Episode 140 Discussion: 6th Dec 2012 - Page 5

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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0


Hima,

@bold 1
I just don't understand why you doubt your writing skills. 😆 Infact, I always like your articulation.

@bold2
While you spoke on RK that he needs to be forgiving and understanding, let us not forget that Madhu needs to set an example of honesty through her love and understanding as well. By repeatedly being closer to RK's mother, she is repeatedly hurting RK. RK has been overlooking that, but there are always moments for him where he cannot forgive that, because Madhu is that obtuse. Where Madhu fails is, she is all goody -goody with Radhaji, never ever we are shown her asking, Maa aapne ye kaisa socha, maa ye aapne kyon kiya. The writers are waiting for a proper time to open this track when Madhu starts dealing with RAdunce. Tomorrow is another such D Day where RK will be super upset and have another session at the two women's cuddling. But slowly this Rads needs to be redeemed in truer fashion...if they have to show that MAdhu is capable of beating sense into people through her love.

I know one thing...Shiva and Parvati ...Epitome of Love. And they see all and know all. They are able to explain, but when bardashth ke baahar ho jaata hai, they become Rudra...to destroy everything. Sometimes Shiva pacifies Parvati, and at times she is there to pacify him. Loving without knowing the meaning of it is going to be dangerous.


SD,

Thanks...RE Radhaji Bold...That's exactly why I called her idealistic in her understanding, far from reality... I myself can't forgive Radhaji for making a turnaround and trying to send away Madhu
even against her son's wishes...it was a sham calling herself Madhu's 'ma' and not thinking of her life if she had to go back to her maika...any girl however good hearted would at least express her disappointment before forgiving but,not our Madhu...she has to be out of the world and understand Radhaji with no questons...may be partly due to the guilt of what her father did weighing on her and also may be she just makes up for her husbands rudeness...I mean RK hurts his mother so much that it ignites sympathy and pity in Madhu and hence the softness...but,then her this very trait of understanding helps her feel RK's pain and see where he is coming from...it made her fall in love with that man who in turn would cherish her as no one...

Re... Madhu's closeness with his mother which RK doesn't like...I guess he has to bear and learn to live with it just like Madhu lives with RK's rude behavior with his mother which she disapproves...It happens in couples...both don't have same likes and dislikes...and you just can't out rightly cut off with one relation just because the other one doesn't like it... space and freedom is required in a healthy relationship...
Edited by himbin - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42
Hima,

Agree on your last post.

I just answered on Rads towards ATN. Along the same lines. You can check that.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: zoya_naziya

The true RK was BACK!!!


Madhu, I guess was carried away into her own delusional world by the sweet RK behavior in the morning which gave her so high hopes that she planned to confess her love for him and he burst the bubble and brought her back to reality...

That entire scene where she contemplates on how to confess was done very neatly, nicely and kinda cute too with she chatting with an imaginary RK who was being in his character... But I fail to understand and connect with Madhu at times like this when she goes off tangent... She herself voiced out about RK that "tedha hai par mera hai" and yet she follows the conventional route "insaan ke dil tak ka raasta uske pet se hota hai" and "a love letter"!!

RK was clearly frustrated that the Bhatias(Dipz) had poisoned her food, yet he didn't have the strong evidence to frame her and so he just leaves the place and actually appoints a Mushtanda in black for each of the scheming Bhatias...

He was already irritated with the events from yesterday's KC drama and then this food- poisoning drama... To top it all, Madhu commits a stupidity... And as usual, he takes out all his pent-up frustration on her... Uska dimaag jitna kharab hona bardasht kar sakta tha, woh kar chuka tha and madhu's act was the last straw and just like the party incident where again he took out his anger on her, he did today too... The only difference was, that day it was unacceptable and today he gave her a piece of his own mind, so that she understands him... Am sure, he would so sth to make her feel better as usual...

Thank God, Madhu standing upto Dipz was not a one-off thing and she is maintaining giving back to Dipz:):)

Radha finally earned some brownie point from me by saying whatever she said to Dipz...

And Zoe, our much-awaited, most exciting Rads-Madhu apology scenewas shown in the precap !!! Can't wait to watch it!!!😡

Lovely post Zoya, but then again you always write beautifully.

@Bold very true, heck he even made me understand him better. I didn't feel any anger towards his actions today; he made it clear in a perfect way what he wants. RK's cards are on the table and now it is Madhu turn to be smart and play the game well. She might lose few rounds while trying, but at the end she will be victorious (she better be, the entire honor of Rishbala addicts are in her hands).

