Episode 140 Discussion: 6th Dec 2012 - Page 14

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

@others: The world doesnt consist of chawl people.. Do you think they will be as understanding? No...

@RK taunting Pads: He stopped his taunting bcos he has learned to respect Pads, and bcos of his feelings for Madhu.. If it is bcos he knows the situation, and acts accordingly, why does he still keep taunting his mother about her marriage? He knows the situation re. Kuku.. He knows how manipulation Kuku is.. He will stop taunting his mother only when she learns to stand up to him.. See how he listened to him abt the party scenario..

Originally posted by: HopelessLove

@others: why does it matter what OTHERS think??? Did Paddy think of others when she ran away from her husband??? No. Did she think of others when she accepted Malik's help and lived in his house? No. Then now, WHY should it matter what others think.. For her.. only Madhu, malik, Roma, chawl are her own.. She doesn't care of others... And mainly why would you care when you did NOT do anything wrong.. if you start caring of others.. then you are not living but pleasing others.. others always have problem... they will never STOP poking you or taunting you.. If they are not happy.. they don't let anyone live happy...

What you say about not caring about what others think is true.. Sadly it happens many times and in many cases..Very few people have the courage to rise above it. Paddy would have put with her husband's abuse if she didnt know that her husband would kill her daughter.. Paddy had no choice but to run away to save her daughter's life. She didnt think about anything else but saving her daughter. Later when her daughters have grown up people must have talk about it.. (In that too they had help.. May be people never talked about it to their face- being afraid of the saucy tongue of Lady Bheem ) But people must have talked about it behind their backs and they must have heard of it.. Its just that Pads and family have learned to ignore such taunts.. They didnt let themselves get affected by it. I know of a guy who is bitter about a similar situation (not exactly similar). Its easy to say one shouldnt let what others affect you. But willingly or unwillingly it does affect you.. The person I am talking about let it affect him, eventhough he says he doesnt care about what people think. But his attitude to others shows what they say has affected him..

@RK- True.. he respects Paddy now as she is not like his mom who never stands up for anyone. She just is easily manipulated. paddy, did what was right.. and he respects Paddy.. I am sure in future he will even help paddy with Balraj... What did RK say.. you need to earn the respect, not ask it. which paddy earned NOT his mother. What has she done to earn his respect for her???

@respect: Please dont say that statement.. I am seething mad about that statement.. That statement was unwarranted in that situation..

@Radha: I am not her fan either.. But still he can talk to her.. Maybe she wouldnt listen or understand, but has he tried?

If Radunce had stayed steady with her Madhu bhajan and supported Madhu, that would have helped Radunce earn some brownie points.. But she always messes it up. She is just a LOST CAUSE.

Agree..

No matter how much you have been betrayed by your parents. you always stand by them.. ONLY HE CAN TAUNT HER, he can HURT her. But, if someone hurts his mother.. he will not spare that person. Kuku is alive coz.. he has kept Radunce happy... no matter how horrible he must be... RK is just doing his duty and taking care of his responsibility. Unlike his mom who abandoned him.

Agree.. That is the only reason she is still in the mansion..

We seem to be having a never ending discussion.. 😆

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

What you say about not caring about what others think is true.. Sadly it happens many times and in many cases..Very few people have the courage to rise above it. Paddy would have put with her husband's abuse if she didnt know that her husband would kill her daughter.. Paddy had no choice but to run away to save her daughter's life. She didnt think about anything else but saving her daughter. Later when her daughters have grown up people must have talk about it.. (In that too they had help.. May be people never talked about it to their face- being afraid of the saucy tongue of Lady Bheem ) But people must have talked about it behind their backs and they must have heard of it.. Its just that Pads and family have learned to ignore such taunts.. They didnt let themselves get affected by it. I know of a guy who is bitter about a similar situation (not exactly similar). Its easy to say one shouldnt let what others affect you. But willingly or unwillingly it does affect you.. The person I am talking about let it affect him, eventhough he says he doesnt care about what people think. But his attitude to others shows what they say has affected him..

