Episode 140 Discussion: 6th Dec 2012 - Page 3

Originally posted by: himbin

RK's reaction was totally unexpected...It stemmed from his concern for her well being and anger at

her foolishness in following all those rituals by pushing her health too far...the extent to which she went to get sargi there by falling sick must have fueled his anger too...I have a feeling that RK might chance up on that letter...until now he only knows that Madhu took him as her husband and hence wanted to fulfill KC but,when he gets to know that she also loves him and how deeply she feels for him he is sure going to be affected and that could be why he tries to make it up for Madhu by decorating the set...

Madhu's imaginations of RK while writing the letter were cute...even in those imaginations she was seeking help and guidance from RK...shows how much she values and admires his thinking...also shows how much she craves for his approval...he indeed is khazi and maula for her...

madhu's answering back Deepali was good... surveillance on the threesome...does it yield anything..?or is it just for comic relief..??

I have no comments to make on the episode (havent watched it.)

But I am angry at RK for throwing away the food.. Granted he is concerned for her, but he should have atleast appreciated that she cooked for him even when she was weak and told her nicely that he doesnt like it. But I forget RK isnt 'nice'. 😡 But throwing it away was too much for me.. He gave no thought to her feelings, only to his.

PS. I personally would welcome a hubby who doesnt expect me to cook for him.. Infact I would love one like that except he should not have the baggage that RK always carries with him.. 😆

My post: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/madhubala-ek-ishq-ek-junoon/3331139/wackinessunlimited-of-bags-and-baggage

Originally posted by: apolloartemis

And today RK demonstrates why his and Madhu's love story is indeed a unique one. He hurts her, on purpose, not because he hates her (which is the standard response when a husband does something like this in other seriels), but because he hates that fact that she places rituals above her own wellbeing. More importantly, in his eyes, she places these rituals above him. To RK, he told Madhu that the KC vrat was nothing she should do because it was not something he believed in. She did it anyway. He does not know, like we do, that she was willing to forgo the fast if he had asked her to stay that morning.So for him, the whole fasting tradition was something Madhu placed above her husband's wishes. His care for her was such that he came for her anyway, overcoming his ego. And yet, when she persists in what he sees as foolishness, his anger, which has his roots in his concern, comes roaring out.

That concern, which is tinged with fear (he keeps reiterating the fact that she was sick, that she still looks unhealty, that she had food poisoning etc), is what made him so harsh today. And unknowingly, the hurt he inflicted was far worse that anything she had endured up till that point. The emotional pain he left Madhu in far eclipsed the pain that came from the food poisoning, because this pain will linger.

On the other hand, Madhu needed this check. Her husband is not like others. I don't blame the poor girl- she's in love for the first time, and the love of her life is a box full of crazy. How do you handle someone like that when you're so infatuated with them? I have full confidence that she'll learn quickly, but better she knows that its a path full of thorns from the beginning, rather than in the middle. I also liked that he was so sarcastic in her imagination- she has his core personality down, she just needs to fully open her eyes to how he is all the time. Just because he's softer towards her, does not mean that he is soft, and he can revert to his self-defense mechanisms at the touch of a button. Luckily, when it comes to him, she has the patience of a saint, and a fairly large masochistic steak. So she'll stick around, and it'll be a long, hard, bumpy ride.

I loved that she talked back to Diputz without sinking to her level- the smirk on her face the entire time- she was a class above Diputz. And yes! No going back to Bhabhi. Huzzah!

Also, last note in this mess of rambling: She threating her imagination with a poisoned apple if it insults RK? How very Chaudrahin of you Madhu. I'm sure somewhere Biodad is feeling proud.

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Madhu Marriage per My rules, But this is about My Love for you RK

Now those who were upset with my B+... 🤣 Sweet and temporary RK is gone! and Real RK is back ! I totally agree with his anger. But at the same time I forgive Madhu's forgetfulness about her health condition and in her semi conscious state of mind, she garners all the energy to dress up for him and cook for him. She was being truthful to herself and him, like RK was being truthful to himself and her. Uff!!! This difference of timing over their mental planes...Tauba jaan le legi ek doosre ki !!!!

There was total Shringar rasa from both ends...Madhu's was the sweet sight, RK's was all about care and responsibilty for his wife that none of it repeats again. They are now both like the two pole stars... quite opposite, although each is burning himself for the other, the other is unable to see the shine. This sort of love is called mismatched love...not compatible kind, but called destined love...blessed in the universe, though not much of fruitful for human conditions...unless the partners go through a lot of mutual adjustments for the benefit of partnership.

Now this episode is A. 👏 Beautiful rendition of foreground (Rishbala) and background (Bhatias + Bittuji). I am just amazed at what they wove. The design is just beautiful.

The resolute RK by the end of his investigation is all steeled and hardened once again. Gone is the sweet RK in his Biwi's company in the room. Gosh! Bittuji was asking, why Chief, you don't let happiness come near you ? And we get the answer here. Why he has to shun...because the moment he closes his eyes and thinks everything is fine, mayhem is not far behind. He needed to concentrate and work on new POA (Plan of action) and cancels all appointments. Ridiculous it looks, but he employed security gaurds to monitor the "three Chindi Chor".

