Episode 140 Discussion: 6th Dec 2012 - Page 4

Originally posted by: apolloartemis

Ah Shri, a visit to IF is not complete unless I read your posts.😊

Re you point about their different thinking- agree completely. They are two people who have the same core personas but have lived very different lives- so naturally their reactions, their thoughts, their very understanding of the ties that bind them are different. But, at the same time, what gives me hope that Madhu will eventually fully understand her husband is the fact that she is so similar to him- not by becoming Lady RK, but by understanding RK. Did that make sense? It did in my head, I don't know how well it translated into writing.😕

And didn't you just love how she answered Diputz. Classy yet cutting. Showing her growth, but retaning her inner Madhuness (a word I just made up right now😆 because nothing else fits).

And no more bhabhi! Yayy!

@Shri beautiful post, and I agree with it completely. You have explained today's episode so beautifully.

RK's reaction did not shock me as much. To be honest, I would have been stunned if he accepted the food and allowed Madhu to feed him; that is not RK at all. Today his anger towards her was actually his love and concern for her. I loved the last scene between them; it actually provided me with a better understanding of his character rather than dislike for him.

Madhu's reaction was expected to be as such. I have always labeled her as a "fixer" and her actions so far has proved me right in naming her. Today her restlessness to express her love for RK was just a pure joy to witness. She indeed has a heart filled with unlimited warmth and softness.

I'm really excited to watch their life journey together. Their love and passion discovery will be emotional as well blissful. I'm totally convinced that there won't be any dull moment in this love story.

Originally posted by: himbin

SD,

Agree with you word to word...Beautifully explained...Madhu is in Love and she wanted to live that feeling,express it if only for herself,feel it and do something for it...KC presented itself as an opportunity for her to do all that...RK sees it from Marriage POV where as Madhu does it all in her Love...I would repeat myself here and say RK is a guy who cares for the intent and not the outcome...so,when he understands what's driving Madhu into doing all this not caring for her health ,he would be deeply touched...her ishq is going to fuel his junoon even more...Though Madhu comes up as a conservative,naive girl she thinks in a very elevated,abstract and deeper level...She wanted the sargi not as a customary requirement but,as she considered it a blessing...I would say RK doesn't know his wife fully yet...she is not one who goes about asking..She only gives and there by earns her rights...the basic difference between Madhu and RK though both live for love and honesty is just this...Madhu can accept and understand tainted human emotions as in Radhaji's or RK's (with his obsessiveness) where as RK can only understand the most pure and honest feelings...Madhu is very patient and idealistic in her understanding of people where as RK is idealistic in his expectations and very unforgiving.. .Hence, I feel Madhu is like a bridge that connects RK with Rishab and Rishab with the outside world by bringing in that much needed stability to his emotions and broaden his understanding to human weaknesses ...

As you say both are true to themselves...both thinking from different planes and acting out (not for themselves but,for the other) hence,the conflict...I would say RK still has as much to learn about Madhu as Madhu had to about her hubby...😊

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

I have no comments to make on the episode (havent watched it.)

But I am angry at RK for throwing away the food.. Granted he is concerned for her, but he should have atleast appreciated that she cooked for him even when she was weak and told her nicely that he doesnt like it. But I forget RK isnt 'nice'. 😡 But throwing it away was too much for me.. He gave no thought to her feelings, only to his.

PS. I personally would welcome a hubby who doesnt expect me to cook for him.. Infact I would love one like that except he should not have the baggage that RK always carries with him.. 😆

My post: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/madhubala-ek-ishq-ek-junoon/3331139/wackinessunlimited-of-bags-and-baggage

Originally posted by: zoya_naziya

The true RK was BACK!!!

Madhu, I guess was carried away into her own delusional world by the sweet RK behavior in the morning which gave her so high hopes that she planned to confess her love for him and he burst the bubble and brought her back to reality...

That entire scene where she contemplates on how to confess was done very neatly, nicely and kinda cute too with she chatting with an imaginary RK who was being in his character... But I fail to understand and connect with Madhu at times like this when she goes off tangent... She herself voiced out about RK that "tedha hai par mera hai" and yet she follows the conventional route "insaan ke dil tak ka raasta uske pet se hota hai" and "a love letter"!!

RK was clearly frustrated that the Bhatias(Dipz) had poisoned her food, yet he didn't have the strong evidence to frame her and so he just leaves the place and actually appoints a Mushtanda in black for each of the scheming Bhatias...

He was already irritated with the events from yesterday's KC drama and then this food- poisoning drama... To top it all, Madhu commits a stupidity... And as usual, he takes out all his pent-up frustration on her... Uska dimaag jitna kharab hona bardasht kar sakta tha, woh kar chuka tha and madhu's act was the last straw and just like the party incident where again he took out his anger on her, he did today too... The only difference was, that day it was unacceptable and today he gave her a piece of his own mind, so that she understands him... Am sure, he would so sth to make her feel better as usual...

Thank God, Madhu standing upto Dipz was not a one-off thing and she is maintaining giving back to Dipz:):)

Radha finally earned some brownie point from me by saying whatever she said to Dipz...

