Rishbala - Their first photo, and its symbolism_ - Page 4

Your post gives food for thought.

Of course, like most people here, I too think it's a poorly shot pic, obviously photo-shopped.

However, there must be some reason why the 'wise' cvs chose that picture above all others. I would have thought that the beautiful one taken off screen at the KC shoot would have been more suitable.

As I said, the cvs must have had some reason to choose that one above all else...don't want to think of it as sheer carelessness on their part.


I agree that the pic seems to indicate the unwavering focus of RK on his wife to the exclusion of all else, though why he should look at her sideways beats me.😆

And Madhu's downward bent eyes could be shyness (at RK's sly glance) and the fact that her life encompasses all her near and dear, the major part of which is her husband.

Maybe this fact will cause further trouble in their lives as you said.

As for Radha..she keeps referring to Kukku as RK's father to justify marrying him in the first place...what she didn't get and never will is that RK never wanted a replacement father.

Maybe, he'll find what he's looking for in Shamsher one day.

Hii Leela..love your posts dear..awesome🤗

Originally posted by: hifzaa

great post leela

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Leela,

I found the photo very weird.

Not weird that it was made to be presented by Radhaji to Madhu. All the weirdness about it has been targeted towards Radhaji's incompetence though. Infact that very obvious and easy target made me ignore the photo completely.

So what was wierd for me ? Who in the right sense, a photographer at real or the production crew, how would they justify that photo to average viewer ? A Photo is Photo. And two people, love no love, hate no hate, they just need to photographed to fit the frame, to go by dimensions.

Hence I would totally discard the photo gifting as something significant other than to serve the purpose of being instrumental in Madhu's fall and aiding the allaying of misunderstanding for her husband.

However as you say...the pic has RK looking at Madhu...This at best I can only credit with unconventional characteristic for RK. In MBVerse or RK world, by rule, everything about RK has to be unconventional and hence an ordinary Pati-Patni ka joda picture is unconventional. This is the simplest an ordinary viewer can understand and which will make sense to him.

Symbolism or meaning ...everything makes sense as ordinary people understand. The flat statement anyone can make here is that the photo is as weird as the couple in question, trying to build the relationship, brought in so soon as hunky-dory and to be framed in Hall of Fame by a dunce of a mother and Mother-In-Law, aiding in a scene to be finished.

To me it is as wierd from the Creatives as Madhu wearing Dipali's saree. Mistakes. Errors of Overlook that are gross and grotesque

Originally posted by: lakshmi_pai

i think that photo was given as a gift just for a humour dialogue from rk and his biwwwiii...i loved it but madhu is looking so dull and rk is eyeing his biwwiii...i was just laughing seeing that picture ...still laughing...

hw much unique the show that much unique the ideas and their antiques...

my reasons for radhaji presenting that pic...

1) radhaji didnt get any gud pic😊

2) rk will hang another great pic in which he looks damn handsome...😉.

3) for making him realise that once upon a tym u were shot and madhu helped u at that tym 😃

4) to be careful to lock the door .😆...patha nahi kab photographer aakar click karega...😉

Originally posted by: leelaa9

'Rishbala - Their first photo, and its symbolism of the couple'.

That framed photo of RK and Madhu, presented by Radha to Madhu in ep 18th Dec. 2012 (Tuesday), belonged firmly in the realm of blooperdom as to provenance.😛 (Never saw a photographer at the 'jagraataa'.😕)

In quality, occasion and timing, it was lacking. As to symbolism and meaning, however, that the photo was rich with.😳

The couple - in the direction each faced and their gazes - held almost a mirror of their relationship in its attitude complexity.😊

RK sees Madhu and nothing else, and has no care in letting her know she is his focus.😳

Madhu does not look at him.😕 She worships him😳, but she will knowingly and unknowingly through her conduct and decisions give him cause many times in life to doubt whether she loves or values him.

Considering their characters, it would have been better if the poses had been the other way round.

Madhu can maintain their relationship and her feelings even in doubt of his reciprocation at any point.😊 Love and devotion to the point of absolute samarpan combined with resolve is a formidable force.😳

But RK needs her focus to be on him, and she will never make that sufficiently clear to ensure smooth sailing for their relationship.

He *is* what matters to her above all else when push comes to shove😳, but she will always allow herself to get distracted by causes and other worries to that point, to the detriment of his feeling himself deprioritized.😕

RK is someone who doesn't tell the how and why of being hurt while the hurt can be stopped and dealt with, and Madhu is someone who - even knowing this facet of her husband - doesn't try to find out if something is wrong until the explosion has already happened and she's standing in the rubble needing to rebuild.

If she sees he is upset, she wants it to be about nothing much, and that's exactly how she treats it instead of sneakily prying where it's *actually* needed.😕

And then she gets convinced by other people to do things that she is persuaded are 'to his benefit' or 'have nothing much to do with him'.😕😡

And it turns out that every such thing she's persuaded to do carefully slices open yet another wound of his and gently salts it.

I found it so cheering when Madhu finally stopped being respectful and pushed around, and instead grabbed Dipali by the arm and unapologetically threatened her.😃

Will we ever have such a happy day when Madhu tears off Radha's self-delusion veil of "I've always been a good mother, my second husband is a wonderful stepfather, and it's my son Rishabh who is bad (though he does provide my family with every luxury, it's his duty as my and Kukkuji's son)."?😡🤢

How many times by now has Radha referred to Kukku as RK's father while speaking about the two of them?😡

If only Madhu would keep her focus on her husband, reciprocating his focus on her, she would not be misguided into gullible blunders by the many dear relatives in her sasuraal and maayka.

If a situation is *truly* end-of-the-world, Padmini or Shamsher will let her know if they truly can't deal with it.😊

But until that point, Madhu needs to stop rushing around trying to make everything right for everyone - because with the exception of Padmini and Shamsher, not one other person of the carnival of Bhatia and Mallick families has ever truly felt any gratitude or appreciation for the extent she gets hurt for and by them.

Nice post, Leela..

I wish the photo had been more realistic... It looked like a bad case of photoshop.. But as pippa mentioned, I also feel that the CVs wont have given this particular pose for the couple if it didnt have any significance...

I agree with you about Radunce.. One cant trust her character.. Radha is easily influenced.. As long as she doesnt get back her son, she will sing Madhu's praises.. But once she does, who knows how she will be? Otherwise its nice to see the mil-dil bonding..

nice oe Leele..symbolism has to be there otherwise don't the CV's know how a couple photograph is ? a layman can also tell ke it's not okay

Originally posted by: devikamd

Nice post Leela...!!

But i just found the pic weird...!😕

Originally posted by: nehakariba

nice analysis
agree with ur symbolism