Madhu, is the self-declared Deewani now. She is goner, we know and she knows. She was fed with more of ambrosia by RK himself in the morning when he took care of her, pushing the girl into an abyss. Well ! this is abyss...she will soon climb out of the abyss...by and by. The abyss that I am talking is about her taking trips into her mental labyrinth and imagining walks and chats with RK. At least she has resolved to tell him that she loves him. With such a great effort she wrote the letter. And he made nothing of it, with reality check. Madhu did not deserve it. And yet she deserved it when she used the customary practices to please him. Like ...dil ka rasta pet se hoke jaata hai.

RK yet again reminded her that this is RK, who is unconventional, because he has waded through the burning fire of all the conventions and had got burned. And if Madhu wants to reach him, she better merit it and not just ask for it. I know Madhu doesn't deserve any of that lecture...but she needs to heed to him. The man, her husband did not for no reason marry her and then decided not to come to Karva Chauth ka vrat. He is self-declared dissenter against established religion promoted bigotry. She saw his attitude in Ganesh Festival, knew he made up with his Ganesha through asking of punishment for him equal to death, then how could she have not deeply thought of his hate for sham around KC festival. God! The man exactly worded the same thoughts around sham the way I feel about that festival...materialistic and commercialized festival, fast one day and prune hubby's purse for a necklace, a saree etc. This is what majority of the population does. No doubt about that. Madhu is all upset. She understands him rationally, but that is not her image for whose kind RK is puking out his venom. He leaves her heart-broken.

I know I was so UP with Madhu that if she goes for KC, then she is pretty much telling RK that she wants her wifey rights. And yes, like I thought and as Madhu thought, he did honour her wish by coming. However this seriousness about "Izzat maangi nahin jaati, kamaaii jaati hai" is all about his condition clearly stated to her now. If you want rights from me, you better merit them from me. He has made it clear to her, yet again; with proper explanation, that these are ground rules and choice is hers to follow. He is all about marriage and She is all about her love for him. How much disparate thinking !!! Until these two bridge the gap in their understanding, they would have some unpleasant undercurrents again...unless they put aside their thoughts and are not back to sleeping on the same bed.

Sorry, the videos I watched are now showing up...so I could not note some very meaningful lines for today's review. Today's episode is very Complex in Structure. I hope folks could understand it in its depth. I just have to say, against this new juxtaposition they have, it would be a new game for us to watch them where they go from here. It would be like this I feel...Madhu Marriage mere rules par, you will have to merit me, you need to take care of yourself, I cannot stand it when you look pale like this, Stop the nonsense about serving husband, what if I don't live upto your expectations, what if God has planned something else ? Why can't you just be normal and not showy ? But this is all about my Love for you RK. I want to do things for you. I am prepared to fight with God for you. I don't care what happens to me, but you will see that I deserve you. Yeh meraa waada hai tumse. 😊

Asides:

The Bhatia clan and Bittuji-bodygaurds scenes were good. Entertaining.

Originally posted by: souhaila

I am tollaly speecless fot today's episode...

I want talk allot about madhu's imagention scene it was cute and again showed what RK means to hear.. i just love that she always imagens him the way he is.. she doesnt change him a bit she loves him the way he is... Poor girl she is trully madly in love with RK like he calles her..childlike if her love is like that...childlike so pure and inniciont..

deepali and madhu scene... I just love madhu's mouth fond the zipper to open this days.. i guess the moment when madhu's stopped respecting her what makes her use her smart gifted mouth.. good...

Now to the big moment... madhu makes food letter is on the plate and goes to feed her pattie his fav food... WOOOW Dont get me wrong but i woudnt want it diffrent...

This is RK.. Yess he was the one showing up for the KC rituals... He stood there not because he wanted to he went for her.. because her faith and her trust that killed him...Even back then he was worried..

So why would he react indiffrent..

He was angry because the same rituals didnt safe his father back then.. And now because the same rituals his wife yes he has totally exepted her that way got very sick and she isnt even giving him time to care for her.. he was worried sick we all saw that... she isnt giving herself any space to rest and again goes cooking dinner for him..you want him to clap?? RK is a emotioneel persoon has his own way to deal with his feeling.. I think even when he was scolding her he was scolding himself..

Well that was what felt seeing his outburst hope it makes some sens..

precap...mommy back in action lets see how it turns out with rk in the scene..woow allready friday tommorow... crying allready

(sorry for any writting mistakes)

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Sohaila,

Agree.

@bold. Would like to add.