@Blue, 😆😆😆. I tried to give her some points, but the more I thought about her action the more upset I became. She witnessed the fall of Dipzy, so she changed teams in spilt of second. Now she wants to be part of Madhu's party. I can't stand this selfish woman. She sees how Madhu is winning over RK, so all of sudden she is a Madhu lover, disgusting. Her actions today+tomorrow made me think that Radhu can run for an office and become a MLA or MP. She is at her best when it comes to playing dirty, the woman can be a successful politician.

@Red, oh BOY!!! That precap killed it for me!!! The Baysur singer is waiting for her stage entry tomorrow; I'm stopping at Walgreens to get some earplugs for tomorrow.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Manonids

It seems RK 's love for Madhu would be harsh/burning with his past grudges till the time he settles down emotionally. Madhu was cherishing beautiful moments of her life imagining RK with her journey to confession,😳 but boom!!! 'it busted badly '..RK's harsh reaction was more of the simmering anger towards KC, which he could not vent out earlier but it came out on Madhu despite the fact that she kept the fast with pure and honest intentions.

Madhu perhaps understood his reaction, but its unbelievable that RK believes that Madhu kept the fast for earning respect!!!! Its ridiculous😡...I somehow found the timing of his reaction imperfect ...she only prepared his lunch, not with any intention to please him or earn respect ...,.His harsh reaction seems uncalled for, to me atleast ...or may be the writer could not make it convincing 😕...( i am bit unconvinced with his reaction)...I wonder if he really doubts her real intentions keeping the rituals still???

Madhu virtually/verbally slapped Dips 👏'..Bravo woman '.Aapko toh khush hona chaiye aapke Dewar ka ghar bas raha hai...😆...Madhu seems to have learned dealing with Dips at least verbally ..😆

@bold: He was worried and concerned for her health... He has not slept properly the night before coz she was sick... Then he comes to know in the morning that she was poisoned by one of his so-called family member.. And as he said, in the morning she couldn't even take care of herself but in the afternoon he finds out that she is up and jumping doing her wifely duties(for him she is just being a wife, we know she is in love, Rk does not know it yet), neglecting and being careless about her health... His frustration was quite clear when he said, "koi rasam hai apne shareer ko bhasm karne ke liye "... According to him, she kept traditions and customs,societal conventions above her own health, which maddened him and being RK, his reaction was anything but natural...

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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Zoya,


Beautiful. 🤗
The flow is smooth.
And haan haan haan to your read...


And you know what, the CVs are Mahaa Chaalu. 😎 To show's Madhu's silliness, they dressed RK in her imagination in that pink shirt (girly imagination). Wasn't it wonderful. MAdhu was looking so beautiful.

@Bold, last night after observing the preview my sister asked: what is up with the Pepto-Bismol shirt? I tried to shut her up by replying: can't you see? the man gives another definition to the color of pink!!! She wasn't convinced at all. Well, I think that even in pink Hotty look Hot!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#46
SD, I know you a re a SB fan, but I am sractching my brains out thinking how you learned of RK's dreams re. Madhu.. Enlighten me please?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

It seems everyone in this thread has a way with long posts.. 😊


Leela,

I see your like, but where is your long post? Where are the long lovely posts that we have all got used to reading- 10 pages long ones? Can we expect one soon? Now I have plenty of time to read and enjoy them, and you stopped writing.. Not done!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Zoya,


Beautiful. 🤗
The flow is smooth.
And haan haan haan to your read...


And you know what, the CVs are Mahaa Chaalu. 😎 To show's Madhu's silliness, they dressed RK in her imagination in that pink shirt (girly imagination). Wasn't it wonderful. MAdhu was looking so beautiful.


Thanks Shri, Do I even need to tell what I think of your review? As always, wonderful..🤗 The title said it all👏 And you cleared my doubt regarding Izzat maangi nahi kamaai jaati hai. I was a lil confused if what I thought was right and you said it in your review:)

@pink shirt:The pink was a lil too girly and kinda hurting my eyes... It was quite distasteful for my liking...
But all said and done, am a phangurl and my motto is still "Drool over Hotty.. Bas"

Madhu was beautiful though... Alas, the poor girl couldn't get a compliment as her hubby was busy scolding her..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Red_Opium

Lovely post Zoya, but then again you always write beautifully.

@Bold very true, heck he even made me understand him better. I didn't feel any anger towards his actions today; he made it clear in a perfect way what he wants. RK's cards are on the table and now it is Madhu turn to be smart and play the game well. She might lose few rounds while trying, but at the end she will be victorious (she better be, the entire honor of Rishbala addicts are in her hands).

