Agreed! Of course given the advantage of knowing that she herself is guilty of hiding a big secret from Dutta, we are absolutely justified in feeling that she perhaps loses a bit of her "moral" right to be demanding an answer. And in that tone!!! No-No!
But as I am the devil's advocate, i still believe that her secret and the secret aayisaheb wants to bury, forever, cannot be brought on the same pedestal.
Adi, I am not comparing the two secrets on same pedestal, I am just saying both are wrong....and dng one right doesnt justify ur other wrong, no matter how trivial it might look in front of other.....Plus Naku doesnt know whether her secret is much worse than AS....Probably AS is over reacting and her secret is less intense than Nakus....So again, my issue is the tone...dont demand....urge, try filling sense in AS...but dnt use that tone!!
Of course, Aayisaheb could have a much valid reason to shield dutta, but nakusha has never asked anyone to keep mum about her secret like aayisaheb wants her to (woh toh Dutta ki kismat hi aisi hai ki koi, including anna's men haven't teased him about the magical beauty of his wife 😆😆).
😆😆😆....I really feel like Hugging Dutta here!! Bechaara!! 😆
But coming to the topic....whether Naku asks anyone to keep mum or not, Adi, that doesnt justify her tone....mum or not, her secret is still lurking and Dutta deserved to know it long time back!!!
I completely agree with you that she kept mum about this when Dutta probed. She could have simply come clean, but i give the benefit even in that case simply because he began by saying how her being "not so good-looking" was one of her assets.
Totally with you on this Adi...I said exactly the same thing when that scene happened!! and I can see where she was coming from...How can she tell him the truth when he pops up about the "Beauty" part again in front of her....Although, I would have hugged her to be brave enough to admit it,. but if she didnt, I can understand bcoz Dutta yet again talked about "being non-beauty was her string point", so, tht again puts her bravery out of circulation....But again, I wasnt asking her to "come clean" in that scene...If she would have just kept "Mum" ...No issues...better to keep mum than lie or talk rubbish....But what does she say - "Mein kya bolegi saab???"...Adi this wasnt acceptable from any point.....Just imagine from Dutta's POV...or even viewers perspective....U have just done a big folly and u r being asked an explanation...and for such a big act/folly, u have such an insignificant answer - "Mein Kya bolegi saab????"....thats preposterous....that reaction was wrong...can get anyone to an edge.....what would dutta feel, that u just ran away, u a woman who has been too verbose in ur confession about ur love, then I have a right to know what happened....silence has never helped....she cannot tell him the truth, I get it.....but that sentence, was like an insult to Dutta's proposal, his feelings and the big move that he made with all his love!!!.....
But, being the Devil's Advocate- let me use the theory of "Mens Rea" to support my point. Mens Rea deals with the "guilty mind" but in terms of 'intent'. On the one hand you have a person who has absolutely no intention to speak up the truth, even on being caught and confronted - twice- once by naku and then by Dutta- a person who in turn asks Naku to keep mum about everything. And then you've another person who is keeping a very big secret too, but definitely INTENDS to reveal it because she knows she cannot step into the new-found relationship of love without being transparent and truthful and her support systems aren't really encouraging her in anyway to face the consequences of her decision to reveal it to a rather impulsive person. Can you hold both of them equally guilty?
I am not comparing Naku's secret and AS...I am not comparing NAKU and AS also!! I am just talking about tone...wrong is wrong even if 1000 ppl do it and right is right even if 1 person follows it....Even if AS's secret is more intense than Naku's, which I believe is the case (frankly, I dnt think putting on soot is that big a dhoka, just bcoz Dutta has made a hue and cry about beauties, its becoming one big deal), but that does not make Naku's wrong - right....and keeping that in mind and the fact tht Naku does not know the intensity of AS's truth, she cannot use that tone!!!...It might be so (from where Naku stands), that AS's truth is not as intense as Naku's but AS reaction is different from Naku....For the gal that Naku stands, she intends to reveal the truth but for what AS stands, she doesnt...two ppl having diff reaction just because they are two diff ppl....and talking about her intention, then she shldnt have agreed to his proposal at all, till she she is sure that once her secret is out, his proposal wuld still stand, she shld have not accepted....That is wrong...why give him hopes when u r not sure he wuld wanna marry u after ur secret is out....why tell Bappa that if u want me to dawn the soot after my marriage too, then I wuld do so....why marry him, if u r gng to dawn the soot all ur life...if Bappa tells u to not remove the soot, then dont marry!!!...he didnt tell u to "Marry AND put on soot"....
About the tone- yes it does not sound right at all- but we're judging that tone based on our existing advantage of knowing her truth, without even witnessing the entire conversation between the two. Remember, she is confronting her mother-in-law, who holds a lot of authority to deny her the answers- whether the justification is valid or not for this denial. Yet, Naku knows that if not coaxed she would never share those reasons that are perhaps giving her so much grief from within. Just as Baji was forced to let Naku break her silence and share what he could visibly see was eating her up, Nakusha too wants to get Aayisaheb to share her mind. I do not think we should read it as being "authoritative" to just know the secret. She is concerned about Aayisaheb too and so, in an event when she knows how hell bent the lady is about destroying all evidence of the secret - Nakusha has no other option but to force this truth out - she is very well aware that Dutta will catch up with this truth faster than Aayisaheb can even hide it!
I would agree with the Bold part Adi...Desperate times calls for desperate measures....but it deters the viewers from what they know of Naku...shakes there belief in her!! But yes, I agree, till we watch the whole scene, we cannot comment....but if what I am thinking is what would happen in that scene then I wouldnt pressurize AS the way she did, in that tone....atleast not so soon in the game.....the desperate times would come a little late when things are really desperate...in a days time, I wuldnt become desperate...I wuld become worried!!...
And no, I am not defending Nakusha's guilt at all - but we must not connect this secret with the one she is shielding, because though her reasons for keeping mum are foolish, she is very very aware that the relationship needs to be transparent and she will eventually speak up her truth (I hope much before they turn old only gazing at each other 😛😆🤣). Yet, why does it never bother anyone that this man - who is so powerful - has never bothered to ever check on her background in terms of what was really bothering her or sit down with her and really talk to her about her past! 😊 It would encourage her to speak up, knowing that he is interesting in knowing her as deeply as she wanted to know him!
Oh! They need to talk.....Real convos...Not just holding hands and eyelocks...romance does not build a relationship, it just is an icing on the cake....but pls first bake the cake Tasha!! 🤣
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