bhi different nahin...toh ek accha khaasa fight - duel types to banta hai 😆

As to where she should go and vent her anger...may be she will just walk on streets until she calms down...Fresh Air thinking. It HELPS !!!!

All the answers that she will get out of the confrontation will let her decide what she has to do.

sorry for the silly question..but i fail to understand what will be so different if he decided to test her by himself and not dipali's provocation? the idea of "testing your love" will still be wrong , utna hi jitna abhi hai...

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Charu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

Kaisa yeh ishq hai...one of my favs too😊

I'm quite happy actually, gaana unke liye tha😆.

I'm happy because now RK will have to work really hard to get madhu back. It's easy when she keeps melting at whatever he says.

n i'd love to watch him work hard to get Madhu back 😆

Edited by _charu_ - 12 years ago

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MarathiMulgi

@MarathiMulgi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0
On the contrary, I liked it today that RK told us out what he likes in Dips and how he will miss her.

So RK was attracted to Dipali's intelligent mind...the mind games she can induce when she talks in innuendos with a certain classy sense of humour of hers.

So this goes with RK's character...when him had not much to lose or gain...he was attracted to craziness, challenges etc. In very recent times, we have seen him getting attracted to Balraj's crazy but smart ambulance idea ...only to knock senses to his mind...what is he doing with that crazy guy...Its a separate thing how Balraj makes RK get committed to him.

Satisfaction to brain/mind is one important aspect of our overall happiness...without which, we can go crazy or depressed.

So RK likes anything that has a bit of game in it. This is consistent with character trait. I made a long post on my apprehensions about RK's character on this trait and now that he loves Madhu, he needs to curb his desires for gaming. This was on episode where Balraj made his re-entry.

Liked your take on Dipali-RK situation. I agree that when Dipali came into the room, instead of driving her out, he drew her into situation of matching wits. All said and done, she is the only one so far who he can interact with on an intelligent level however good or bad. Given that RK is an intelligent man, he needs that outlet somewhere. His innocent bacchi jaisi biwi is no match for him in this. I am not saying what he is doing is good. I think he just could not resist it, got overconfident and went too far.

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Shridevi Gaddam

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: _charu_

sorry for the silly question..but i fail to understand what will be so different if he decided to test her by himself and not dipali's provocation? the idea of "testing your love" will still be wrong , utna hi jitna abhi hai...

For me TESTING LOVE is not wrong. Some people test you. Its just one demanding aspect of a personality. Itna kya, let me warn you...since you are a mother...your children also may want to test you and you may not even know about it. My sister tested my parents if they love her or not 😆 😆...very silly and strange test it was. We were stunned at the revelation and just open mouthed...but you accept with it like Khatte meethi demands. Because there is a logic + emotion ka tadka in it. That just tells us that the other person can become that much weaker, agar pyar nahin mila... ya phir our expression of love is being not understood properly. .it becomes a lesson for both the parties. There is outrage at being tested, but there is also sympathy for the other that he is so weak as to test. One side of our self-esteem will want to be angry, the other side of our character will invoke our empathy and we will be compassionate to other's insecurities.

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zoya_naziya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Dipali ke paintaron aur jaadu ka hua antim-sanskaar!!!

The episode was fabulous today:)

RK-Madhu scene: I loved yesterday's episode RK-Madhu scene. Got to see RK stuttering and stammering in front of his Biwi and his keenness to know Madhu's opinion of the reel romantic scene(though indirectly,tedha jo hai) she witnessed. And finally she tells him that she understands its his work and that he should go ahead with it..

Madhu-Trishna and Chawl dance: It was a happy reunion for the two sisters. Nothing remembered, but the assumed khushiyon ki bahaar in their lives.. The dance was good and Madhu's patiala costume was quite better than the tacky anarkalis she is wearing of late..

Then comes the two parallel confrontation scenes- Trish-Roma at the chawl and RK-Dipz in RK's dharamshala oops room..

Trish tells that the money is for the film offer she has received and Roma refuses to believe. Trish wards off the producer-related ques that Roma asks her by saying some new producer and finally Trish gets angry and asks her as to why she thinks that she is capable of only bad and walks away in a huff.