@Blue, 😆😆😆. I tried to give her some points, but the more I thought about her action the more upset I became. She witnessed the fall of Dipzy, so she changed teams in spilt of second. Now she wants to be part of Madhu's party. I can't stand this selfish woman. She sees how Madhu is winning over RK, so all of sudden she is a Madhu lover, disgusting. Her actions today+tomorrow made me think that Radhu can run for an office and become a MLA or MP. She is at her best when it comes to playing dirty, the woman can be a successful politician.

@Red, oh BOY!!! That precap killed it for me!!! The Baysur singer is waiting for her stage entry tomorrow; I'm stopping at Walgreens to get some earplugs for tomorrow.


Zoe, no political party would want such a rolling stone... Na jaane kab party badal le...

@precap: I am a bit relieved that RK makes his entry and am sure he would say sth caustic to balance out the sweetness she is going to shower on our screens..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I actually liked today's episode despite the mixed array of feelings that it left in me. On one side I was so happy to see Madhu flying so high with her new found feelings of love and admiration for RK and on the other side I was quite sad to see her hopes and dreams crushed by RK within matter of seconds. I did not see anything wrong with Madhu who was just being her happy cheery self and relishing the joy of being in love and trying to leave a lasting impression for the one she loves with a sweet and sentimental gesture. Although it is outdated in this time and age, she feels that a little thing as a love letter really does make a difference and forges ahead with it. I loved her sweet gesture and the effort that she put in getting her thoughts and feelings poured out in a paper. She is truly, madly in love with RK and just does not want to be away from him and accepts him the way he is with all his nakres and badmaashi. DD was just brilliant in portraying a girl who is giddy in love and in altered state where her life is focused on RK and can't bear being separated from him.


So, yet again Dipali goes scot-free from the whole poisoning the Sargi investigation. But one good thing that came out of this whole fiasco was that Radha asking her to shut up. Finally, Radunce see Dips for who she really is and not who she has been pretending to be. Atleast that's what it looked like from her curt response to Dips. I think she is more pissed off because Dips threw her Sargi out in the trash and tried to cover up the entire act. So, RK has another informer watching over Dips just like he has one each for Sikky and Kukku? Clearly, RK mansion has now become a noteworthy place for all kinds of nautanki and weirdness. He did not take a drastic step as this to employ a bodyguard even when his life was in danger while he received extortion calls and for him to act like this clearly tells me that he wants to guard Madhu and has put her safety above all else. He gets restless when he doesn't see her in his room and all of this shows his obsession to keep her safe and not let her go out of his sight. What would happen if something were to happen to her or if she leaves him in the future when he has realized his love for her. That is a scary thought is n't it? I am thinking it will be more on the lines of "hell hath no fury" for RK and his rage over losing her (his possession) and obsession over getting her back is something that Madhu should prepare herself for. She has fallen for a guy who is beyond prediction and mysterious in his mannerisms that will always leave her intrigued. He has so much depth to his personality which some people might find it disconcerting but I think that's where Madhu will come into picture with her absolute conviction to surround him with her tenderness, warmth and love.


We actually saw that today that despite her just recovering from her illness she goes on to prepare a special lunch for him and RK being his usual unpredictable self just crushed all her efforts by throwing the food away and asking her to take a good look at herself and the situation she is in. He was a bit harsh but still her health and wellness was his utmost concern when he was scolding her for not taking care of herself and stubbornly keeping the fast and making him break it when he clearly does not believe in any of those rituals and gives a good valid reason for his lack of belief. I could not get mad or angry at him for what he said because whatever he said was for her own good and I have to agree with him when he said respect needs to be earned and not forcefully asked by keeping fast for husband's long life and staying hungry all day. His mother followed all of those rituals and fasts but still did not stay true to any of her morals and values by living for the man she married despite him being no more and the son she had out of that marraige. RK has scars on his soul and he has openly admitted that to her as the reason for his sometimes cold, distant and unremorseful behaviour. So, by now Madhu should know the man she is dealing with and I think she is on the right track getting to know him. It is a hard path and an uphill battle to get through to this man but I think that Madhu knows it's worth the effort and hence she won't give up.


My guess is that RK believes that being in love is an illusion and that it only leads to catastrophe because you can't make a good decision from that place. But I think that being in love is one of the great joys of life. It brings people together and gives them the kick they need to get over obstacles in their developing relationship. Yes, you can make bad decisions because of love's blindness, but you can also make good ones. What he needs is an extra jolt of passion to get over his inhibitions and move a step further into what life has to offer and I am positive that RK will soon realize that and it won't be too long before he confesses his love for his biwi.
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