He is angry that he didn't realize that people can poison his wife's food in their hate for her, will leave her to faint and go to eat by themselves. Day 1 he yelled at his mom...because a corner of his heart still calls her as his mother. it was like...How could you go so low ? Day 2, he gets to know the conspiracy. His mind is already weighed down by practical stuff...equivalent to thinking of her heath and not be any cause of death of her...so he is weighing everything in terms of life and death of Madhu and...lo...there he sees Madhu in a La La land totally oblivious to everything. Per him, she had not an ounce of respect for her body and health condition and here he is mortified of what happened to her and has set aside everything of his work for the day for her to make permanent arrangements for her ...He just couldn't control his anger and went ballistic.

yes, it was emotional moment for him and bhadaas poora Madhu pe nikala jo jad bhi thi saari nautanki ki. And I am sure somewhere he is at least at peace that she kept that fast and he got to know Bhatia's plans for his Biwi. It was like Wake Up RK !!!!

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Madhu Marriage per My rules, But this is about My Love for you RK

Now those who were upset with my B+... 🤣 Sweet and temporary RK is gone! and Real RK is back ! I totally agree with his anger. But at the same time I forgive Madhu's forgetfulness about her health condition and in her semi conscious state of mind, she garners all the energy to dress up for him and cook for him. She was being truthful to herself and him, like RK was being truthful to himself and her. Uff!!! This difference of timing over their mental planes...Tauba jaan le legi ek doosre ki !!!!

There was total Shringar rasa from both ends...Madhu's was the sweet sight, RK's was all about care and responsibilty for his wife that none of it repeats again. They are now both like the two pole stars... quite opposite, although each is burning himself for the other, the other is unable to see the shine. This sort of love is called mismatched love...not compatible kind, but called destined love...blessed in the universe, though not much of fruitful for human conditions...unless the partners go through a lot of mutual adjustments for the benefit of partnership.

Now this episode is A. 👏 Beautiful rendition of foreground (Rishbala) and background (Bhatias + Bittuji). I am just amazed at what they wove. The design is just beautiful.

The resolute RK by the end of his investigation is all steeled and hardened once again. Gone is the sweet RK in his Biwi's company in the room. Gosh! Bittuji was asking, why Chief, you don't let happiness come near you ? And we get the answer here. Why he has to shun...because the moment he closes his eyes and thinks everything is fine, mayhem is not far behind. He needed to concentrate and work on new POA (Plan of action) and cancels all appointments. Ridiculous it looks, but he employed security gaurds to monitor the "three Chindi Chor".

Madhu, is the self-declared Deewani now. She is goner, we know and she knows. She was fed with more of ambrosia by RK himself in the morning when he took care of her, pushing the girl into an abyss. Well ! this is abyss...she will soon climb out of the abyss...by and by. The abyss that I am talking is about her taking trips into her mental labyrinth and imagining walks and chats with RK. At least she has resolved to tell him that she loves him. With such a great effort she wrote the letter. And he made nothing of it, with reality check. Madhu did not deserve it. And yet she deserved it when she used the customary practices to please him. Like ...dil ka rasta pet se hoke jaata hai.

RK yet again reminded her that this is RK, who is unconventional, because he has waded through the burning fire of all the conventions and had got burned. And if Madhu wants to reach him, she better merit it and not just ask for it. I know Madhu doesn't deserve any of that lecture...but she needs to heed to him. The man, her husband did not for no reason marry her and then decided not to come to Karva Chauth ka vrat. He is self-declared dissenter against established religion promoted bigotry. She saw his attitude in Ganesh Festival, knew he made up with his Ganesha through asking of punishment for him equal to death, then how could she have not deeply thought of his hate for sham around KC festival. God! The man exactly worded the same thoughts around sham the way I feel about that festival...materialistic and commercialized festival, fast one day and prune hubby's purse for a necklace, a saree etc. This is what majority of the population does. No doubt about that. Madhu is all upset. She understands him rationally, but that is not her image for whose kind RK is puking out his venom. He leaves her heart-broken.

I know I was so UP with Madhu that if she goes for KC, then she is pretty much telling RK that she wants her wifey rights. And yes, like I thought and as Madhu thought, he did honour her wish by coming. However this seriousness about "Izzat maangi nahin jaati, kamaaii jaati hai" is all about his condition clearly stated to her now. If you want rights from me, you better merit them from me. He has made it clear to her, yet again; with proper explanation, that these are ground rules and choice is hers to follow. He is all about marriage and She is all about her love for him. How much disparate thinking !!! Until these two bridge the gap in their understanding, they would have some unpleasant undercurrents again...unless they put aside their thoughts and are not back to sleeping on the same bed.

Sorry, the videos I watched are now showing up...so I could not note some very meaningful lines for today's review. Today's episode is very Complex in Structure. I hope folks could understand it in its depth. I just have to say, against this new juxtaposition they have, it would be a new game for us to watch them where they go from here. It would be like this I feel...Madhu Marriage mere rules par, you will have to merit me, you need to take care of yourself, I cannot stand it when you look pale like this, Stop the nonsense about serving husband, what if I don't live upto your expectations, what if God has planned something else ? Why can't you just be normal and not showy ? But this is all about my Love for you RK. I want to do things for you. I am prepared to fight with God for you. I don't care what happens to me, but you will see that I deserve you. Yeh meraa waada hai tumse. 😊

Asides:

The Bhatia clan and Bittuji-bodygaurds scenes were good. Entertaining.