Secrets...destroy a relationship or strengthen it?

I do share.

I have had 2 guy best friends till now..and yeah actually though I have had told most of my secrets but I dint share all..I mean I must have shared all wid my girl best friendz as sumtimes guys tend to act like jerks and wont understand what the girls feel..For Eg My Love for Edward Cullen[THIS IS JUST RANDOM:P]Dose guys make fun of me and dey think I am actually mad and all to be in love wid a fictional character..Actually they cant think like girls..

Though i have never been in a relationship but I am quite sure the guy generally do not tell everything to the girls cause dey have too many embarrasing thoughts and memories which they wouldnt want like to share it [especially to their respective girlfriends:P]..This is just my observation.>Doesnt need to be true..so if like a guy tellss his gf that he thinks dis girl is hot and den dey will end up fighting and all..Ok dis is just a small issue..:))though..

secrets dont destroy relationship well honestly it depends on da secret. if it's something relle PERESONAL den it doesnt detroy da relation BUT if its not DAT personal den yess secrets can detroy relationships.

it strengtens dem a bit like yur COMPLETLY trust yur partner and yur telling dem yur secret cuz if you open up to dem they open up to yu too. so yee.

is it dangereous to trust someone completely? - - kinda and not relle i mean if you've known dat person for like FOREVEERR den no it's not dangerous but if yu JUST got to know da person and yu trust dem COMPLETLY den yeess it's dangerouss.. actuallyy very dangerous.

Its better they find out now, than later

i had shared one of my biggest secret with some of my so called online friends because i trusted them, in return they criticized me badly using offensive words, blocked me in messenger, completely ignore my emails and ignore me on facebook....i shared one of my biggest secrets with my so called online best friend who told that secret to her sister and mom.....i am no longer friends with but she never shared any one of her secrets with me....she told me that i am her best friend then she completely starts ignoring me since 2007.....so i broke up the friendship with her and a lot of online friends who did the samething.....my biggest secret is my boyfriend.....i never happily say that i am in a relationship, just whenever people read my status ask for inquiries and then they don't believe my boyfriend is my boyfriend due to his profession than that's where the sarcastic criticism takes place.

i had shared most secrets with my boyfriend.....he kept them a secret and still does.....few of his secrets i figured out on my own with his behavior patterns and i kept it a secret.....only one secret he figured out on his own, kept it a secret among us both.