And Zoe, our much-awaited, most exciting Rads-Madhu apology scenewas shown in the precap !!! Can't wait to watch it!!!😡

Zoya, especially loved that corrosive sarcasm in your last para.👏

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Peach you will love Bittuji's comments 😆 especially the last one...Chief, I will go out to see what happened to the electric pole...like last time when RK asks him subtly to get out as he has to talk to Madhu in pvt. RK says the same thing and Bittuji remembered. 🤣

I know.. I love love Bittuji.. I suspect I wouldnt like the character so much if some one else had played him.. Indresh is perfect for that- Golu Molu and his antics- hilarious.. Esp his dance.. 🤣

Please make sure to check out my post on the same tonight in my blog- might be late tonight..

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Hima,

@bold 1

I just don't understand why you doubt your writing skills. 😆 Infact, I always like your articulation.

@bold2

While you spoke on RK that he needs to be forgiving and understanding, let us not forget that Madhu needs to set an example of honesty through her love and understanding as well. By repeatedly being closer to RK's mother, she is repeatedly hurting RK. RK has been overlooking that, but there are always moments for him where he cannot forgive that, because Madhu is that obtuse. Where Madhu fails is, she is all goody -goody with Radhaji, never ever we are shown her asking, Maa aapne ye kaisa socha, maa ye aapne kyon kiya. The writers are waiting for a proper time to open this track when Madhu starts dealing with RAdunce. Tomorrow is another such D Day where RK will be super upset and have another session at the two women's cuddling. But slowly this Rads needs to be redeemed in truer fashion...if they have to show that MAdhu is capable of beating sense into people through her love.

I know one thing...Shiva and Parvati ...Epitome of Love. And they see all and know all. They are able to explain, but when bardashth ke baahar ho jaata hai, they become Rudra...to destroy everything. Sometimes Shiva pacifies Parvati, and at times she is there to pacify him. Loving without knowing the meaning of it is going to be dangerous.

Forgive me if I am misunderstanding what you're trying to say here. You are saying that Madhu is inflicting hurt on RK by bonding with Radhaji. I am no fan of Radhaji, but she has her own share of troubles. Nobody knows what her circumstances were when she remarried. If she really thought she would be providing a fatherless kid with a father figure, then she truly is a dunce. Her son shared a deep bond with his father and she, more than anyone else, should know that he was irreplaceable for 'Rishu'. But I digress.

Madhu found her first and sole supporter in an alien household in her mother-in-law. When she was brought into the house, she was told that she was the ninth servant in the household. After RKs repeated insults, she finally managed to strike a bond with him, and now she loves him deeply. I am not sure that is enough cause for her to cut off every bond with the person who first cared for her in the house. Radhaji is truly only dumb. She is neither mean nor malicious. RKs grouse against her is that she remarried. God alone knows why she remarried...what her reasons (other than the ones she professes) were. By constantly inflicting hurt on Radhaji, RK is holding on to his demons. If he is so practical and sorted, then he should know that dead people do not return, there is no point alienating the people who love you for what you are, and that the past is gone and holding on to it means devaluing the present.

Madhu, who is very much present in the present, knows and acknowledges her love for her husband. She knows the man she married and man she loves are foils to each other. So, she is on treacherous ground...only to the extent that RKs reactions are unpredictable. She will deal with it, but I suppose, in the first flush of love, had forgotten that he has little use for show and tell. Tomorrow, as is famously said, is another day.

Sorry to intrude, but could not resist.

Originally posted by: AllThingsNice

Forgive me if I am misunderstanding what you're trying to say here. You are saying that Madhu is inflicting hurt on RK by bonding with Radhaji. I am no fan of Radhaji, but she has her own share of troubles. Nobody knows what her circumstances were when she remarried. If she really thought she would be providing a fatherless kid with a father figure, then she truly is a dunce. Her son shared a deep bond with his father and she, more than anyone else, should know that he was irreplaceable for 'Rishu'. But I digress.

Madhu found her first and sole supporter in an alien household in her mother-in-law. When she was brought into the house, she was told that she was the ninth servant in the household. After RKs repeated insults, she finally managed to strike a bond with him, and now she loves him deeply. I am not sure that is enough cause for her to cut off every bond with the person who first cared for her in the house. Radhaji is truly only dumb. She is neither mean nor malicious. RKs grouse against her is that she remarried. God alone knows why she remarried...what her reasons (other than the ones she professes) were. By constantly inflicting hurt on Radhaji, RK is holding on to his demons. If he is so practical and sorted, then he should know that dead people do not return, there is no point alienating the people who love you for what you are, and that the past is gone and holding on to it means devaluing the present.

Madhu, who is very much present in the present, knows and acknowledges her love for her husband. She knows the man she married and man she loves are foils to each other. So, she is on treacherous ground...only to the extent that RKs reactions are unpredictable. She will deal with it, but I suppose, in the first flush of love, had forgotten that he has little use for show and tell. Tomorrow, as is famously said, is another day.

Sorry to intrude, but could not resist.