RK-Dipz scene was as usual fabulous. Dipz was at her best, playing her usual old tricks(love in his life, his only weak point) that have worked till date. But today, RK shut her up and started flushing out the zeher in his heart, he had for her w.r.t. the love angle. For the first time, he tells her that she has lost him five years back and the intezaar in his life yielded him the best fruit. It was too good to see a fearful and horrified Dipali when she knows that she has lost the battle she has been successfully waging for five years and that she can no longer unnerve him. And the evil laugh and the smirk when she realized Madhu has overheard their convo was just too good. But am sure that laugh would turn out to be hollow in the coming days. She is such a sadist and I can't believe that she claimed to love RK once. Hopefully this is the much needed and most awaited Dipali closure in his life!!!

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dramacrazy12

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: _charu_

sorry for the silly question..but i fail to understand what will be so different if he decided to test her by himself and not dipali's provocation? the idea of "testing your love" will still be wrong , utna hi jitna abhi hai...

I think, I am dumb emotionally some times but I have had a challenge understanding why testing in love is a bad thing or why what prompted the test should matter?

The fact remains that Madhu herself asked for a test of love which ended up in Rk to propose. The fact remains that Madhu knows that RK has been hurt emotionally several times so he is bound to have trust issues and other emotional baggage. The fact remain Rk has gone out of his way to protect her/her family and indulge her and he just stated that she passed the test with flying colors. Fact remains that Madhu should be aware by now that Dipali is a troublemaker and liar not to mention she wants to break Rishbala apart.

In my mind the only hurtful pieces in the whole scenario are

1)Test implies that RK has been holding a piece of himself back and had retained the capability to walk away if he wanted to while Madhu was a complete goner.

2)RK is not healed completely yet and this implies that he can quickly fall back to distrusting/testing Madhu at the prompting of a third party

3)It is hard for Madhu to discern where the test ended and truth began. Was there any truth in anything RK did or said or felt? Does he feel anything for her or not?

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Shridevi Gaddam

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

I think, I am dumb emotionally some times but I have had a challenge understanding why testing in love is a bad thing or why what prompted the test should matter?

The fact remains that Madhu herself asked for a test of love which ended up in Rk to propose. The fact remains that Madhu knows that RK has been hurt emotionally several times so he is bound to have trust issues and other emotional baggage. The fact remain Rk has gone out of his way to protect her/her family and indulge her and he just stated that she passed the test with flying colors. Fact remains that Madhu should be aware by now that Dipali is a troublemaker and liar not to mention she wants to break Rishbala apart.

In my mind the only hurtful pieces in the whole scenario are
1)Test implies that RK has been holding a piece of himself back and had retained the capability to walk away if he wanted to while Madhu was a complete goner.
2)RK is not healed completely yet and this implies that he can quickly fall back to distrusting/testing Madhu at the prompting of a third party
3)It is hard for Madhu to discern where the test ended and truth began. Was there any truth in anything RK did or said or felt? Does he feel anything for her or not?

Puja,

EXCELLANT ARTICULATION !!!! 👏

I AM of the same mind. I couldn't express it so succintly.

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apolloartemis

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Good epi today!😆

Poor Madhu! She feels on top of the world- mom happy, dad happy, patched up with sis, about to go lord knows where with hubby- all is good in Madhuland!

And then- Dips opens her mouth and adopts the avatar of Godzilla, trampling over her happiness (well, I guess RK would be Godzilla in this scenario😆)

Like I said, only Rishbala are capable of hurting each other so much. So I can see why Madhu won't forgive him easily- she made him to center of her world, and was willing to leave everything behind for him. To know it was all a test, to know he doubted her love, and more importantly, her character- that has to hurt a lot. Even moreso coming from her first and only love.

Ah, RK- this is what happens if you let yourself be instigated. You wanted Dips to burn in her remorse and impotent rage...but as Balraj's mom says- if you use fire, you yourself are burned as well. Only in this case, you set fire to you and Madhu's rista. She's a chaudrahin-forgiveness will not be easy and your relationship will not be the same. The innocence she had, that charecterized your rishta-that will never come back.

But perhaps that is for the best. I'd like to think of Rishbala's relationship as one akin to a tree that needs a forest fire to scrouge it to rise again-better, stronger and greener.

So in the end, the relationship will endure and be better of for it. Rishbala will be bruised and battered-but not beaten.

And on a happy note, the Dips-RK relationship is finally over- her final hold over him is gone! Huzzah!!