True. It is difficultfor a normal person to cope, if they are ALONE. Family support helps Peaches... And a reason to fight and survive... So as we have seen chawl people are not bothered what they do in their private life. None go interfering like Diputz.. They have to earn their living.. And when one person has not done anything wrong WHY would they shy away... They won't... Both mother-daughter will be chanting their "sankato se veer ho" wala mantra.. They have each other for support. SUPPORT helps... you tackle any problem. And only strong person can survive. paddy had lived with Ballu... for her ballu-free life is SURVIVAL...

@respect: Please dont say that statement.. I am seething mad about that statement.. That statement was unwarranted in that situation..

hahahahhaha.. Okay... You are really pissed with RK. anyways.. I am not going to sweet talk him.. It is that you have already decided to "dislike" him.. So no matter what I say.. you will find something wrong about him. He is flawed.. but he accepts when he is wrong. His major concern is well being of Madhu... Don't tell me, you can't see it through?!!!

@Radha: I am not her fan either.. But still he can talk to her.. Maybe she wouldnt listen or understand, but has he tried?

See they have not shown their past.. what do we know.. he must have tried talking to her a lot.. But she must be so lost in her loss that she must have just ignored him. None hate their parent or refuse to talk to them without a reason. I am sure.. 12 yr old Rishabh had tried talking... But Radunce is total pathetic woman. I just can't stand her.

We seem to be having a never ending discussion.. 😆

Oh, but I am enjoying discussing it with you... It's a healthy discussion. We both are clearing things for each other...

^@decided to dislike RK: Its just that for me the actor and the character are separate... So I see things differently from a phangurl.. Besides, nothing about a bitter man impresses me.. 😊 As long as he learns to grow out of his bitterness, I will remain unimpressed.. For I have always believed that only a weak man grows bitter..

@RK-Radha: No. They havent tried to talk.. RK just shut his heart to her when she remarried.. That much is clear from what has been shown..

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

^@decided to dislike RK: Its just that for me the actor and the character are separate... So I see things differently from a phangurl.. Besides, nothing about a bitter man impresses me.. 😊 As long as he learns to grow out of his bitterness, I will remain unimpressed.. For I have always believed that only a weak man grows bitter..

@RK-Radha: No. They havent tried to talk.. RK just shut his heart to her when she remarried.. That much is clear from what has been shown..

Originally posted by: HopelessLove

@bitter man - So, you have already decided that you don't like bitter man... So unless he become sweet you will not like him. Hahahahahha.. Okay.. I am a phangurl.. and I like him as a character too..

have you read Fifty shades of Grey???

@RK-Radha - Okay. he shut himself up when she remarried. But, he went to her between her re-marriage and death of husband no.1. So, instead of pacifying a kid she just pacified herself by RE-MARRYING!!!😡😡

@bitter man: Do you like bitter men? I mean, what is there to like about them?

@Radha: Agree.. She should have talked to her son about it before taking the first step.. He was 12-yr old.. Not a baby.. She should defi. have talked about it..

@50shades: No.. Have you?

ETA: Have to go do an expt in 5 min.. So we wil lcontinue this later..

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

@bitter man: Do you like bitter men? I mean, what is there to like about them?

@Radha: Agree.. She should have talked to her son about it before taking the first step.. He was 12-yr old.. Not a baby.. She should defi. have talked about it..

@50shades: No.. Have you?

ETA: Have to go do an expt in 5 min.. So we wil lcontinue this later..

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

SD, But he does keep his father's photo in his room which tells me he has forgiven his father...

Overall, I am not impressed with him...

@chawl: Did you read the new article about Madhu not knowing about Pads and Malik not living together? What a CLUNKY plot!.. What do you think others would have thought? Survival? No.